>khhv
>still can't bring myself to lower my standards
>>36236838
just v here
and same.
The thing is my potential worth is much higher than just my worth, as is probably yours
I'm a rough diamond for sure, with problems that are mostly minor issues that could be fixed if I wanted to fix.
With love and support and a regular fulfilling relationship, 4-5 months in the gym is literally all that I'd need and would transform me entirely.
Girls don't like investment, they want instant gratification. And I don't really feel like working out and dressing nice only THEN to get a girlfriend that ONLY hooks up with me because I look good.
most of the girls I match with have real problems, like daddy issues, bloated landwhales, fucked up faces, kids.
Sometimes I get depressed when a landwhale or a stick matches with me and thinks they have a chance.
I shouldn't need to lower my standards, and I shouldn't need to work out and fix my own minor issues for someone to be attracted to me, because it would be wholey based on looks.
So I just abstain from caring and trying.
Most of my standards that omen don't meet are to do with personality and values.
Compromising on them would just end up in a relationship with a fast expiry date.
>implying you approach any sort of woman
>implying this isn't a transparent way of saying you could stop being a KHHV if you wanted to
>>36236838
I won't lower my standards and probably wouldn't accept perfection. I think I just don't want a relationship at this point.
My standards are pretty much just that I have to find the girl attractive. I don't see how I could possibly lower them, without at the same rendering the whole point of sex/havng a gf, moot.
>>36236998
You're almost right. I am the way I am out of pure cowardice. I don't know how to go about approaching any woman and I'm too scared too. So, I can't quite "stop being a KHHV if I wanted to".