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GF Showing Sexually Dominant Tendencies?

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Sup /r9k/

OK first off I'm a normie and have a GF. That said I'm still virgin PLUS the story involves some beta cringe, so I think this is the right place to post it.

Basically my GF is becoming sexually dominant and I'm not sure what to do, if anything. We started dating a while ago, she was the one who pursued me, and took the most active role in the relationship. She was more sexually experienced than I (as in she had experience and I didn't), and I think this played a role in the dynamic that was to come.

It took us forever to have our first kiss. After that though, things heated up pretty quickly, with her wanting to touch my dick and have me eat her pussy and whatnot. The first time we had genital contact she made me whip out my dick in a public place so she could give me a handjob. I said I was uncomfortable at first but she kept at me, and eventually I relented.

That kinda set the tone for the rest of our sexual experimentation. She'd usually take the initiative with oral, handjobs, and everything else. Which I initially figured was just a natural result of her being more experienced, but lately things have been getting a bit more, uh, 'fem-dom-ish.'

First, she's showing a lot of interest in my ass. Grabbing it a lot, commenting on it, suggesting jeans to show it off more. Though this is flattering, I do wonder if this could start heading in a sort of 'weird' direction.

Second, she's into getting me to take my clothes off. In fact, this is basically what our sex life has been reduced to; after some brief flirtation with oral and HJs we're settling into a pattern of her just taking off my clothes and looking at various parts of my body. The other day she told me what her favorite angle to look at my naked ass was--I felt a little embarrassed but also enjoyed the validation.
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I don't think this girl especially enjoys being dominant, but she's into me a lot and I think this dynamic has emerged because I don't take the initiative sexually. I've seen some signs that she'd prefer me to be more dominant; for example, one time when she took my clothes off she expressed sadness that I never took hers off. I don't really know what to say to that. I had never considered questions of domination and submission before, and certainly didn't consider myself sub, she just told me to do things and I was like "sure why not." And then after I'd do things for her and she'd express pleasure, I'd get pleasure from the validation. Is that submissiveness?

I think ultimately all this comes down to the fact that she's more physically attracted to me than I am to her. I do get horny around her, my dick gets hard, but its mainly her personality that turns me on. I hate to say it but I'm not really that into her physically. But it's not like I'm not into her at all. I do get a boner with her and I certainly like her assertive sexual nature, especially all the compliments on my body, but I think at this point she's just being dominant out of boredom, trying to get a thrill. I doubt I'll be banging her at this rate, I'm pretty well completely passive with her sexually and it wouldn't feel natural to ask for sex. This makes me think maybe it's not meant to be. But I do like all the validation and I'm fine doing whatever she wants unless she tries to peg me or something.
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>all this offbeat analysis

Here's what's actually happening:

>she has a normal sex drive and is trying to arouse you enough for you to respond in kind
>you have a sex drive that's been ablated by too much porn

It'd be really easy to have sex with this girl and I'm not sure whether it's normal to just not even try.
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She just takes off your clothes and looks at you? And you at no point just try and fuck her? Even though she's your girlfriend?

She obviously wants to have sex, why don't you fuck her? Are you diagnosed slow in the head? Or in the penis?
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>>36139651

>Having a femdom GF is a bad thing

I would kill to be in your position
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>>36139654
> I hate to say it but I'm not really that into her physically.

that's all there is to it. She very obviously wants to have sex with you, all you have to do is stick your penis inside of her her after some oral/fingering, it's not that hard.

It's not meant to be because you have no urge to have sex with her
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You're not taking the initiative to sexually caress her ? You're better off with fags then
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>tfw no dominant gf to strip me naked, handcuff me, and have me eat out her asshole.
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You should fuck off back to /adv/ reddditor
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>>36139651
been there done that

you have no reason to worry unless she sticks a finger in

If she thinks you liked it, then it will snowball from there
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