how true is this for making friends?

Very true. As an adult there are a lot less "forced opportunities" for you to make friends. And most people already have some and have little reason to bother with you, so you gotta be aggressive.

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You can't make friends after college. Everyone is already set with their social circles after their early-mid 20s.

You can sorta make friends at work if you're a fulltime wagie. I'm almost 30 and I have an office job. The guy in the cube next to me started the same day as me and we have the exact same job title. He is a total bro. We talk all the time at work and get lunch together 2-3 days a week but the only time we've ever done anything outside of work was when he helped me put together some Ikea furniture and I helped him move. I've asked him to do other stuff but he always has plans with his fiancee or with his "real" friends during his free time.

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>when you realize that you don't need friends to be happy

You usually make friends through work or other friends

Made friends in anime club.


>Be me
>6/10 average looking guy
>Actually big closet weeb
>Gather courage and join to anime club and meet other weebs
>They're pretty nice dudes
>They call me ikemen because they're all 4/10.
>Tfw you're hottest guy in the weeb club just by being average.

>>36121249
sounds like such a good feel.

warms my heart

its super easy
join large non-anonymous internet community
find people who want to be friends in your area

>>36120702
I too have reached this realization. It felt interesting and...kind of satisfying? Like I could relax