Why do you assume I'm a bitch just because I'm conventionally

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>>36338185
>calling herself attractive

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robots haven't realized that feminism is the final pill yet.

>fights Chadism
>normalizes autism, being fat, quirky hobbies
>hates the rich white quarterback bully archetype
>promotes neet life and socialism
>well educated

>i only want to help you

no you don't. get out

>>36338227
This anon is woke. Fighting feminism is directly supporting and enabling Chadlife. Why aren't you woke /r9k/?

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>the inflated ego of this op post
>dude why u assume I'm a bitch?

>>36338185
It's more to the with the intimidation your attraction bring. Even if you were being nice to us, it would still come off as demeaning purely due to your looks. There's not much you can do about it. I've had Chads take me on as friends, but in the end, I just end up comparing myself to them and just feeling terrible by the end of it.

>>36338185
who is dis and why should i care pls

Are stacies the true redpill?

>>36338185
>just feed me intel so i can hand it over to the other bullies
>she can't even do the job herself, she has to outsource it
>this is why first world nations are going down the drain
>that behaviour of outsourcing work for cheap labour, relying on a foreign workforce
>further more this mean less job, more poverty and higher crime rates

>>36338185
Is this the retard bitch denying the Holocaust? I don't get it why this became popular, shitting on evidence backed facts... this is why we have climate change deniers and other retards of the sort...

>"Iam not like the others I always do the opposite"
>4 robots pics later
>"ewww do not text me, you creeps"
What else is new?

>>36338185
because Chads tend to flock with conventionally attractive Staceys. Robots are betamales they got no chance with Alpha's. Beta tend to run because of that. You say you want to help. Sure. But we all know time will come you'll surround yourself with Alpha Chads.

>>36338227
feminists call me a racist, rapist from birth
actively discriminate against white men

When I dont go out dont talk to anyone Im called a women hater for not giving women attention

>>36338227
Maybe, just maybe, it's because /r9k/ is wrong

>>36338185
personally I'd be aprehensive from past encounters with women (of various attractiveness) wanting to help me out. In most cases I was used for either academic help or physical labour or finally as a joke.

additionally most advice online is pretty generic

>>36338262
What are you talking about? Feminism will allow "chads" to fuck even more girls because they won't feel any kind of negative feelings from promiscuously fucking whomever they want

>>36338227
feminism isnt bad. Mad women gives a bad name on it. Actual feminisim means equality.

>>36338436
>Actual feminisim means equality.
Oh young one, are you in for a ride.

>>36338185
>conventionally attractive
you're just a boring stacy GET OUT go to some frat party or go ger pregnant or whatever it is you stacies do.

>>36338249
Why is it so hard for you to believe that people with compassion and empathy actually exist? Or that they could be interested in getting to know you? Not trying to be cruel here, just trying to understand how someone closes themself off like that.

>>36338287
Being 'pretty' is not an achievement. It's not something I've had any control over. It has its benefits obviously, but why assume I look down on you for not having some irrelevant characteristic you don't have control of anyway?

Honestly not trolling. Just got linked here from eleswhere by someone expecting me to laugh at this place and felt the exact opposite.

>>36338185
You wanna help me? You can start by being my gf or helping me get a gf, fixing my real problem.

>>36338517
people like that do exist, but when someone advertises how they "just want to help you" it makes me bunker the fuck down.

>>36338541
>>36338517
especially if they're female.

>>36338517
>It's not something I've had any control over.
>why assume I look down on you for not having some irrelevant characteristic
it's the vibes that are given off.

Ever been in a situation where you like this girl, and she likes you back... But you don't feel good enough for her and even though she likes you could never see yourself together because you feel as though your existence and presence in her life would only ruin her. And so to save her and your low self-esteem, you never develop the relationship, if you could even call it that, and just let it slide until she becomes the one that got away.
It's just that I watch movies of other teenage kids look each other romantically while the camera get a close-up shot of the two and you see the unity between them. Like the nice chiselled jaw of the male and his good looks paired with the youthful beauty of the woman just tells you that it was meant to be. But to me, the idea of it seems laughable. If I did that, even if she liked it, I know I would only look like a joke to any third party viewers.

This is my world. This is how I live!

>>36338185
Most conventionally attractive guys do so either with a lot of effort, and thus hate anyone who doesn't put the same effort, or with no effort, and is just ignorant about uggo's feelings.

>>36338414
Someone offered friendship as a joke? That's a pretty strange and sick joke by anyone's standards.

>>36338541
My OP was just kind of silly and baity granted. But I genuinely want to understand how to reach people who've cut themselves off the way a lot of people here seem to have done. I love people, and it kind of seems like the most interesting people are the hardest to actually meet.

>>36338227
This is a complete lie.
At the end of the day feminists still want rich muscled boyfriends. If we try to bring up male issues like circumcision we get told to shut up and focus on women's issues instead.

>>36338517
ARE YOU A WOMAN? I, TOO, AM A FELLOW PERSON WITH FEMALE ATTRIBUTES!

AND, NOT ONLY AM I A FEMALE WOMAN WITH A VAGINA, BUT I AM PRETTY!

DON'T HIT ON ME AND MY FEMALE WOMANNESS YOU SILLY BOYS.

>>36338601
Kind of hurts to read. The problem is your self esteem, not the outside world. If someone who is 'out of your league' enjoys spending time with you then why not just let yourself trust how she sees you rather than listen to that voice?

>>36338697
Sorry. I forgot that there are no women on the internet because computers rely on a y chromosome to function. Will post pictures of my penis ASAP.

>>36338743
>why not just let yourself trust how she sees you rather than listen to that voice?
I'm too far gone. It's like asking a mentally ill person with depression to get over it. I have pondered on it, consumed it, internalised it and now it has become me. It will take a whole lot more than just saying "get over it" after you have lived with this frame of mind for the past 18 years of your life!

>>36338658
>Someone offered friendship as a joke
yes they then proceeded to give me bad fashion advice ( as I had confessed I knew nothing at the time) I looked even worst and stuck out then took photos and shared them with loads of people behind my back.

flaked a lot of the time when were ment to hang out.
encourage me to "open up so she could help me become a better person" shared all the messages with her friends.

It all came to an end at a party she and her friends got to drunk and let it all out along with mocking me.

she was the first to do that wasnt even the last to try(although I was a lot more defensive after that so never happened again).

after friends that have been girls never really felt like they bothered or wanted to be my friend it was more Im just their or friends of convinence. heck one that consider me her friend right now (I do not) only contacts or replies to me once every few months but always insists "shes their for me"

as I've grown up I've found many grown women are still acting like people I met years ago which scares me even more.

Im still open to friendships and advice but it doesnt feel genuine to me more like we are just acquaintances

>>36338743
Because, 95% of the time, that little voice is right.

Often, it is a simple misunderstanding on my part. Other times, she is deliberately causing that confusion.

Or, and here's the kicker, I am just goddamn tired of failing. Over and over again, every single goddamn time I try anything like that I get shut down. Sometimes I am treated with a mix of sympathy and pity and let down "easy," and other times they are not so... graceful. Asking someone out is not a no-cost activity, at least for people who are not sociopaths.

You ever SCUBA dive? Think of it like this, there's a hole in a rock, and you see something shiny inside. It might be a gold coin from some ancient pirate treasure. Or, it could be a trick of the light and there's a moray eel or some other predator in the hole.

What are you going to do? Are you going to take a chance, or listen to that little voice in your head that wants you to keep your arm?

>>36338185
I used to but I realized this is actually very true. I'm pretty good looking and it doesn't make me chad any more than it makes a girl Stacey.

>>36338658
how to reach people who've cut themselves off? I really don't know, OP. everyone is different in how and why they're closed off.i guess you just have to be patient, observant and pick up on subtle cues which vary from individual to individual. no wonder most ppl don't even bother.

>>36338227
the only problem with feminism is that they gain political power and created a society that can't be sustain. Society is going to collapse because of feminist. the collapse is also confirm by economist.

>>36338658
>how to reach people who've cut themselves off the way a lot of people here seem to have done
That's like saying "how do you open a lock?" or "how do I know a computer's password?"

There is no universal answer, and there won't ever be. But, sure, you can just dismiss the differences of people and look for an easy answer. Why not just post your paypal so you can lead thirsty anon's on a little ride.

>>36338185

You can only help me by cuddling with me

If you dont want to do that you should gtfo

>>36338185
Good looks are the foundation all other forms of confidence relies on. Even if you're with friends and family that like you, you're having the time of your life. The lingering thought in the back of your head that you're not attractive. The thoughts of not being able to do certain things in the fear that you might look bad doing it. Not all people have a pretty smile, and so this might cause use not fully smile. Without good looks, all other forms of enjoyment will drastically lose its significance.

>>36338809
I was in a relationship with someone with this view of themself for a while. If I can be honest: It was completely tiring, emotionally draining, and made me feel a lot of guilt over things that I had no control over. I loved him but we drifted apart just because it got to a point where I just couldn't do it anymore. The moment I stopped fighting so hard to prop him up he took is evidence he was right all along. I don't know what I could have done differently. I was exhausted.

Caught up with him not too long ago and had quite a talk. He's doing a lot better for himself but it's because of work he's put in. Therapy and slowly building back up some self esteem. I know there's a stigma sometimes, but have you considered working with a professional to get a start on building yourself back up?

>>36339161
>start on building yourself back up?
Working on it.

>>36338436
why don't I see feminist fighting to get women in the draft then? Why are feminist not fighting to get women in to more dangerous jobs like men? why are feminist not fighting for equal custody of the child? Why are feminist not fighting to split the bill during dinner? feminist are only making things worse by giving women rights at the expense of men and exploiting them for their money because most tax payers are men.

>>36338858
I don't even know what to say to that. Just reading about it makes me feel sick. I'm sorry you've had to go through something like that, and I can't even begin to imagine how much that must cripple someone's confidence. I didn't realise there were people like that out there in the real world.

Me sitting here saying 'don't give up on people!' probably doesn't cut it, but: Please don't give up on people!

>>36338227
>hates the rich white quarterback bully archetype
No it doesn't.

"Rape culture" doesn't apply to Chad, because with Chad it's not rape.

>>36338227
>implying sexual liberation doesn't enable chadism

>>36338517
>Why is it so hard for you to believe that people with compassion and empathy actually exist? Or that they could be interested in getting to know you? Not trying to be cruel here, just trying to understand how someone closes themself off like that.

Welcome to /r9k/, enjoy your stay here :^).

>>36339221
I hope you get there.

>>36339018
I can understand the thought patterns that get you there but you have to believe me that people aren't judging you nearly as harshly as you're judging yourself. "Hah! Look at that 'ugly' guy thinking he deserves to enjoy life!" is not a thought that goes through any sane person's head no matter what more toxic communities might try to tell you.

>>36338658
>But I genuinely want to understand how to reach people who've cut themselves off the way a lot of people here seem to have done. I love people,

because at this point in life I only trust my family. Women can't be trusted because they are driven by emotions and you can't trust them to be loyal. If you look at history it proofs that women are not loyal people. also women are exploiting men in marriage and with the welfare system. this is why I cut myself off as much as possible from society and women. I don't want to contribute to a society that treats men like disposable utility and that betrays men.

>>36338227
welcome to /r9k/ - ROBOT9002

>>36339474
I'm getting the impression that this is the worst place in the world for someone who thinks that way to be. Isolating yourself in some depressive corner of the Internet is not the best solution to feeling isolated.

I just wish I had another option to offer beyond taking a leap of faith, because I'm beginning to understand why that might be so difficult.

>>36339617
the reason people congregate here is because of the similarity of the circumstances they're in. yeah, it's a circlejerk of sad sacks and i'm here for hours every day. cause people here understand (know that feel) even if they tell you to fuck off and neck yourself. that's just how i see it (prolly cause i'm a turboautist).

>>36339617
Of course it is the worst place. This is a circlejerk for lazy and insecure faggots who do nothing but indulge in their own sorrows. They don't want to look for solutions. If they don't try to help themselves then fuck em all I say. They deserve the """""hand the was dealt to them"""""

>>36339699
That's a pretty awful way to put it.

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>>36338185
I believe in evolution. Evolution dictates that those who cannot reproduce will never pass on their genes, and their genetic disposition will be eradicated until only the best breeders remain. Attempting to help them is pointless, they will either rise above their station and succeed or forever be lost to mediocrity.

>>36338517
>looking good
>irrelevant characteristic
Top zozzle

>>36339617

way better then having a girlfriend that will betray you after spending hundreds of dollars on her. also women will always know if the child belongs to her and men will never know without a paternity test. which men don't even have a right to know in some countries like France :^) do you see how shit life is for men?

Because you are virtue signalling. You are just doing it for your own benefit and it is patronising more than anything.

Chads do the same thing, btw. I really hate it. They steal the attention and become the hero.

>>36338227

IN THEORY

In practice they will rather fuck the rich white quarterback Trump MAGA hat wearing asshole than you, even if you are a self proclaimed feminist beta cuck.

>>36338380
>>36338694
>people falling for obvious trolls/false flaggers/ shills/insane people

>>36339265
because those aren't the worst problems women are facing in this world.

>>36339408

This. How many fucking people don't understand that Chad is only Chad because women are allowed to slut around?

In the past people went on dates and started LTR. And 6/10 settled for 6/10s instead of spending their prime getting pumped and dumped by Chad while 6/10 males were left with nothing.

Chad only arose to power because of feminism.

>>36338658
I haven't cut myself off so much as I've been forcibly cut off. I've taken every opportunity to make friends that I can yet still I cannot connect to anyone, only hurt them. My personality is terrible, I'm selfish, angry, and jealous. I can't change, and I don't expect anyone else to help me like that, I purely want companionship and yet it's always out of reach. Why did I have to be born this way?

>>36339843
Chad rose to power because he possesses superior physical genes to you. This is why women find him more attractive and want to have his children. Nature never intended to make your life a good one, you're just an amalgamation of genetic code. Whether you procreate or die, the world will continue to exist. Nature doesn't care if you ever feel loved, appreciated, if anyone ever shares their heart with you. It's all anarchy out there.

>>36339763
I've heard people say it makes it seem like the world is a far nice place than it really is and I do kind of buy that. But it comes with its own set of negative assumptions. Opens some doors and closes others.

>>36339778
I've come to regret how I started the thread. It's not that. Really. A big part of it is trying to get around what happened in past relationship I mentioned upthread. Lost someone I loved because they just couldn't accept that someone 'pretty' could love them despite all reassurance I had it in me to give. Why is the assumption that I'm some stuck-up monster any fairer or more valid than someone treating a robot badly because of their looks? It's just meat.

>>36339946
>I can't change
Why? If things are as bad for you as they sound then what do you lose by trying? I don't mean this hurtfully, but isn't anything better than this?

>>36339993

Exactly and by fighting feminism and reinstating traditional moral values I am fighting for myself and getting myself in a better position to procreate.

>>36339272
only really starting to get my shit together now learning to like/accept myself which has really helped with being alone.

my social skills took a giant hit, outside of small talk with family I dont really talk to anyone consistently.

it feels like I dont have the proper tools/skills to connect with people now and form anything other than acquaintances in real life and even online.

>>36340077
Personally I can't stand it. I don't want a woman who can only love me for being an attractive man. I don't want a woman's attention just because I happen to have been born with a great face or a great voice. I am sick and tired of participating in this competition. There must be more to life than this, and if there isn't, then maybe I was meant to die without procreation. No children I can produce should ever have to live like this.

>people assume I'm understanding and motherly because I'm ugly and dumpy
I look like this because I'm self-indulgent and lazy! stop trying to get me to hug your crying ass!

>>36340209
How many cream cakes would someone have to buy you to convince you to step on them and call them worthless? Asking for a friend.

>>36340069
I have tried, but people can still tell who I am inside and thus avoid me. No matter how nice, understanding, or caring I try to be it's not how I really am deep inside, and so they see it as disingenuous. I can't force people to trust me.

no you literally don't

please leave (re)

>>36338436
>actual feminism means equality

Not for the last 50 or 60 years....which, coincidentally, is when feminism started co-opting Marxist dogma.

>>36338436
>Actual feminisim means equality.
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
please ask your fellow feminists to show that with their actions and the social media movements / words they create