How do I stop being delusional?

>>36260926
>I am tired of feeling confident in times where I shouldn't.
How it's a bad thing?

>>36260926
Maybe you could give me some of that confidence you have in excess, I really would need some.

>>36260953
In my head.
>Damn maybe she's checking me out, she's looking at my arms huh?
Reality.
>What a fucking weirdo, he thinks he's strong but he's just fat, ugly as fuck.

>>36261011
>Reality.
>What a fucking weirdo, he thinks he's strong but he's just fat, ugly as fuck.
Why are you assuming what other people are thinking? How can you be sure of it?

>>36261065
I've been told these things irl.

>>36260926
I feel similarly

>tfw can't tell if girls are looking at me because they think I'm attractive or because I'm being creepy by merely existing

>>36261866
This desu. Never had proof a girl was not staring at me in disgust, as it has happened too much in the past.

>>36260926
Just be insecure all the time dumb faggot

>>36262032
But what if you're justified in having those insecurities because you legitimately are an awful person?
Are you telling me to just walk around with an overinflated sense of self worth and live in a delusional lala land where I pretend everything is just peachy and I'm the coolest smartest bestest dude in the world? Even when all evidence points to you just being a fucking nobody of zero importance?

I used to be delusional like that but now I see the reality. As much as it hurts, I wouldn't want to go back. I'm better now that I realize what is wrong with me so I can take steps to fix it. When I was delusional I thought I was perfect. Protip: Confidence doesn't work or help, people won't ignore physical reality because you're confident. Only you can ignore reality. But you can only ignore it so much