How do you deal with your fetishes?
I usually have a pragmatic sense of self worth, but when I start fapping, I want to be taken advantage of and treated like shit.
Asking you guys cause i'm sure there are others who have gone past the point of no return.
It's fun to have fantasies when you're alone but they're not always appropriate to share with someone else.
>>36405453
>How do you deal with your fetishes?
i dont have to "deal" with them. i just enjoy finding new pics and have a nice fap. no need to be ashamed when no ones looking.
Well I used to like outercourse, but it got replaced with a creampie fetish.
I got one where I can guilt-free breed a cute girl, like: wham, bam, thank you mam and just leave her the kid with no reporcussions
Obviously that would never happen but hey its a fantasy. also doesnt help im a literal giant, height and weight. So that fact keeps that in check knowing it wont happen unless I hit the gym.
>>36405453
Well explain OP. Fetishes are rooted in something. Personally my fetish is to have missionary sex with a woman.
>>36405484
Then how do you healthily indulge in those fantasies alone?
>>36405510
I've always felt like I was less than others when I was a kid. Now that I'm older, I definitely strive to believe I'm just as shitty (or good) as the next guy. But I can't help but fetishize the idea that I'm less than everyone else.
Shame and humiliation a lot as a kid, so I assume it manifested itself as a fetish?
>>36405545
Porn & masturbation obviously.
>>36405614
But I get off on being mistreated. Very often throughout the day, especially online, people bully each other. It doesn't turn me on when someone bullies me online, but it's an odd duality that I get off to something I oppose.
So I'm left with the question, am I fetishizing it because I hate it? Should I stop because it opposes what I believe?
It just fucks with my head.
>>36405453
>when I start fapping, I want to be taken advantage of and treated like shit.
My vag just did that twitchy thing
After I hit puberty and discovered masturbating, I always fantasized about beating, choking, and raping men. First it disturbed me and I felt like a terrible person so I fapped as little as possible. Then I discovered some guys are actually into it so I'm more comfortable with it now, even proud.
>>36405453
Ditto.
I used to kinda be in denial of it unless I was fapping. Then one day I bit the bullet and let a guy fuck me but he wasn't that dominant. A while later I find two guys online and meet them both in the same day, wants into degradation and shit but his nob was tiny.
Basically just own them and (maybe) explore them. At the end of the day who gives a fuck?
Can people just stop having weird fucking fetishes? I never understood those with vore, diaper, furry, etc fetishes. My fetish is simply tall assertive women. For instance my fantasy is:
>sitting on bed
>woman behind me
>she's jacking me off while whispering dirty things in my ear as well as raping my ears with her mouth