What are you supposed to do when you're in love with someone but they don't love you back? I met someone here a while ago and we've been talking for a few months now.
Im completely in love with her, at first I thought she felt the same, but several times now she's blocked and ignored me, thrown out her promises and taken back everything she said, only to return after a week or so to undo the damage at her convenience.
Currently she's ignoring me again. I'm convinced this is all just a giant game to her, she seems completely oblivious as to how much this is hurting me. I feel like I'm just being used to soften occasional bouts of loneliness.
I don't think I could get over losing her, she's the first girl I've ever loved, everything about her is perfect outside of this, but I know this isn't going anywhere. What should I do guys? Should I tell her how I feel and leave? Should I try waiting longer to see if things get better? Get the rope maybe? Any advice would be appreciated, I'm really torn up guys.
Yeah. Ignore her. Make her wirk for the attention.
She will atart to appreciatr you more in your absence or zhe will move on, as should you.
why do you keep putting yourself through this, it's an anonymous site for a reason.
you know what you have to do.
Sounds like some guy is bored and messing with you.
>>36260925
>I don't think I could get over losing her
You can, and should really it sounds like she's using you, it'll be the worst time of your life and you'll hate how long it takes but you can get over her
>I feel like I'm just being used to soften occasional bouts of loneliness
Sounds like your feelings are correct.
I used to do something similar to guys on skype. I'd just shitpost/play games and reply back to them when I got bored (I would get a shit ton of greetings every time I logged in, sometimes logged in as invisible and only messaged my favorites). She doesn't give a fuck about you OP and never will, it was all a game to me and I suspect she's the same.
>>36261151
She's real, we've talked over video and stuff.
>>36261123
I was thinking of trying this, even though she does it to me it's rather cruel and manipulative and I'd feel shitty though
>>36261123
I don't think so.
>>36260925
It's only escaping from the root cause (why you're being ignored by her).
If you ignore her, you have not solved all your problems and further the situation will worsen.
You don't completely know about that problem?
If you truly like her, I think you better think and act on your own before asking people here.
>>36261185
I don't understand though, it doesn't seem to be that way. I'm pretty sure I'm the only person she talks to. She's very socially awkward and I don't think she's the type to juggle around orbiters for attention. We have a real connection between us, but what I don't understand is how she's so willing to disregard it from time to time.