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Hey /r9k/, I have some questions for you. I'm very confused right now and need to vent a little.
I think both males and females are attractive. I can watch regular, lesbian, gay, shemale, whatever sort of porn. I'll see people on the street, either male/female, and think they are hot.
However, I seem to get some sort of block in relation to guys. I don't know what it is, but no matter how much I think they are attractive and such, I just can't seem to bring myself to imagine anything with them. I hate hook up culture with a passion, and in my whole life, I've never seen a gay couple with a stable, normal relationship. I've fallen in love with several girls throughout the years, but never with a guy.
>Just for clarification, I'm not "prison gay". I've been attracted to both since I was 12
I also consider myself to be extremely ugly, seeing how I'm a 5"6' fat manlet. Women seem to share this conviction, seeing I've only ever kissed one in my whole life and she was drunk as hell. However, several guys have told me I look cute, and quite a few of them have shown interest. But I just can't bring myself to do anything, not even kissing them, without having extremely awful thoughts about how wrong it is and how I'll never have a stable, happy relationship with another man.
I just want to understand this. If I were able to just act on my attraction, I could probably have a bf by now. But these feelings seem to eat me away. I'm just confused, bots.
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Please mates I just want someone to talk to
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>>36249789
Just go for it, man. You'll never know untill you try. Just make sure its someone you actually like and don't rush into anything, Anon.
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If you have this many hangups just stick with women.
I'm gay and would never want to date someone like you who is so conflicted about it.
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>>36250346
That's the problem man. I'd love nothing more than to have a partner, I don't care if it's a girl or a guy. I like both. Maybe if I had assurance that it would be a serious thing. It's just so hard for me to see this happening. In my enviroment (uni), I can't see a single monogamous gay relationship, while I can recall several straight relationships. I'm just too scared of being cheated on, I guess. Too insecure about it. I just don't know. Fuck.
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>>36249789
do you find males sexually attractive?
what do you like in men?
you should just go for it and try anon, you don't want to wake up in ten years and realize you missed out on a lot of good things
>how wrong it is and how I'll never have a stable, happy relationship with another man.
why do you think its wrong, its just love but without vaginas and the bullshit of women
it can be hard to find a stable gay relationship, but as >>36250346 said, you don't seem ready for that kind of things,you need stop to hate your self before
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>>36250730
I was raised in a christian household. My parents, while not very religious, are very conservative. They have no idea about my sexual orientation. It's not a secret in uni, which is why some guys have talked to me.
Everytime I think about dating a guy, I keep thinking about what society will make of me and all that shit. I know it's dumb, but I can't accept myself because I hate what I am. Not just the whole bi thing, but the entire package. Maybe I should just keep away from relationships until I work all this stuff out.
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>>36251003
then stay sad and alone all your life
or just grow up and get fucked in the ass
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>>36251003
>Maybe I should just keep away from relationships until I work all this stuff out.
Smart idea. I have friends that have been in gay relationships for over 10+ years and no cheating (AFAIK). It's possible if you find the right person.
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