I asked him out, finally.

To clarify, this was me, a black girl asking out an asian guy

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>>36492634
>He said he doesn't know
That's code word for "No".
You got fucking denied, honey.

>>36492855

Same. It's not good either way that he has doubts.

>>36492634
Why not go for a male of your own species?

>>36492855
Well, he and I have both never been in relationships before, nor our first kiss. I don't know.

>>36492892
Who knows? I like almost everyone, I just have a slight preference.

is he a chad or a robot?

>>36492634
Nice blog, retard. Get this shit out of here, namefag.

>>36492914
You can't see that "I don't know" is exactly how a guy like that would turn you down?
>guy sees you're a shaking mess
>"Oh fuck she's gonna take no really badly"
>"uh, I don't know"

We all know it hurts, but you gotta keep a hold of reality or you'll fuck yourself up.

>>36492995
>girl asks him out
chad

>>36492995
He's definitely not a Chad, he's pretty weird and shy, but not so much to be a robot. Should I post pic and let you guys decide?

>asking out a guy over video chat
You should've known you were gonna be rejected from the start

>>36493063
I bet he would fucking love that

>>36493051
You may be right, anon. He's kind enough, but I'll be okay with being friends.

Even if you get denied, be proud of yourself for the fact you managed to ask someone out. I'm proud of you too, for as much as that counts coming from some shitbrain 'tard on the internet. Don't discount your victory in this since most here can't even manage to get that far. Good luck in the future, it'll get easier.

>>36492855
Yeah, that's what people say when they're afraid of you.

Can't say yes because that'd be lying.

Can't say no because that'd hurt your feelings and you might get mad at him.

"idk" is just good enough for people to gracefully bow out of the interaction so they can start working on engineering a scenario in which they can't help but avoid you.

>>36493101
Why would he be afraid? I'm decently stable.

>>36493122
You asked him out over video chat, for starters.

Go OP!!!!! That takes some bravery

>>36493133
Well, I kind of had to, we don't live near each other.

Plus, texting him that would've been completely idiotic.

>>36493101
A friend of mine got an 'idk yet' as an answer to asking a girl if she loved him or what, since he was chatting with her in hopes of dating her. Soon after she made up her mind and he successfully popped her V, so I'd say there are cases where an idk is really an idk.
Only caveat for my friend was that the girl didn't want to do 69, but I guess she was afraid the guy would want to be on top and he's a big fellow.

>>36493122
Afraid was a bad word, more like averse to dealing with the awkward position you put him in.

>>36493154
If you don't live near each other why are you asking him out? Only deluded people who've never been in a relationship think ldr work

>>36493201
Oh, I understand now. I hope I didn't make him feel too awkward.

>>36493226
My friends have had LDRs work for them well, at least 3 of them have been together for a year plus.

>>36493180
A girls idk is a different thing entirely from a guy's idk I'll tell ye that right now.
Girls don't want to be seen as easy and they typically have all kinds of insincere games that must be played (the lonelier they are, the more likely to be an exception)
If a guy said it its as simple as he wanted to avoid the question

>>36493095
>Implying he'll ever want to be friends with your crazy ass after the fit you just threw
Lol

>>36493298
It wasn't much of a fit, I was just shaky and nervous and stuttering. I should've been more confident or probably not asked at all.

>>36493290
Yeah I guess you are right, I really don't know, I'm a guy myself but I just speak my mind and offend people most of the time.

>making friends
>hope to use friendship to turn it into something more
>hope to use friendship to get laid
You are manipulative and disgusting human being.

>>36493375
I just wanna be happy, man. I really liked this guy for a while.

>>36492634
Be forward with what you want, literally all it takes

>>36493408
Nigger bitch, leave my race alone. Asian cocks are meant for asian pussies. Fuck off disgusting cotton picker. Do not pollute us.

>>36493434
I was. I said I was romantically interested in him

>>36493408

Nothin left to do but suck it up.

>>36493551
You're right, man. If he doesn't like me, he doesn't like me. I'm gonna be okay.

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>>36492634
How do i get a black girl? I'd love to do the root beer float.

35
6'4
220lbs fit
6 mile training runs daily
Decent body still
Got all my hair and teeth

Why can't I get a 19yo black girl?

>>36493478
It's your fellow smalldickian who betrays your race if he agrees to this.

>>36493624
Uh, I'm not sure my man. You gotta probably put yourself out there. They like confident men most of the time. Just don't compare them to food, they think that's corny.

>>36493624
Lather yourself in KFC sauce and smoke Newport menthols

>>36493051
>>36492855
>>36493070
It's called don't bother with relationships. They are for horrible people

>>36493731
KFC is fucking nasty, Popeye's is better.

>>36493881
Who are you talking to here, anon? I don't think I understand.

>>36493883
>Popeye's
>not church's
Sure you're black?

>>36493971
Hundred percent sure, 'non.

Update, he's awake, and I apologized if I made his night awkward. He was just surprised.

>>36493101
People need to grow some balls

>Afraid of someone
>Because they might be hurt and get mad

Ffs if someone really loves you in a respectful way they dont care if they are ever in a relationship with you, they are glad you exist and that they know you

Engineering an excuse to avoid is straight up pussy mind games

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>>36492634
>over video call.

>>36494279

see >>36493154


orgo

>>36494237
Yes, he's not going to say "yea you were so awkward" he's going to act like what are you talking about.
Its not an update if youre still bringing up uncomfortable shit and he's still being avoidant.

>>36494237

are you fat?
this is important
fatblox

>>36494438
He's usually pretty straightforward with me, anon. I'm so nervous.

>>36494463
I'm immense, hence the name.

>>36494617
Lmao, you're not me. But I'm not fat, I'm a lil chubby.

>>36492634
Are his initials DW?

>>36494668
Nope. SN.

To give you more hope, there is a possibility he is afraid of a relationship. He might not know how to deal with that but still likes you.

>>36492634
i want to tell one guy that i like him, but i'm just so fucking scared. what if this ruins our friendship? help me gull

>>36494520
I don't know why.
You should be wearily resigned by now.
If you wanna keep clinging to the idea that he's avoiding the subject for some otherworldly reason then you're just making it as bad on yourself as possible.

>>36494739
Well, I was scared too. Shaking and shivering and such. Try and be confident, or just be your nervous self. It's okay to be shy when approaching a guy.

>>36494709
You're just like the guy in question, afraid to hurt someone's feeling and giving them hopeless hope instead but you meant well I guess.

>>36494709
I don't know. I'm tired. I'm scared. I don't want to scare him or force him into anything he doesn't want. He said he likes me too.

>>36493883
>tfw my city just got a Popeye's
There's a 30+ club in the area that's pretty much all black, maybe I'll start there and see how they interact.

>>3649485
>I don't want to scare him or force him into anything he doesn't want.
Allright, that's a good attitude, maybe try to get him to know that, but i'm definetely not an expert.

>>36494943
I let him know. He says he's a little confused and doesn't know what he wants to do with it.

>>36494959
How many variations of passive no do you need, if you really care about the guy then don't put him in a position where he has to spell it out.

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>>36492810
I see a lot of people trying to make you feel bad. I'm a conventionally very attractive asian guy (yeah, you'll just have to take my word for it, sorry I'm not risking posting a pic here) and I've dated 2 black girls who I was VERY attracted to, more so than white or asian girls. I've cared about them so much to the point of losing sleep over them. Both of them told me that they didn't feel attractive compared to other races and I didn't know how to tell them they were absolutely beautiful. I think braids are hella cute and curly hair on a black girl makes me go wild. Even if things don't work out with this guy maybe you can have hope that guys like me exist.

>>36495080
>>36494856
>he said he likes me too

?????

>>36494800
is there a way to know that he likes me, so that it doesnt turn out to be one sided when i confess..? :/
he talks to me a lot and such, sometimes comes to me when he's stressed... don't know if it's just friendship to him... any clear hints?

>>36495177
I'm not exactly sure myself. I wouldn't check the internet because some articles seem pretty vague. Sorry, anon.

>>36495225
yeah i wouldn't too. i'm just having a hard time, hes not the type to show his emotions so easily so it's kind of difficult to tell

>>36495279
Yeah, I understand that. I knew a guy who was stoic as fuck and he never really showed he was depressed.

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>>36495177
>ywn have a girl nervous about talking to you
>ywn have a girl post on a meme board asking for advice on how to ask you out
Why live?

>>36495353
yeah it can be super difficult, anyways hopefully i have the courage to confess to him one day

>>36495177
>don't know if it's just friendship
It's never fucking "just friendship"
Any close male friend you have EVER had would very happily get into a relationship with you if you offered it.

>>36495640
OK enough about you thanks sweetheart.

>>36495162
What the fuck else was he gonna say for fuck sake you just really want to put yourself through this huh.
>he said he doesn't know but he likes me
There is the most standard feelings first honesty second thing that any betaish guy would come out with for a gentle let down but why the fuck am I bothering you're just gonna cling desperately to any shit nugget of hope that you can invent.