Rejection Thread

The one and only time I asked a girl out I was rejected and then talked about behind my back. This being the only time I had really experienced rejection, It fucked with me pretty bad. Years later and whatever self confidence I once had is gone. It's gotten to the point where I can't go anywhere without getting anxious or embarrassed for no reason. I know I've gone off on a bit of a tangent, but I just wanted to show just how bad not accepting rejection can be.

Just bust a nut and forget about it

I've asked out two legitimately diagnosed autistic boys and they both rejected me.
I thought that I had found someone I could actually relate to but no of course not.

>>36381727
How did it happen? Are you ugly or an autismo?

>>36382064

Walked into where she works. Asked her to coffee. She said she was engaged

Share your pain with us anon, I'll share my most recent one

>be ~two years ago
>broke up with ex, meh
>with friend at work while he's on his break
>qt girl we both know happens to be there too
>drunk, talking to us, me slightly more
>before she leaves she says we should hang, then asks if i was still with my ex
>i say no, she says "oh yeah we'll definitely hang out"
>i kinda brush it off, friend tells me to make plans with her
>go through the whole night planning on not talking to her, finally muster up courage to ask her to hang out
>she sends me "haha for sure!" over fb, no follow up
>whelp
>ff a few months later, run into her at the train station, we talk a little bit
>my train pulls up, tells me to message her for her number so we can hang out
>do it, we text for a little bit
>asks me if i want to hang out with her at some concert, i say yes
>turns out i work that day so i ask her if we can reschedule
>really vague answer
>cont.

>>36382177
Hurry up dammit

>>36382177
>we talk here and there, plans are sorta made but kinda just disappear
>figure i should cut my losses and move on
>working with friend, he mentions he ran into her and they talked about me
>she mentions something about having "liked me"
>"liked" as in past tense
>ree at the fact she never showed it, therefore i didn't really pursue
>working one day, texts me to see if i want to hang when i get out
>now is my chance
>say yes, stomach is in knots
>go to meet up with her, she's with a few people, including some dude
>okay, i'm sure he's here for her
>walk to get some food, she's sorta talking to him more
>while we're eating we're talking about someone we know
>she says to the guy "oh you remind me of ____ except you're hotter"
>gungitcucked.jpg
>fuck it, figure i'll stick around and see how bad this'll get
>we go to find bars, he's being a little bitch so he leaves early
>she gets upset by this
>the rest of us go to a bar, fun times just talking and drinking
>her two friends leave cause they were gonna bang
>just her and I left
>she mentioned that they asked her why her and I weren't dating
>have some sort of conversation about that stuff, she was still missing ex she broke up with, who just happened to be another coworker
>sitting really close with each other, lots of eye contact and smiling
>talk about the state of dating etc.
>we leave, drunk guy at train station says we look good together, she comments on it to me
>take train with her, she falls asleep on my shoulder
>cont.

>>36382325
Sorry my computer sucks and my keyboard is bbbroookkeennnnnn

>okay not bad night
>talk to her here and there rest of week, nothing major
>mentions this thing she'll be at and I should go
>think that means I should go to meet up with her
>next day or so ask her what time I should meet her
>she immediately says something like "don't come just for me, bring people" basically telling me it's not just her and I
>take the hint, again I figure fuck it I know where this is leading
>point out it seems like she's not interested in me, I was getting mixed signals
>tells me she doesn't know where I got that idea, she wasn't interested in me nor was she interested in dating anyone
>I let out my inner autismo, ask her if it was because she doesn't find me attractive, not in a bitter way, in a "i actually want to know" way
>tells me i'm projecting and it's obviously my fault
>ask her if it was because she still missed ex
>says yes
>i know she's lying but whatever

I almost wish I had asked out my oneitis and gotten rejected, it would have been some closure at least. Instead I'm just never going to see her again and let my unresolved feelings for her wither and slowly die away.

>>36382437
I can't believe you're still typing this bullshit. If I wanted to read about normalfags I'd go to normalfag boards, don't you think? How about you go away?

>be a 16 year old virgin in high school
>lose all my cool friends because they left school to avoid IB
>usually take public transport home
>learn this qt takes same 30 minute bus home
>we start waiting for each other so we can go home together and chat on the bus
>sometimes we get lunch and chat before going home
>3 months later get the feels, shes a pretty attractive qt and not too attractive
>decide to ask her out
>get on bus with her super nervous, don't say anything almost whole ride
>10 mins away from house
>i say "hey i need to tell you something"
>start telling her how i was abused by a neighbor as a kid, never told anyone this before
>she says "wow anon thats so sad"
>i say "do you wanna go out sometime?"
>before she replies its her stop and she gets off without saying anything
>texts me, only like you as a friend anon
>me destroyed, i go for a sprint to exhaust myself
>3 months later, she starts dating most popular chad
>still going home together
>only talks about her sex experiences with chad
Why does the redpill burn so?

>>36382481

come on man everyone is welcome here

>>36382504

ooo dawg that burns

>>36382511
>normies
>welcome
Go back to /soc/.

>>36382437
>bent out of shape, slept the rest of that day
>school started to suffer, grades drop because i'm depressed that the one time i try to go for it after being single for a few months, i fail miserably
>realize shit don't change, i'll be the same way off as I was in high school, a bitter and jaded misogynist
>run into her again a few weeks after our "argument" she asks me to hang out with her and her friend
>did it to show i'm mature and a better man than i used to be
>her friend was gonna meet up with a tinder date
>hang out at bar again, everything is fine except there was an obvious awkwardness that wasn't there before
>go home on the train again, she doesn't rest head on my shoulder
>don't see her for another month or so, texts me once to see if i wanted to hang out
>it's on the day her "ex" came back from seattle and everyone they know is hanging out
>not about to get cucked again, don't respond
>contact falls off drastically, don't see her again for a few months, when I do she's with a new guy

so much for "not wanting to date" and that's my story, that happened almost two years ago and I haven't tried with anyone since then.

there were a few side notes but i forgot them already, oh well

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Ask a dude who never asked a girl out anything

>>36382562
Nobody cared, normalfag. Next time try your luck in normie boards.

>>36382481
>>36382550
I guarantee you that if we visit 4chan on a regular basis, we are far from normies.

Trust me, true normies wouldn't even know what /r9k/ is, let alone understand what /b/ is like or how it used to be

>>36382606
>xD I get gfs and I'm not a virgin but I'm totally a robot guise
You cant possibly relate to us. Kill yourself, normalfag.

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>>36382177
Stopped after "broke up with my ex"
Normies btfo

>>36382580

How do you deal with the whole in your very being

>>36381727
Congrats OP!!!!!!

The more you get rejected, the more desensitized towards the feeling of rejection, and the closer you'll be to getting laid

>>36382038
Just because someone is autistic doesnt mean it'll erase how ugly you look in their eyes

>>36382640
There is no whole. I just dont feel anything, neither happy nor sad.

>>36382720

Hold me anon. How do i ascend this curse

op here. o shit bros i just got an email that my inactive facebook acct has a new friend request

>i think its her

>>36382750
I dont know either anon. I used to have panic attacks when I was a child, then I stopped giving a shit about things and I got here.

Its bad when you are trying to get girls, because you dont really care about anything but yourself. So, it gets awkward when things arent going your way

>>36382562
holy fuck you took five full greentext posts for this boring bulllshit?

>>36382580
Where are you on the spectrum?

Originally originallolity