Day 2 of trying the "Be yourself" meme

Self bump because I really just want someone to talk to :^(

>>36115741
>actually trying the "Be yourself" meme
Try the "be someone you entirely made up all the time" meme. I tried it the last couple of weeks, and it seems to work.

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>>36115741
Stop posting this one and post the full thing

I'm proud of you OP. I know how hard it can be to make those first steps but exposure is the most important thing to controlling the anxiety and becoming comfortable with social experience.

Keep it up! Seriously dude.

>>36115741
uhhh anon I don't know what kind of meme you've fallen for but I don't think most people in the park want random strangers to go talk to them.

Socially I'm fine having normal conversations but the idea of just going up and talking to a random stranger seems so cringey and retarded. They probably don't want to be talked to and they don't know you so it will end badly. Talk to people somewhere else.

>>36115741
This time did you at least feel less nervous

>image
Fuck, that is me.

>>36116136
No ;^( I just want someone to hold.

Day one of red pilling

Sometimes being yourself won't work, like when you're a ronery robot with a victim complex, and you should change yourself.

>>36116080
I always try to not be myself but be my best self it's worked in the past just trying to do it again.

>>36116090
Didn't think it was relevant to the topic at hand but I do have it though!

>>36116100
Thanks anon comments like these are what keep me going!

https://youtu.be/QdobPnkZjKQ

God this is just too easy lmfaoooo

>>36116133
>uhhh anon I don't know what kind of meme you've fallen for but I don't think most people in the park want random strangers to go talk to them.

Of course they do. One of the most common pieces of normie advice is, "Just talk to people." You'll get nowhere in life if you keep making up excuses not to talk to people.

>>36116212
I kinda get what you mean but what I try to do is not so much try to be myself but my best self

>>36116090
>the alpha walk
>walk behind other

I don't have time to walk behind someone doing 2 mph walk in a park. If I walk somewhere with a purpose I'll walk fast and take others over.

>>36116224
lol that was quick! I'm just happy that I made it onto YouTube!

i think your problem is that you're probably trying to target your end goal right off the bat. talk to guys or old people to start out

>>36116562
Hey, that's actually a pretty good idea. Just that I'm impatient but we'll see.

>>36116090
>mfw I'm a literal combination of the two
About the Alpha walk I have the "don't care how others perceive him", head held high, aware of surroundings, effortless walk, and walk with confidence, but everything else is virgin walk.

What does that make me? The Alpha Virgin walk?

>>36117036
So you hunch your back as well as keep your head held high. Nigga you weird

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>>36117265

Artistic depiction

Drew on a laptop, no mean comments pls

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>>36116080
this completely, when i'm by myself i'm an INTP shut in, but when i'm outside with newly acquired friends i crack shitty "le instagram" jokes and pretend to be normal. it works too well.

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>>36117782
holy shit fucking lost it

>>36115741
You're going about this the wrong way you fucking aspie lol. This is its crazy how delusional robots are. Make slow steps. Make friends first through things like work or school and make female friends through those friends. Eventually you will work your way up to a gf. Let it happen naturally. Don't force yourself to go out by yourself and stalkerishly approach random people and ask if you can be their friend. Seriously stop browsing 4chan if you want to make any real progress. This fucking cancerous site will put all kinds of philosophies and concepts into your mind that you will project onto other people before even meeting them and will distort reality for you and ruin any future interactions you have with people. I can't believe I came back after a year of not browsing 4chan. You won't know how bad this place clouds your judgement until you take a break.

>>36117955
>This fucking cancerous site will put all kinds of philosophies and concepts into your mind that you will project onto other people before even meeting them and will distort reality for you and ruin any future interactions you have with people. I can't believe I came back after a year of not browsing 4chan. You won't know how bad this place clouds your judgement until you take a break.

this is completely true, 4chan isn't the root of all your shit but it definitely contributes

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>>36116090
>not posting best version
shame on you

Just work on that social anxiety pal, a little at a time go out, talk to people, get used to being a functioning member of society. Don't seek out a girl to talk to if you're looking for a date or something, 'be yourself' works more if you just learn to live despite your anxiety, and live doing what you would normally, and eventually you'll meet someone.

I know it seems hard now, but even a small step forward is progress, I swear it gets better, trust me, you can do it.