Dynamics in gay relationships

I'm a 23 year old gay guy and have been with my bf for 4 years. We have a weird dynamic not only because of the gay thing but he's double my age. He's kind of handsome and is very wealthy so I'm really into it. We dated secretly for the first year but now my friends and parents know and have met him and stuff. I've been living with him in his downtown loft for the last 2 years and it's basically life on easy mode. He's also away for work a lot and I basically get to spend my time browsing this website and playing games. He buys me literally any game or console I want and knows I'm loyal and would never cheat because I'm basically a fucking loser. I'm just not fat and look younger than I actually am haha. I know it won't last forever but feels good for now.

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Sounds like you're on the wrong board

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>>36487104
>Be gay robot
>Get with another gay robot
>Live like pic related

>>36487219
Yikes, that's disgusting

>>36487161
I'm not even gay and want your life...
Would be 100 times better than living a lonely life with my broke ass parents.

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>>36487161
fuck, you got it good

only difference between you and me is that instead of asking my older, well-endowed, wealthy bf to buy me games or consoles, I'd ask him to buy me books, weed, LSD, magic mushrooms, benzos, DMT, salvia and peyote

>>36487258
honestly, same

>>36487315
I used to smoke a lot of weed but he hated it. He doesn't care if I drink though. I used to have gay friends my age and would go out with them but they were huge coke heads and any night I hung out with them after a few lines I would just go home feeling like shit. So I just cut them off because I was too awkward to tell them what my problem was.

>>36487351
Dude, I'm not even sure why you're in this thread still. Let alone this board lmao

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>>36487351
oh yeah, fuck coke

tried once

not worth

luckily the bump was free bc my best friend paid it for me

shit was bro tier

that night was pretty great

ended up in a college party with DJ music

some random qt Asian girl noticed me raging hard and grabbed my arms to put them around her waist, scooting her body into me

was like that for a good 15-20 minutes

I fucked up though, hard

at the end of the party, when everybody was walking back to their dorms or apartments

instead of composing myself, pretending to be a normie for just a couple seconds

and telling her "Hey, mind if I walk you home tonight?" like a normal, healthy young man

I went full /r9k/ mode and told her "Hey anon-chan, I am tripping on acid, high off my ass and took a line of coke tonight. You down to go to my friend's suite and smoke some weed and/or take a line of coke? No pressure, you don't have to take any if you don't want, honestly I'm just trying to smoke more dank kush."

needless to say, she said "Nah, I'm good. Thanks though."

Even then, I could have maybe (?) recovered and asked a follow-up question like "Oh, that's chill! Hey, I had a great time dancing and getting to know you tonight, Anon-chan, mind if I walk you home tonight?"

But I didn't.

I just went "Oh, ok, cool.", then immediately got distracted by this other friend of mine who I hadn't seen in a while and I just walked straight over to talk to her, thinking that qt Asian girl who danced with me would hang around for a couple minutes. But when I finished talking to my friend and turned around, she was gone.

Fuck, I fucked up. It was my one shot.

I don't think I'm ever going to get another golden chance like that again.

honestly though, my party rager mode was more so bc I was already tripping hard on LSD and had taken several blunts of weed beforehand rather than the comparatively minor effect of that one baby bump of coke I took

>>36487575
That's rough, I literally have no self control on blow and the come down is the absolute worse for me.
I also hate that feeling of being overwhelmingly fucked up because once I start freaking out or panicking, I can't stop and just end up coming off as a fucking retard.
In the morning I just flashback to all the dumbass shit I did and said and spend my day cringing. It's brutal.

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>>36487575
>fucked up on mixture of drugs
>go to college party
>dance your ass off and get attention from woman
>too stupid to realize not everyone is cool with drugs
>act like a drug dealer from 80's PSA videos
>instead of trying to fix the situation go immediately to talk to another person
>asian qt thought you were husling drugs and since she wasn't interested you went on to next customer
>bails the scene

Failed normie

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>>36487351

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>>36487575
(cont.)


went back to my best friend's suite that night (was like 2 am when we finally KO'ed) and him, me and another bro-tier friend of mine (who had been tripping on acid, weed and a couple benzos that night I think) all ate like 3 microwaved hot dogs each with the munchies we had from both all the weed we smoked + the comedown effect of the acid

unfortunately, my best friend died recently (he was supposed to graduate this spring, already had a scholarship and/or internships lined up for after-grad and shit)

my other bro-tier friend left college

I got kicked out for my shit grades bc suicidal depression

life can be a real shitter sometimes

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hOP_x9JK1-g

>>36487683
>use copious amounts of drugs
>fail college
>"Man life sure is shit"
Nah man, you're the shit, maybe if you had focused on studying instead of partying your ass off you wouldn't have failed

Failed normie, get out ree and all that

>>36487704
He said he had suicidal depression anon did you even read

>>36487713
G-gee i wonder where he got that from?

I sure hope the drugs had nothing to do with it

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>>36487726
I actually left college twice

the first time, after freshman year

I didn't take any hard drugs or drink alcohol at the time

I smoked weed, took brownies maybe 4 times at most that entire year

took an approved medical leave for a couple years bc I was pretty close to buying a shotgun, walking over to the mountains/forested areas close to my school one night, and blowing my brains out

for context, one of my closest friends (not the same best friend who died recently, a different one) had been raped and I tore myself up over not being able to stop it and feeling like I had failed my friend, who I considered basically family

that, plus I already had mental shit that I had been festering since my elementary years

returned to that same college after 2 years for another semester, but what do you know, half-way into the semester the urge to blow my brains in come again

I would even walk the most convoluted ways around school to get to class that would avoid me being noticed by people

eventually, I just stopped attending classes (like I had done 2 years before)

the few times that I did acid plus the one time in my entire life that I took coke was during a summer of those 2 years that I was on a medical leave (not attending school) and had visited campus to chill with my friend who recently died

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>>36487841
That's real neato and all, does that have anything to do with Dynamics in gay relationships or did you just come here to share your pity story?

Everyone has their stories, keep it to yourself or share it on some feels

>>36487881
I liked his story, I for one feel a lot better about being a useless gold digger!

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>>36487881
in case you were unaware, sometimes good breads can go in tangents

to get back on topic

here's a question I have:

Can somebody give me the quick and dirty rundown on the dynamics of gay relationships vs relationship with a trans gf or trap dressing waifu feminine gay guy and their masculine bf?

>>36487104
They vary with the people who are in them.

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>>36487881
>>36487914
bc I want a qt trap waifu gf like video related

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wR3Z3uSZIl4

or, alternatively, I'd be willing to become a qt trap waifu gf like video-related if, in exchange, I got a good deal like >>36487161 has

>>36487890
>"i want pretty things, ill just leech off of this fellow until his well runs dry"
>"it's mutual, he gets to stick it in my shitter"
>"im not a whore, it is items not cash!"

At least you have self awareness to realize you're useless

>>36487914
Two guys relationship is basically the easiest relationship ever, men understand each other with ease if they make slightest effort for it
>"bro you wanna fuck before we go to X?"
>"hmm, sure why not"

>>36487943
Since when are video games and anime figs "pretty things" lmao

>>36487986
Whatever moe kawaii you weeaboos call your figurines

>>36487933
autismo detected, he is obviously asking about the most common dynamics/differences from straight relationships

>>36487161
I'm so triggered by this post I don't even know why. Can you post a pic of your face or at least body? I wanna know if I have what it takes.

>>36488050
Lol I'm not really comfortable posting a face pic on this board especially after giving my life story but if you have a snapchat that you wanna post here I can add you

>>36488013
Just meant that vidya and animu aren't really all that expensive in comparison to what I could be asking for

>>36488198
You're still a fucking whore AND a weeb.
Kill yourself faggot
/thread

>>36487104
Gays and lesbos aren't robots, they can acquire relationships easily and are coddled by society.

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>>36488198
>"Hey my prices are reasonable so it is okay to be a whore"
Whatever helps you sleep at night

I'm not quite sure what you mean. Like, who's the "woman"? Usually it's whoever takes it up the ass, isn't it? I'm dating a guy and he's definitely the girl in the relationship. Better at cleaning and stuff than I am and gives really good head. It's almost like always having a friend over, though, outside of the domestic stuff like chores. We watch a lot of movies and tv and play video games together all the time and do other fun stuff. He badgered me into buying Overwatch so we play that a lot and he gets grumpy because he plays way more than me but I'm better (because I've been playing FPSes since I was a kid and most of them were more skill-intensive than this game).

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>>36488375
>coddled by society
Do straight people actually think this or is this anon just autistic.

>>36488375
>straight
You have more dating opprtunities than us faggot.

>>36488375
>relationships
hookups, yes. relationships, absolutely not.

Imagine listening to a Car Seat Headrest record.
It's basically that.

If you've listened to Car Seat Headrest and enjoyed it, you know what it's like to be in a homosexual relationship.

>>36488467
Pretty much this, normal and healthy relationships are so rare for gays.
Like does >>36487161 seriously sound like an actual relationship to you guys? Because it's not, it's an arrangement and it's so fucking common with gay dudes for some reason.

It's like having a girlfriend, except your girlfriend is a dude and you get a dick rammed up your ass once in a while.

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>>36488568
Leave the cute gay neet alone man!

>>36488589
>cute
>gay
>neet
Pick one

>>36487104
I've never been in a straight relationship so I wouldn't know but I look at tinder threads or relationship greentext stories and stuff and I feel bad for straight bros.

I can just bee myself; none of the dumb relationship tropes and bullshit mind games that normies relate to apply to us.

Things like, who's the big spoon, who fucks whom, who is vulnerable and fragile, that would usually be decided wholesale by gender roles, can be independently redefined and renegotiated at any time according to our needs and preferences.

That is normal. I'm sure a lot of hetero couples are like that, but seems to me that most straights in my age cohort are obsessed with enacting fairly strict gendered narratives. They're not beeing themselves enough, in other words.

I'm chill and low drama and so is he. We talk openly and decide for ourselves what is best.

There totally are some gay couples where one guy is the man and the other is the woman, it's a meme to argue otherwise, but most are not like that.

For me the whole thing takes place kind of outside the robot-normie spectrum. I'm not a robot because I have a good personality and I'm OK looking; but I've been NEET for 2 years, was khv into my twenties, dropped out of school because of mental health crap, have no normie friends, and I date older guys so I'm definitely not a normie.

The guy I am with is 41 so he is also outside of that whole teen-movie type caste system that is central to the analysis of relationships on this board.

>>36488735
I've dated women and my current boyfriend and I definitely like him better than any of the girls I dated. They were always very immature because society says it's okay for women to act like children. It feels more natural being around him, though. My one gripe is he gets upset if he thinks I'm ogling or fantasizing about a woman. There are some characters I can't play in games because it upsets him.

>>36488770
That's extra as fuck about the games thing, he sounds nuts

>>36488770
>society says it's okay for women to act like children
I agree. My best friend is straight (not a "nice guy" either) and seemingly every girl he's with is a flighty tantrum-throwing trainwreck. That sounds awful. Sometimes we literally ask ourselves "what did she mean by this?"

That has never happened to me. Being with him feels like the easiest, most natural thing in the world.

>>36488824
It's a little annoying but when I compare his crazy levels to those of any of my exes, I can live with it.
>>36488848
"flighty tantrum-throwing trainwreck" seems like a pretty accurate description of every woman under 40, and many of them over it. Other than my grandmother, pretty much every woman I know is like that. It's nice not feeling like I'm dating a child.

>>36488433
You got it better than ugly people, all the hate you get is self deserved by your loud minority and ridiculous pride parades
Oh and harshly condemned by the law, so wipe that jizz off your eyes and man up

>>36488970
You have a point desu, now that we have largely won the fight for equal rights and reached critical mass re: social acceptance (still some issues but will work itself out within a couple generations) I wish the media would let it go and let us do our own thing.

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>>36489048
Yep, but i think media is going to unintentionally (or intentionally no idea of their motives apart from getting views and revenue) fuck lgbt and minorities over

Media is propping white straight males up as some demons that rub their hands behind closed doors and plot the demise of all who are not like them

And the minorities and lgbt are eating it up like cupcakes and getting all riled up in flight or fight, BLM riots are a perfect example of uneducated people working themselves up to a frenzy against the big bad white man

Lgbt bullshit is trying to make a white guy going "eww" when he sees gays kiss to equal him throwing rocks at the couple or some shit, we live in age of outrage where everything needs a reaction, and the stronger reaction the better for views

Click bait and other shit are inflating every oppositions opinions for wow effect, some even semi famous person says anything in opposition to what the lgbt and minorities are doing and they get labeled as Hitler reborn,
"is this man a nazi?!, read his outrageous comments on page 3!" and it end up being something along the lines "i don't watch gay porn, for me it doesn't do anything"

Eventually it might lead to us and them mentality where even the sane straight white people will just give up on trying to get along and will turn to some more drastic measures offered by white supremacists that have been fanning the flames along with the media and lgbt/BLM shitheads

>>36489160
Meanwhile they import more and more muslims and cover it up when they actually do attack gays because (surprise) their culture doesn't like gay people. What a sick society that points at the man voicing his opinion as evil and homophobic, but protects the man killing for that same opinion.

>>36489160
This is a huge problem but I think at this point, for better or worse, it's about much more than gay men. We are not front and center of the social justice movement anymore. It used to be that "gay" was more salient than "white male" but you just need to look at SJW perception of people like Milo or Peter Thiel to see that that's changing. As someone on twitter said, now it's more like "intersectional feminist radical islam" vs "anime nazis". Much bigger focus on things like racism, free speech, islamophobia etc. As far as LGBT, people are still fighting for transgender rights (which is good) but even that is being subverted and folded into feminism and tumblr gender identity stuff.

Whatever I mean. what can you do. I'm a white male and I'm exclusively attracted to white males so I guess I know which side I'm on. I just hope the crazies won't destroy society (even more).

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>>36489191
Yep, that's the downside of 3rd wave feminism handing out "get out of blame free cards" to all who aren't majority

>any religion apart from a off-shoot of Christianity? here's your card
>any other skin color apart from white? here's your card
>sexuality or gender that wasn't considered a norm in 1970? here's your card

>"boss person, Muslim just killed a homosexual in the park, what do we do?!"
>"what color was the homosexual?"
>"white?..."
>"2 cards on 1, Muslim wins, bury the story and throw some dirt on white men"
>"yes mein fuhreress!"

And why aren't the feminists voicing their outrage on how lgbt and women are treated in middle-east?

I thought they wanted the multicultural mixing pot to be global, why then do they ignore the wrong doings on the places where their help would actually be needed?

Guess it's easier to just yell at pacified provider white men and call the devils and what not knowing they won't hack your head off for it or beat you to a bloody pulp

>>36489293
It's always fun to play "guess the minority" when something bad happens. Journalism outlets seem to have this nasty habit of covering up the race or religion of any minority who commits violent crimes. So you have to look and see what they aren't saying to figure out what they are. Like when CNN was showing a silhouette of the Cleveland shooter instead of his actual picture, and not mentioning his race in the description. Might be kind of important to know that the guy who just shot someone and might do it again is black. Unfortunately I'm only biscum so I don't even get a full card because I like women too.

>>36489283
Don't worry before they reach a point where they could do actual damage they will have already forced the presidents hand in sending in the big boys

The president cannot afford a full scale civil war without opportunist countries jumping in to take their slice of the cake

So before it reaches that point the defense boss man is going to ask the presidents go ahead, and if the president is Trump you can bet your ass they will get it

Hope you raised your kids better than to be looting rioters because when pacifying a riot there is always at least some casualties (being trampled, hitting your head when someone pushes you, riot cop on adrenaline bashing you in the nogging a little too hard etc)

But still it's going to set back lgbt and feminism movement a lot and if someone in high seat of power wants they might piggy back some reforms that have already been gained away from them when they make new rules to prevent violent rioting in the future

Hell might be bans on how many of same group can gather in public places etc, if the riots are bloody enough they might even pass, never underestimate the after shock of a horrifying event

>>36489425
My country is likely to become the first Islamic Theocracy in western Europe :^) Unless the UK beats us to it. If I survive the transition without being suicide bombed, ran over by a truck, shot at, or hacked with a machete, it'll just mean I get to be stoned to death by a sharia court.

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>>36489487
If you're talking of Sweden then your neighboring countries will jump in before becoming neighbors with a Middle-eastern loonies

I think Norway, Denmark, Estonia and Finland have their own cow in the ditch so it is in their best interest not to let it get that far

Only problem is your guys have been so brainwashed you might actually send your own soldiers to protect the loonies from being uprooted

Sweden had the right idea but your ideals have been used against you for years and some short sighted morons are using it as a tool for profit and to gain power

>>36489565
Not Sweden. I'm French. 70% of newborns in the Paris region are not "ethnic French". We're done for dude.

>>36487161
I've been thinking about doing this for a while, but I don't know where to find a decent sugar daddy. I get spammed on grindr but I don't know if they're rich obviously. I'm super slim, and not that ugly at all.

Tips anyone? Do I just ask the guys on grindr if they wanna take care of me or whatever?

>>36487161
im so jealous right now


orignial reeee

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>>36489623
Well no one can't say we didn't try to get along with them, don't worry there are white supremacists in all countries

And they are practically jizzing themselves at the current situation so they can show up as heroes of their countries and offer the violent solution and a step back to the old ways

>"want yoursons to get mutilated at birth, your daughters and wives to be treated worse than cattle and your offspring to grow up worshiping foreign religion against their will? if not then join up"

That's all it takes once the situation is shitty enough, big down side is that the good ones are goners at that point too, the ones that actually tried to fit into west and adapt with "when in Rome do as Romans do" method, the amount of collateral is going to be disgustingly high

And no country will try to allow mass immigration in at least 100 years, and we might end up in a totalitarian dystopia but better than extinction / enslavement i suppose