I keep my birthday a secret from most everyone i know even the ones i consider "friends" because in the end
>1 person will show
>probably a girl who had nothing better to do
>she sees you have no friends and instantly loses interest in having any form of contact with you ever again
>leaves with some random excuse
>youre back to square one
>this time with just a little less soul left in you than before
Just don't celebrate them = no pain
>>36186217
Tbh I tell nobody what's my birthday so it hurts less cuz I have this excuse to pretend nobody knew, or cared about knowing
>>36186244
I dont
I actually forgot my birthday last year
My only reminder was my 86 year old grandma calling me and singing happy birthday through the phone
Made me feel empty
>tell noone
>quietly enjoy both making it by another year and being one step closer to the grave
Best way to go about it.
I stopped celebrating my birthdays (14th was last one) even when I had friends. Even my "close" friends never knew when my birthday was
Everything after 14 became painful for me because I realized how far I was falling behind
>>36186320
My grandparents did that two days ago
It makes me feel odd desu
>father forgets your birthday and marries obese nutjob who makes it bo secret she want me dead on the same day
Nice
I don't care about my birthday and I don't have any friends. I have to force my mother to not buy me a cake.
>>36186217
My birthday was yesterday and a total of 4 people wished me a happy birthday, and 2 of them were complete strangers.
Didn't get anything. Got ignored by everyone in my family, including dad and grandmother.
There's no way of avoiding the pain. I wish there was, because yesterday was awful.
My birthdays are nice, my parents and sisters send me text messages
>>36186217
I thought Tupac was dead?