Normies who used to be robots

>>36280335

The single biggest factor for me was working out. I wasn't fat fat but I was soft. Went from 6' 185lb 20+bf to 205 12% bf. Girls threw themselves at me, I got more respect at work, ended up dating a girl who I always thought was way out of my league.


Being unable to get a girl was what motivated me. As pathetic as it sounded, I used to think if I get this last rep out shell be with me.

Things were pretty bad for me at the time which was definitely a driving factor. I couldn't afford rent, had no friends or family, typical robot sob story.

>>36280335
>go to college
>you know what? fuck this shit, I'm not going to be the autistic fag I was in high school, we're adults now
>actually take the initiative and go out and talk to people
>maximise on those first few weeks where everyone is a little awkward to make the easy friends
>use those friends to springboard into friends I actually have traits in common with
>realise that I'm actually quite charming and well-liked by people when I'm not tripping over my own insecurity
>flashforward two years and I'm an entirely different person now with a wide circle of friends, much improved social skill/confidence and in the process of turning a relationship with a girl I've liked into a romantic one

YOU GOTTA BELIEVE

seriously, though, you'd be surprised how easy it is to make friends when you stop woorrying and start putting yourself out there. Especially in this day and age, people are more introverted and if nothing else they'll appreciate you for not being awkward and taking the first step.

i guess i'm a normie?
i live with my bf now and i met him on here, but i still am very bad at leaving the house or being like social.
i still can't speak loud enough for most people to understand me on the phone.

>>36280547
the most fucking generic advice I've ever heard.

>>36280468
I ain't got a sob story. I'm at college, paying 100% with loans, some of which my dad took out for me. I've never had a job, but I'm fine because my parents have supported me so far. I don't have any real friends, but I'm also a KHV who avoids other people as much as possible. My family is fine.

I'm 5'10", 145 lbs, not sure of body fat, but I never do any physical activity so it must be high for my BMI.
I'm so awkward that no amount of working out would make girls throw themselves at me. Or they would, but I'd fuck it up immediately. I'm way too afraid of going to the gym anyway. I'm a little bitch in the face of my social anxiety.

>>36280547
I'm in my second year of college (first semester at a real university, community college before that) but I don't talk to anyone ever lol.

>>36280576
You're not a normie, but you're not a robot. You're somewhere in between. For some of the more bitter robots on here you're a turbo-Stacey (assuming girl).

>>36280600
Eh, I'll take my (You)s where I can get them.

>>36280335
Two off
>>36280667
One off

Kill me. I got trips for the first time last night (just started posting after years of lurking) and it was great.

I don't know if I count as normie.
Last year I started going to uni and made a bunch of friends. I got a hot gf and had a side chick, but I only ever got to fuck my gf once cause of erectile dysfunction. She dumped me in July (lost all my uni friends at around that time as well) and I didn't get laid until two weeks ago when I met this 5/10 chick who I've fucked twice and I'll probably bang tomorrow. It's always shitty tho cause I have to take viagra and still struggle to get hard.
Made out with a lot of drunk sluts but never more than that. I currently have three friends, a dude like me, an ugly girl who parties a lot and a virgin who stutters.

To become normie I got into fashion and researched seduction. I watch movies and series and imitate the actors. The book "The Game" helped a lot. When you start acting like an alpha male social life is not that hard, but it inevitably crumbles when people realize you're actually bizarre.

I tried a lot, too. That helped.

>>36280547
You were already good looking and normal to begin with. That's literally it.

All it takes to be socially successful is to not be 1. mentally ill
2. Naturally ugly
3. Have a little ambition and drive

That's literally it. The first two are not in your control. That last is. Robots are often told to just focus on 3 because they don't have the first two. We're told to just "keep trying" and "bee urself" and hopefully something will happen. Truth is, we have it ten times harder than someone who has all three in check. Even when we try, we have it harder.

>>36280706
You're a normie, but were you a robot before that?

Sorry about the ED dude. At least I've got a working dick, even if I just use it for pissing and masturbation.

>>36280734
1. I'm not terribly mentally ill. I've tentatively self-diagnosed myself with social anxiety, AvPD and maybe mild autism and mild depression, but I'm not crazy.

2. I'm not ugly, but I'm not very attractive either. I'm average height and not fat.

3. Yep

Hitting the gym helps

But any good advice you will get can be summed up by 'don't think too much'

that's pretty much it

decide what you want, visualise it, and take steps towards achieving it. don't think about anything else

easier said than done, but that's what people who get what they want do.

>>36280734
I know because I went to college and tried to make friends left and right. I failed because I'm ugly and borderline crazy. Every girl I've dated has up and left me without explanation. Most friends I've had have abandoned me. I was picked on in middle school, high school and even college. Everywhere I go I repel people. I am a true robot. I know what it's like to be an outcast. Ironically, I'm a white guy. The very face of absolute privilege and the good life.

>>36280745
My dick works fine for fapping but it goes full spaghetti when I'm with a girl.

And yeah. I lost my virginity to a hooker when I was 18, three years ago, being a friendless anxious mess of a person, but changed a lot since. I don't talk to people most of the time but I get these normalfag sparks (like a year ago when I got into uni or two weeks ago when I met this bitch) when everything I do works out well.

>>36280787
>ugly crazy people get GFs and friends
I really have no excuse then, do I? In a way, I'm not even sure if I really want friends because I just want to be alone most of the time. Still, I get lonely.

>>36280804
I thought I'd force myself to be a normie in college, but nope, I haven't changed one bit here.

OP here. I KNOW I have a normie that's been hiding inside of me since childhood, but I just can't manage to summon him when I'm not drunk. Sober me is a boring, autistic, unproductive person.

>>36280734
I'm a 5/10 on my best day, anon. Don't make assumptions about me just because I succeeded where you failed.

>>36280706
>had a side chick
You're garbage.

I'm a robot who used to be a normie. I miss being a normie.

>>36280335
I'm a failed normie who used to be a robot.
Don't fall for the girlfriend meme.
RUN

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literally just became less gross. I got a better haircut, started wearing better clothes, and shaved my shitty beard. The rest just came from becoming better looking

>>36280335
I used to be a kissless handless virgin in my teens, but I somehow built an online long distance relationship with a girl from the other side of the country. After about a year we met up, and we would continue to meet every Christmas and summer for the next two years. I was still socially underdeveloped and didn't treat her very well, but after swallowing a lot of PUA rationale, I manned up during the last year of high school and started asking other girls out. I eventually developed a friendship with a girl into a relationship, which is almost unheard of in this day and age. What helped me was a talent for music, and a mutual interest in classical music, which is uncommon among teenagers. We've been together for five years now, but I'm breaking up with her to pursue my talent further elsewhere.

>>36282082
I agree

>>36282919
That's sure gotta suck. Maybe even more than being a perma-robot.

>>36282932
The only place I want to run is towards cute girls. I actually would if I wasn't so awkward and anxious.

>>36282951
I'm not really gross. I shower regularly, I'm not fat, I have no facial hair and my haircut is a conventional normie cut. What else is there? My face is ok, besides the moderate acne. I don't dress particularly well (khakis and a t-shirt just about every day, switching to shorts soon), but I'm not dressed super autistically either.

>>36283040
You were already way ahead of me in HS. I'm a sophomore in uni now. I have no talents, certainly not creative/artistic ones. The only hobby/interest I have that sets me apart from most people is my interest in philosophy (Plato, Kant, Nietzsche, Wittgenstein etc, not feel-good self-help crap). Even that has waned significantly since HS. I have nothing interesting going on in my life now.

>>36283279
>conventional normie cut
nah m8 you need to get one that suits you
>khakis and tshirt
gross, get black jeans, chucks,grey shirt, denim jacket. Stuff like that. youll look better than now

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>>36283313
>>36283279
Pic related. Like this is what I wear. Got a pucture of what you usually wear?

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>>36283313
>one that suits you
I honestly think it suits me. I like it, I don't just get it to follow the crowd. Was thinking about going for the Morrissey look, but that's probably hard to emulate. I like short hair.

>>36283337
I'm too shy to post any more than this. I literally wear these khakis every day for up to two months without washing them. I've asked people who see me every day (my parents) if they ever noticed and they didn't. I also wear those shoes every day. When it was colder I also wore a light (as in thickness) blue fleece every day too. So to the outside observer I never changed clothes lol

>>36283453
yeah dude thats like too plain youll blend in and nobody will ever notice you, you gotta find something to help distinguish you from the rest of the crowd

>>36283486
That's not necessary, is it? Chads who all dress basically the same have loads of friends and sex and relationships. I'm a very plain person anyway. That's exactly how I want to appear. Dressing "different" just isn't me.

>>36283621
well dude being plain isnt going to help catch some girls attention

>>36283677
Personality matters way more than looks if you're not hideous/horribly dressed/smelly, right?

>>36283724
nah they are equal. like you need looks to get the attention and start the process but personality to keep her on the line long enough to reel her in

Good night (morning?) to all the anons who posted here. I've stayed up wayyy later than I should have. Hopefully this thread will still be alive when I wake up in 12 hours. Not that I'm counting on it.

I think the most important thing to to have ambition and drive. it doesn't matter how ugly you are, if you devote all your time to a hobby subject that you truly love, you can break through.

started going to /thinspo/ and limited my daily cals to 500, lost 14kg and started dressing better, focused less on gaming and more on interesting subjects, have a god tier music taste ( i wont shar it you fat fucks ) and started going on small dates up to when girls threw themselfs at me, it's alright