How do I stop a fetish? I literally can't get hard to anything

>>36150907
What is the fetish? You can't say all that and not tell us what it is.

>>36150939

foot/tickling fetish, it doesn't work with sex because I just want to masturbate to it, not bother with sex. But I have a GF who really wants regular sex.

Gonna have to stop watching porn and masturbating. FOREVER.

I know its hard but its either this or not being able to have regular sex.

>>36151000

I'm slowly coming around to that idea, but I want to know.

A) How long does it take to drop the fetish and just want sex

and

B) Will I find it as enjoyable?

but do you really want to stop?
whats the problem with foot/tickling anyways?

>>36151091

Its ruining my relationship not being able to get it up during sex. I want her more than I want something to beat off too.

>>36151049
It's gonna take you a couple of months, it depends on how addicted you are to porn. After this period you're gonna start enjoying sex more and more but if you go back to porn your addiction is going to kick in again and ruin everything so DO NOT GO BACK.

>>36150990
She doesn't let you touch her feet? It's not a terrible fetish to have to deal with. I don't believe you can will fetishes away unfortunately. My bf wasn't happy with his exes because they were so vanilla.

>>36151176

I don't know how I can last. Longest streak I've gone is 4 days, after that I go fucking insane.

>>36151196
We've tried to incorporate it, but every single time we switch off to regular sex, I go soft. I was a virgin at a late age until I met her, so that probably has something to do with it. But it seems like a chore instead of something I should enjoy.

>>36150907
I have a fart fetish, which I would be worried about if not for the fact that I'll never touch a woman in my life.