as a relatively new faggot to this board, can someone explain

Personally, I see a "oneitis" as an absolute soulmate, a match made in heaven, which I doubt a lot of robots realise when they use this term.

>>36309866
i was under the impression posters use it to describe a crush or someone they really like, which doesnt seem harmful.
with all these self-loathing cocknostrils on this site, your explanation shows why everyone wails about it

>>36309851
Its only bad when your "one" shows no interest in you. It makes you look weak.

>>36309913
Samefag here

If you have a chance go for it...

>>36309913
why does that make you look weak?

>>36309851
'oneitis' means holding out for one woman.

Since all women are useless, empty-headed cunts, then oneitis is only found in pathetic betas who put the pussy on the pedestal.

>>36309851
cuz she gonna get fucked by chad and break your heart

>>36309961
So then whats the difference between that and just having someone you think would be a great dating partner?
Im a little worried because now that Ive found this out it's just went ahead and make me insecure about my advances with this girl I know

>>36310063
Who cares about dating? Dating is beta. Pursuing women romantically is beta. Alpha males have women come towards them, as he is the prize, not them.

The only useful part of a woman is what's between her legs.

If you don't bang a woman shortly after meeting her for the first time, then there's little point in spending more time with her.

This is the mentality of Chads, and why they get so much pussy.

Don't ask me to explain why. Women are fucking insane and only think with emotion.

Oneitis is an obsessive, unrequited and often long-standing crush. It's bad because this tends to lead the individual suffering oneitis to wallow in self-pity, embarrass themselves with pathetically futile attempts to express their affection and locks them out of pursuing more practical (or at least less wasteful) romantic options (including giving up entirely).

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>>36310145
>the only good part about a woman is whats between her legs
good god, could you get any more demeaning?

anyone struggling with right now? do tell

oneitis is inability to move on from a relationship that failed or someone who isn't interested in you. it's unhealthy to obsess like that over something out of your control, that's why it's bad.

it's not oneitis if you're actually in a relationship with them. having a crush isn't oneitis. it only becomes oneitis when you consistently fail to move on from one person after things don't work out with them, to the point that it affects your life (being depressed, not leaving them alone, etc)

inability to move on with your life is key to oneitis, not simply longing after someone

>>36309851
A oneitis is a girl that you are extremely infatuated with who does not regard you in a romantic of physical sense in any capacity. A oneitis only enjoys your company as a friend and will never have interest in you beyond a platonic sense (if it is a true oneitis)

This is bad because the man dedicates his time to her like she's his girlfriend, but the girl will never perform any of the functions a girlfriend will/should perform (which if you're not lying to yourself, most human beings know is primarily sexual)

So the man is basically wasting his time doting on a girl that he will never get ANYTHING from other than a low-end emotional reward of the girl telling him he's super sweet and that she's so lucky to have a guy like him in her life.

A oneitis is bad because it is essentially a waste of time that is also wasting your emotional effort

>>36310194
Tell us what they've done that's useful, faggot.

>>36310194
I don't know if you're a normie or a troll, but if you think a 6 foot 3 ripped dude who is also deeply misogynistic can't sleep with a dozen women a week without breaking a sweat, then you're delusional.

Fuck, there are plenty of convicted child rapists who can easily get a blowjob in an alleyway from hot women they met in a bar.

That's just how women are. They just shack up with any man who gives them vagina tingles.

>>36310194
Realistically there is nothing distinguishing a woman can offer to you over a man other than sex.

I'm not even trolling or being a dick. The only thing a woman can offer besides something sexual that a man cannot offer is female perspective.

>>36310310
Maybe the women you know or have seen through your shitty porn riddled computer screen. Biologically yes, women want security and will give sex in return for that. and your statement may be true for some, maybe even more women. but goddamn, if you pulled your head out of your cum-caked asshole, maybe you'd realize life has a lot more variety than that.
Im legitimately not trolling, I really feel tired of those complaining about women and then crying about being lonely

>>36310406
There is literally no relation whatsoever between a man's attitude towards women and the amount of times he gets his dick sucked by them.

Give me 1 (one) example where it does, normie.

>>36310494
depends on the woman. usuallly happens in geeky couples where personality matters and both have a need for someone, so being nice to them typically has an effect. maybe not your alpha woman, but its an example
Your attitude can make the difference to a lot of women, there are plenty who prefer respect over douchebaggery, though they may be the minority