At what age should one give up on the idea of sex and settle

I accepted it when I was around 25. my life has become quite dull eversince. I dont really feel the rage and hatred I used to feel, when I saw other young folks socialising, I just feel a bit melancholic from time to time

It's never too late. 22y/o kv.

I got laid at 17
26 now
life's good

>>36108437
Probably 16 if you are in some degenerate sex hole like USA

T. 24 khhv

>>36108437

As soon as possible, whenever you feel like you need sex, masturbate. You need to start to control your emotions.

>>36108588
>masturbate.
>You need to start to control your emotions.

Pick one

>>36108588
This is not good advice. Pretty sure my dick is totally broken by porn. Can't perform with real girls, but I cum in under a minute watching porn. Life is hell.

>>36108437
If you graduated highschool or have gone through till 25 with out even kissing a girl thats when you should just give up.
Thats what i did

>>36108437

Been having regular sex for 6 years now. Life's great

>>36108603

It comes hand in hand anon
>>36108632
You're a normie, anyway if you want to fix it you just need to stop masturbating for a week or so

Around 16-18

Don't spend your young adult years wishing for a fuck or gf, since you won't get it anyways. If you're a robot that is.

>Tfw somebody else's GF is currently chasing me while she knows I have a GF

What do, anons :((

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Red pill time

That's what you get from hiding behind your anxiety problem, or your introversion or whatever other real of imaginary problems you may or may not have.
Do you think that finding people who get you and are worth calling friends is easy ? I don't mean mates or pals or buddies.
Do you think normies instantly get a circle of like minded people around them ?
Nothing worth having in life comes easy unless you were born with a silver spoon.
But you'll never get those if you lock yourselves in your rooms posting on r9k.

>>36108667
No, masturbating when feeling the urge is the opposite of control.

>>36108725

Finally someone gets it.

> Inb4 I play video games and have nothing to offer in life, why are girls not interested REEEEEEEEE

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>>36108725
>implying I haven't tried
>implying I haven't been rejected endlessly
>implying I havent been rejected already this year
>implying there's any hope for a 5'1 manlet

Normie, please see pic related and then get. the. fuck. off. my. board.

>>36108762
> World is only full of two types of people and everyone is completely the same as the characteristics I attribute to the overall group I assign them to
>Projecting this hard

wew lad

>>36108667
I could have been a normie if social anxiety hadn't ruined my life. I avoid the grocery store at all costs, don't even like fast food places if I have to walk inside. I get sweaty when I have to make a phone call, even to the cable company. I don't text or post on my social media anymore because it would send my heart rate through the roof. I spend my weekends alone in my apartment and lie to my coworkers and parents about going out with friends. I'm not a normie, just okay at faking it having had a glimpse into that world.

I'm a 27 year old virgin and I never really "accepted" it I just stopped having hope. Hope is the thing that will kill you, every time a girl looks or talks to you there will be those thoughts of "maybe this will be it!" but of course it never is.

Just ignore women entirely they only cause pain.

>>36108751
And ? You think you're the only one who plays games ? Fuck me I have friends with whom we'd pull all lignighters playing games weekly.

>>36108762
>rejected endlessly
Get in line, and it's not a delusion. Life can be hard, it can be hell and you might have it harder than others.
You have only two choices here.
>Try again and again and again
>give up, but if you do don't complain, live with it
And yes being 5'1 is bad, but it's the end of the world.

>>36108794
So you chose not be a normie, otherwise you'd seek help for your social anxiety.

>>36108437
I take cypro so i can suppress my sex drive

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>>36108794
i've started sweating and blushing constantly because i've had to move to a new section at work, life is suffering.

>>36108823

The vidya green text was ironic and a mockery of all the ''robots'' here who think playing games is a redeemable feature if they have no personality or interests or future prospects and are not entertaining to be around at all. Because that is ALL r9k is now


> I play vidya, but other than that do NOTHING with my life
> why are girls not interested???????

fucking losers

>>36108832
>social anxiety
>seek help

yep that adds up, makes total sense anon why didn't I think of that

>all these normalcunts
why are you even here?

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>>36108823
>And yes being 5'1 is bad, but it's the end of the world.

Freudian slip there lad? Accept that merely wanting something doesn't gaurantee you'll get it. In any population they'll be outliers who don't get laid. I happen to be in that group.

>>36108437
I lost my virginity at 23, there is hope anon.

Never. You can bang bitches even when you are an old codger and need pills to get it up. Aged men get interesting and scream good "provider who can teach me something" to girls, while aged women just go ugly and desperate while yelling "fertilize mah dried eggs and you'll get autism brats" to us.

>>36108866
Not the OP, but were you a KV before that or did you already have some experience with girls?

> t. 21 y.o. KV

>>36108859
Expect for the part where my flat mate who's 5'2 maybe 5'3 is banging a chick who's 5'9 if not 6'0
You know why ? Because he accepted the fact of being short and doesn't waste time crying over it.

>>36108949
>r9k
> ever accepting their own flaws and stop trying to categorize themselves using just a single parameter


All this edge, anon. Don't you know people here never want to improve themselves, just complain all the time

>>36108985
I'm new here so

>>36109015

If this isn't bait, then be prepared for a ton of

''I've been here for 9 years and have not changed a SINGLE thing about myself, why is my life still in the gutter'' stories.

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>>36108949
>tries
>fails over and over again

the average person can only get rejected so many times before it damages you psychologically. I'm not made of steel. I totally relate to OP asking when he should give up because getting consistiently rejected without ever having been loved is FUCKING painful and not an easy thing to keep going through. At what point should one give up, at one point should one value their mental health over the pursuit of acceptance? When does one learn from their mistakes and stop continuously hurting themselves?

>>36109058
>tries
>never changes approach

Why won't this work.jpg

>>36108437
If You're a robot, give up now. I'm not a virgin but didn't have much sex (http://boards.4chan.org/r9k/thread/36105304) im the guy with formerly asexual exgf. I've tried being a normie and all that "just talk to her" stuff while hiding my powerlevel of course. Got rejected 4 tomes already this year:
1st girl - 2/10 face, rest of the body ok (nice ass). We've been talking at workplace quite a lot, she's not stupid, a little older than me (I'm 24). Invited her out, after that she started completely ignoring me (a fucking 2/10!). Ok, nevermind, no need to give up.
Cont.

>>36109110

> OMG other ugly people have to be as desperate as I am

Just because she's 2/10 doesn't mean she's obliged to respond to your advances

>>36109101
>looking for any excuse to continue just-world fallacy

You don't even know how and where I've approached. You've already concluded that it must be my fault and that it's impossible for anyone to be universally unattractive (or at least unattractive to all plausible partners within realistic range)

>>36109110
Cont.
Next attempt, girl with 4/10 face but fit, tall, nice ass. Talked with her, was doing pretty good, she told me that it's surprising I don't have a gf cause I'm such a good guy. Invited me to her place only to tell me I'm not her type and that she's already got a bf. I dont know what I was expecting. Fuck that, I' m not giving up, bring on the next girl.
Cont.

>giving up on sex
>letting society win against you

Pay an escort to lose your virginity. No, not the $20 streetwalker junkies - look up escort sites and pick one you fancy.

This is especially easy to do in the UK, Europe and Australia. Americans, Canadians and Scandinavians are truly the cucked ones.

>>36108948
I'd never done anything with a girl before that night.

>>36108743

Well you can either masturbate and make the urges disappear within 5-10 minutes or you could just let the urges settle in and slowly take over your life leading you to be a depressed, jealous incel.
After you masturbate you stop giving a shit when other people have sex.

>>36109139
Cont.
Next girl turned out to be lesbian so I'm going to skip her but she's actually quite funny, still talking sith me as a friend.
Last girl, petite, nice face, no tits but nevermind, I like BUTTSS more. Started talking with her, noticed she behaves strange around me, talks with me like I'm a lawyer or professor (uses sophisticated words, very formal language), never looks at me. She speaks normaly with other people though. I'veasked her why does she speak like that around me, she told me thath she feels uncomfortable around me. Didn't know what to say so I've just stopped talking with her to not make the situation worse.
The thing is I've tried to be as normal as I could, no offensive jokes, no mentioning vidya or cars (I like cars), just be casual and normie-type of funny . Asked my colleagues wtf is wrong eith me, they told me I'm giving these sophisticated, proffessor-geeky-nerdy type of vibes. I dont know why, I'm not smart, I drive a fucking forklift in a fucking warehaouse for fucks sake, thats not where fucking smart people work.
Gave up on talking with females.
Once a loser, forever a loser.

>>36109125
We talked with each other all the time, from what I could tell she liked talking with me too. It's when Iasked her out she told me she needs to think about it and started ingoring me.

>>36109146
clearly you are missing the point...

>>36109146
well from my experience there are enough men out their willing to pay for sex that even escorts can by choosy and reject guys they dont like.

>>36108437

Around 45.

>>36109274
>escorts can by choosy and reject guys they dont like.
how dirty are you anon?

>>36109125
Also, I came up with a plan. Instead to talikng with every new girl at my workplace with hope of getting a gf, I will not speak with them, not even acknowledge their existence for at least a weak or so. Why? The answer is simple.
If they don't talk to me, not even a "hi" for at least a week, I'll already know that for them I'm just a walking piece of furniture, not worth attention. I'll know that thay don't think I'm attractive or interesting in any way, that I'm not worth knowing. Therefore, I won't even lose my time on them, so I will not get rejected.
But IF a girl starts talking with me out of her own will, even if it's just about weather or work or anything, then I'll know that she actually perceives me as something more than just a background drone. Then I will try to do EROSION.
Cont.

>>36108437

don't give up until atleast 25 - 27

>>36109332
Cont.
What is erosion? Let me explain.
There are basically 2 ways of making a girl like you. First one is BOOM-MOIST. That's themethod reserved only for Chads. They simply aproach a girl and after one conversation (or even before that) - BOOM - shes all MOIST. Chad gets the girl, end of story.
But if You're not Chad, the only method for You is to erode the girl. Just like water can break the rock after thousands of years of constant interaction, You czn make the grill like Your personality or find You charming by spending timewith her, talking and getting to know her. There'sof course the danger of friendzone but hey, at least there's a small chance of success

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>>36108437
who /volcel/ here?

22 hkv here. I wonder if it always been like this, say 50 years ago did people like us have same issues. Shouldn't it be easier to get laid now with dating sites and everything available.

>>36109364
What made you choose those ages?

Personally, I avoid trying to get a gf an places i have to go alot, like work.

25 is the point if no return, you either do it with 25 or get stunned your whole life

I think I should get a medal for biggest sperg on the planet

I'm 6'1 handsome and athletic and still a 23 year old virgin neet because of mental abnormalties

I've literally had like 20 chances to lose it all ignited by women but I ran away from each one

now I'm a complete hermit neet and socialize like twice a year and am losing my fucking mind

>>36109450
Well, I dont know of any other places I coild try. I'm not living in the states so I can't just aproach a random girl at a coffee shop or park, people are not that open here (UK). Also, I'm not english and I'm ashamed of my accent and pronounciation. I know grammar pretty well but the way I sound is so fucked that english people have trouble understanding me. Suprisingly, other immigrants understand me perfectly.
I've noticed that natives treat me like a retard because I sound like a literal caveman with good grammar. Also, nobody can guess where I'm from. People have told me that my acccent sounds german, russian, italian, indian and pakistani (wtf people, I'm white). So even if I started talking to a random girl in the park, she would've propably thought that I'm a retard asking for money or something.

>>36109532
Where are you from?

originaldo

>>36109532
>Well, I dont know of any other places I coild try.
it just seems like a bad idea to me,
if things go sour or otherwise fuck up in some way now you have no choice but to have to deal with it everyday and that makes the daily grind even harder.
God I hate working.

>>36109564
White immigrant, living in the UK, doing shitty physical work no english person wants to do. Guess, anon, You have 1 try.

>>36109532
in the states because of arnold schwarzenegger people here associate German accents with masculinity.

>>36109591
Rzeczpospolita?

>>36109591
couldn't you try approaching other pollacks in the uk?

>>36109052
>haven't changed a thing about myself
I've tried changing. And I can't. I've tried countless times to lose weight. I'd rather just kill myself than keep trying to fix all the terrible shit about me.

>>36109633
No raczej.

>>36109651
I did. The first girl, the 2/10, was romanian. The one that turned out to be lesbian is english. 2 others (you-are-not-my-type and i-feel-uncomfortable-around-you) were polish.
There's a problem with polish girls. If the have a choice between a polish guy and a foreigner, they chose a foreigner 99% of the time. Ask any polish guy, they will confirm this. The girls will, obviously, deny it
That's shy I want to try with english girls. Maybe they'll think I'm exotic or they will like the fact that I come from a country where old fashioned chivalry is still a common thing.

I got laid just yesterday :^}

I have shed my robot armor this summer- stop masturbating, get a hobby, eat a lot of mushrooms. Confidence skyrocketed. Still have manic bpd so I have lapses and dark ones at that. But when I'm up I'm up.

>>36108437
22 khv ive given up and am trying to cope that no woman will ever want me

Fornication is degenerate. You have intercourse to make kids

>>36109721
magic mushrooms or normie shrooms?

>>36108856
this is a normie board now, its practically reddit

best go to wizchan

>>36109125
Yes, that's because even 2/10 girl will get Chad while 2/10 male will be rejected constantly

>>36110674
True dat. I thought that her being 2/10 will influence her way of choosing guys. You know, that she'll look for other qualities, not just physical appearence. But, alas, that was no the case
If a girl is truly attracted to a guy, she will let him know that. There's no such thing as a shy female. If she didn't tell You she likes You sttaight away, she doesn't.

>>36109274
Only if it's justified like being a stinky unhygienic fatty that no one regardless of gender wants to be near.

But aside from that escorts will pretty much fuck anyone as long as they're clean and have money. The point is to circumvent the 80-20 meme and being rejected for shitty mundane reasons such as being into video games despite not being autistic about them.

>>36109689
>old fashioned chivalry is still a common thing

You do realise this is where the beta male meme comes from, right?

>>36110838
I feel ya. I met chubby girl once and she said I was not to her taste. We were talking everyday a lot, played vidya together and in general shared a lot of interests. But she met me once, said I'm not to her taste and that was it. We kept talking to each other, but she never wanted to meet me again. She also said she's just shy too.
Later on she found a Chad and now they are happy.

>>36108437
>being obsessed with sex
>being obsessed with being in a relationship
>being obsessed with being a normie


just don't give up on marrying op.

>>36111055
I still have that last piece of hope that I'll find a girl that doesn't want to be drilled by chads dick and appreciates someone who treats her like a human being. Yeah, I'm a mongoloid retard, I know. It's surprising I dont walk on my bare knuckles.

>>36111100
Then you should go back to east europe where many western PUAs and men in general go for that very reason.

>>36108437
age 28

-i am age 36

>>36111146
Yeah, as a russian I can tell you that it's really common. If you go to the cinema where they play movies in original, it's full of 'english speaking male+russian female' couples. Couples like that are common on twitch, I see them on street. Damn, I even saw black guy kissing russian girl once.
The thing is there's really no difference
You have Tyrons, we have this. Women are the same.

>>36110524
Nah, wizchan is for volcels, not incels.

>>36111289
Question from a fellow slav: do russian girls prefer foreign guys over russian guys? Because if yes, then they arent that different from polish girls.

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>>36111359
>implying volcel isn't a meme
>implying volcels aren't just incels with a mask on

a rose by any other name...

>>36111031
>But aside from that escorts will pretty much fuck anyone as long as they're clean and have money
nope

>>36109206
>The thing is I've tried to be as normal as I could, no offensive jokes, no mentioning vidya or cars
She's uncomfortable around you because you're not being yourself.
She's literally doing back to you what you seem to be doing to her.

>>36111465
Well there aren't much foreign guys here, but I can say I see russian girls with english speaking foreigners very often. I guess they are like 'exotic' to them

>>36112056
Yeah, but "myself" is a fat 3/10 nihilistic misanthropic depressed anxious ugly small-dicked almost-virginal childlike lazy stupid vidya-loving boring retard. At least I'm tall.
Being myself caused the love of my life leaving to fuck a japanese rodent. That's not the best idea.

>>36112204
That's better than a fat 3/10 nihilistic misanthropic depressed anxious ugly small-dicked almost-virginal childlike lazy stupid vidya-loving boring retard pretending to be normal.
At least you're honest.

I'm not saying show her your waifu, tell her hitler did nothing wrong then ejaculate in her soup, I'm saying don't be afraid to say the things you want to say.
Otherwise it's going to be a boring bullshit formal facade.

>>36112056
>because you're not being yourself.
ah the just beeeeee yourself meme

>>36112348
Not a meme my dood.
What would you rather?
A friend/gf who is comfortable and themself, or a friend/gf who's uncomfortable and full of shit?

>>36112373
that implies i can read minds,
sorry but i cant so none of that shit applies to me.
you have to sell yourself to other people, that's just how life for most people,

>>36112434
>that implies i can read minds
No it implies that you can read people and feel what they feel.
Empathy is a basic human function, unless you're a turbo autist.

>you have to sell yourself to other people
Sure in a lot of ways that's true. But it's better to sell yourself, or "the best version of you" rather than a bullshit mask that can only be maintained for so long.

>>36112286
I don't know exactly what to talk about with normies. Usually after 5 minutes of conversation silence befalls over us (or something). I ask her about work,where does she live etc. And she usually answers with single words. I'm just boring when I can't speak about why 2009 focus rs is better than any other hot hatch or the differences between lightsaber crystals.

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>>36112348
From experience, be yourself isn't a meme. It's very hard to articulate what exactly it means but I guess it's something you can only learn with age.

>>36112496
>or "the best version of you"
yeah that sounds like some bullshit mental gymnastics right there.

>>36112502
Maybe if she mentions a co-worker or some shit ask her about the co-worker and if they're a cunt or whatever. Ask her if she enjoys her job, ask her if that's what she really wants to do. Go for the big questions like what she thinks of life in general or what she really wants be.
If you think of a joke tell it, if you don't oh well, you;re not a clown it;s not your job to be funny, it's not your job to be anything.

I dunno, I guess just try to get to know her and ask what you're genuinely curious about, then if she hits the ball back in your court tell her what you genuinely think and feel.

>>36112530
Elaborate.

>>36112516
This guy gets it.

>>36109180
It's the other way around. If you masturbate, yeah it stops it for a few hours, you only increase the cravings and fantasizing in the long-term. Gotta stop completely.

>>36108852
Because you're using that anxiety as an excuse to stay a lonely robot, I get it, it's easier this way. Because if you try and fail you only have yourself to blame, but if you don't you can keep the excuse going.

>IB4 therapy is a meme

No, your life is a meme, a sad one

>>36112588
there is only one version of you anon

>>36112912
If I failed 99 times I will have enough data to assume that the 100th time will end in failure as well.

>>36113015
I disagree.
There's you as you are in your current state and also a potential "best you" somewhere inside.
A more confident version of you, essentially.

It's like those people who used to be massive losers and unJUSTed themselves.
They're still them, but they're a better version of them.

>>36108762
thanks for that pic related, it explains so much

>>36108632
>Life is hell
>Fucks not one but multiple girls
Kys normalfag

>>36108437
>19-yo V
>Lost HH in high school, lost K last year in college
How long should I wait before giving up on V? I don't think girls even know I exist at this point.
>inb4 normie

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>>36108437
It all depends on the person, ther is no magic cut off age for losing it
most lose it before 18 but it's a mix of social skills, status, looks and how you're trying. It can all be changed to make your chances higher.
but the age where it cuts off for not having to try (if you're not attractive) is about 20, really once you leave education.

>>36113043
Ok, keep being miserable.

>>36113402
Like I have a choice. My colleagues even started calling me sheldon, like the one from big banf theory (I hate this show) because apparently I keep acting and talking like him. I laugh this off but it really starts being annoying. And sad.

>>36109110
You can link to posts without typing the entire URL, newfriend.

>>36107088

Took me until 30. It's actually a relief.

>>36113501
Are you actually a 30yo khhv?

>>36113484
You're not sheldon, sheldon has friends a social life and a gf.

And yea, you have a choice, you can either trying until it either works or you die or you can give up and die alone.
The only good think about it, is that you have unlimited tries if you won't give up.

>>36113573
Yeah,I have unlimited retries,but after that many rejections my mental health is already... Um... Unhealthy (?) and I'm quite fed up,thank You very much.

>>36113565
I've had a hug. But yeah I'm a wizard.

>>36113573
Yeah Sheldon is what normies think a autists life is like.

>>36113658
If your mental health is exhausted either get help or end it, what's the point of vegetating like this ?

>>36108794
Social anxiety is for failed normies

>>36113715
I watched BBT and don't think sheldon is full on captain autismo, he's probably borderline.

>>36109386
Volcel here because I cant get my dick hard and dislike sex

>>36113720
I have the plan ready and everything (the train) but my grandma will be sad. Also, I'm waiting for my 25th birthday,maybe something will change (we have a saying: hope is the mother of stupid people) so I still have 3 months left.

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>>36113969
With that attitude nothing will change. Change only occurs when you work towards it. Friends and gf will not magically appear in your life.

>>36114045
6 months ago I decided that maybe if I change myself my oneitis will want to be with me again. I started doing pushups every day, I did the ketosis thing (no sugar, milk, carbs etc.), I've lost about 10 kilos, colleagues liked me (they are calling me sheldon but in a playful way (?)) and I've saved some money. Nothing changed, no girl showed any interest in me, my oneitis still hates me and is fucking a japanese vermin. Change is impossible,once a loser forever a loser.

>>36114045
that attitude isn't something that was always there, it develops after a lifetime of effort and rejection. it's not like "wah someone come save me" it's like "if someone wants anything to do with me, they'll make it known (something that happens to normies nearly daily) but if not i'll just an hero"

t. 26 y.o. waiting to kill himself until my 10,000th day alive (357 days)

>>36114284
Cont.
When I saw that all that effort was in vain, I've started eating shit again and gained all that weight back, I've stopped leaving my house, I just go to work and back every day and that's it. Before I was going to a coffee shop to read some books, I know it's pathetic but hey, I was around normies so it's something. But again, nothing changed, so why bother. I just play vidya now and that's it, approaching girls doesn't work, working out doesn't work, eating healthy doesn't work, so what the fuck am I supposed to do next, huh, anon?

>>36108851
Fuck off retard>>36114045 kys normie

>>36108664
You don't belong here, scum. Get out get out get out of this board!

>>36108437
Never give up you magnificent bastard, get off of your ass, hit the gym everyday, get big as fuck, then you know what youd be motherfucker, you be a semi-intelligent buff dude, I did this shit in highschool, if your big and intelligent you can get more pussy than you know what to do with.

>>36114284
>>36114414
Oy vey, only 6 months of hard work vs a lifetime of bad habits and my life didn't turn 180 degrees so it's not working, back to being fat.

>>36114326
People don't come to you or make it known, you have to meet them half way.

>>36114636
>People don't come to you or make it known, you have to meet them half way.
you're obviously fucking retarded. i'm saying that for fucking 26 years i've gone 99% of the way and nobody fucking went 1%. how the fuck do you not understand this basic ass concept.

normies really need to fucking leave, they really don't fucking get it at fucking all

>>36114685
Right, for a second I forgot where I am. It's always their fault for not accepting you.

>>36114710
Yeah I forgot I'm speaking to a normie he always has his dumb self loathing mentality on

>>36114710
i'm sorry for the strong language but you're a thickheaded numbskull retard normie fuck off

i don't talk like this to normies irl only to fagtards online. now fuck off, you're out of your element.

>>36114757
I came bearing gifts of help. But you reject them.

>>36114636
>Oy vey
and now the picture is becoming clearer.

>>36114636
Ok then, let's put it like this. Imagine that You've lost Your legs when You were 15 or so. Imagine watching all those kids having fun with their legs, running around, riding bikes etc. Naturally, You are sad and depressed about not doing stuff that everyone else is doing, You feel like You don't belong. Meanwhile everyone around You keeps telling You that You just have to try and everything will be ok. It's like they don't notice that You don't have the means to do this (nobody can notice that You've lost Your legs).
So after 10 years of moping You decude to fuck it, You are going to try being like others, try being normal, try having fun with them. But You can't, no matter how hard You try. Being a loser for half of Your life You don't have much energy or motivation to do this so when You see it doesn't work, You give up because You're alone, nobody will help You and You can't get anybody to help You because You're not like them. How can I keep trying if it doesn't work?

>>36114786
>and now the picture is becoming clearer.
I'm only 25% jewish, use it for the irony effect.

>>36114782
Not him but you didn't, yoru adive was shit

>hurr durr you're always wrong it's always you you, your fault for everything

Literally inverse victim complex, your mentality is equally retarded as a narcistic one, only it's at the other extreme

>>36108667
>It comes hand in hand anon
I think you mean dick in hand

>>36114782
YOU DID NOT

YOU ARE A FUCKING NORMIE YOU DON'T FUCKING GET IT GOD JUST FUCK OFF

ARE YOU SERIOUSLY THIS RETARDED? YOU THINK WE HAVEN'T TRIED LITERALLY ALL THAT RETARDED SHIT BEFORE????? FUCK OFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF

>>36114794
Oh I get it. I'm not telling you it will be ok, I'm you it might be. But it 100% won't be if you don't try.
Also people without legs can get prosthetic legs and try walking.

>>36114636
Cont.
All I've seen on this board is GET FIT and GO OUT and JUST TALK WITH THEM and I did just that and what? Nothing fucking changed. If I didn't talk with anyone at least they would have called me "sheldon" behind my back, not straight in my face.
How long do I have to keep doing this for something to change? 10 years? 20 years? HOW LONG YOU FUCKING NORMIE?! How much mkre am I supposed to pretend I'm someone different?

>>36114821
And everyone on this board is stuck in that very victim complex you mention.

>>36114794
This.

But it's even worse than that considering everyone will splatter in your face

>this is why you have no friends
>this is why no one ever loved you etc, etc...

Whenever you make a mistake or have disagreement, the will treat you like trash because you're in the bottom of the barrel socially speaking

>>36114879
GET FUCKING THIS
If you don't have a fucking experience and good looks just approaching woman WILL NOT FUCKING WORK.
The only thing that will work is slowly building a circle of friends and trying to meet someone this way.

>>36114905

more condescending, generalizing, ignorant tripe from a douchebag who couldn't possibly understand what it's like to be a true outcast for your entire formulative years

your "advice" is worthless shit new to nobody. your arrogant shitheaded, one-dimensional attitude wins you over sluts at the bar, but it doesn't work here.

just fuck off.

>>36108437
I've never given a shit about sex because of my impossible IRL fetishes I've had since I was 4

>>36114879
>How long do I have to keep doing this for something to change? 10 years? 20 years? HOW LONG YOU FUCKING NORMIE?!

As long as it fucking takes, it's either that or giving up and being miserable for the rest of your life.

>>36115027
How is that different than meeting someone at work? It's still You who has to do teh talking, not Your friends, well, unless You want the girl to want to fuck You friend more.
Besides, what about that JUST TALK WITH HER rule which gets mentioned in almost every fucking thread on this board? You mean to tell me that ... GASP! it was all fucking bullshit? No fucking way!

>>36115082
Because you don't choose the people you work with, and if you are in fact unsuitable to be friends with normies or chads, you are going to have to go the extra mile to find other robots to hang out with. And if they are robots, there just might a girl somewhere there that you might have a shot with.
It's a big fucking IF but it's your best shot at not being alone.

>>36108437
25 seems to be the consensus. I've only got a couple years left, I'm starting to think about going innawoods to become a mountain hermit.

>>36115082
>caring about sex when you have no friends, hobbies/passions, life figured out

Hmmm.. sweety, sex is a luxurity, settle your emotional and purpose needs before then you can have sex if you want it so bad you sex obsessed freak

>>36115082
Just talk with her is actually a piece of shit advice, You're a robot, it won't work.

>>36115056
Ok, let me try anofher metaphor (boy, for a stupid person I'm quite good with metaphors).
Let's say that I tell You that if You manage to get that huge heavy boilder up this incredibly tall mountain MAYBE I'll give You a reward. So You say: ok, I will try, and You get that boilder up on top of the huge mountain. You're exhausted, in pain, You want to die but hey, You did it. And then I say whoops, no reward this time, bad luck. BUT, if You get another boulder on top of another mountain, maybe this time You'll win.
So You think no problem, I can try again. You do this, bravo sir, but again, no reward this time. But there's another mountain, maybe third time's a charm
You do this 3rd time and oooow yeah, reward! But the reward is 5 fucking dollars. But heeey, mate, how about You try the next time, maybe this time reward will be bigger, eh?
What would You say? I knkw what would You say. It woild sound something like FUCK OFF YOU CHEATING LYING BASTARD! So dont get all angry at me when I say I'm tired i ftrying

>>36108437
Dont give up on sex, sex is EVERYTHING. What you need to give up on is relationships.

Pay for sex, fap like crazy, buy a sex doll, hook up via internet hook up sites, whatever. Just dont fall for the love meme. Because of all the things that are called memes, Love is the only one that is.

I gave up on love at 26, when my gf of 10 years, who I 100% supported financially left me when she lost weight, and started getting attention from guys.
Typical of a woman. Always thinking the grass is greener. She moved in with her mom 3 years ago, and shes still there, she is without a car. Bitch actually thought She could take the car I bought her, which Im stilll currently paying for. WHY WOULD SHE THINK THAT?

Give up on love Op. Not sex.

Once women get to about 25 and filled their dick head quota theyl be all over you

>>36115280
>SEX IS EVERYTHING

T.Sex addicted brainwashed millenial nihilistic tard

I've never desired sex and I'm fine, thankyou.

Millions in people throughout history died a virgin and were happy and respect by all, now fuck off back to TUMBLR you degnerate filth, thank you.

>>36115136
I'm not looking for sex, fuck it, I have fucking aspergers so I don't like people touching me or even giving me a handshake. I'm looking for a companion, a soulmate to love, to cuddle with (yes, i dont like touching but if I got used to that person and loved her I would crave it) and to share interests with. Sex for me is something so distant that I don't care about it. Even when I had a gf she didn't want to fuck me so what makes You think some other person will want to?

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>>36115308
>Millions in people throughout history died a virgin and were happy and respect by all

Is this really what virgins tell themselves? AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

>>36115364
Who is St.Francesco?

Who St.thomas Quinas?

Who is Tesla?

Who is Newton?

Who is Leopardi?

The list goes on

>Le virgin shaming meme

Literally didn't exist before le sexual liberation whcih ahppened roughly in the 70s, before that it's either extremely rare or completely non existent, kys.

>>36115250
Oh I know this one, when you put shit tonne of effort into something and it rarely pays of.
It's called everyday life, not a life of a person who won a genetic lottery or was born with silver spoon.
But I get it, you gave up and it's your right to do so. Maybe it was them, maybe it was you, maybe it was a bit of both.
I'm not here to give you stupid advise like be yourself or just talk to her.
Sometimes you have to change few things in yourself to fit in. But if you're in your 20s you have 50-70 years ahead of you if you don't an hero. That's a lot of time to just sit there having given up.

Jagger was right when he said
You can't always get what you want
But if you try sometimes well you might find
You get what you need

>>36108437
After uni/college. There wont be any easier place to get laid.
t. 24 khv.

>>36115418
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA....... AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA

>>36115418
Because back than a man is his 20 would be either engaged or already married.

>>36115443
Thanks for not being the annoying kind of normie. Yeah, I don't know waht to do with my life, that's the main problem. I don't have any talents, and I've noticed that I've lost the ability to learn. Like, when people keep doing something, they get better at it, right?
But I don't, not the language, not math, I don't even get better at driving that fucking forklift and I'm doing that almost every day. I play vidya for 20 years now, every day, and I still suck, no matter if it's FPS, RPG, RTS, Civ game or whatever. I mean, if I like it, it should be easier for me to get better, right?
I even went to a fortune teller because I need someone to tell me what to do, to push me in some direction. She told me that I'm going to get some training or a degree soon and that will help me find a better job. But it's been 2 months already and I still don't know what training or course should I get so I'm still doing nothing

>>36114849
take a deep breath and calm down boyo

>>36115587
>Yeah, I don't know waht to do with my life, that's the main problem
I dropped out of uni in year 4 (out of 4) didn't tell anyone, Was content with just sitting there getting high wasting my life away, not knowing what to do where to go.
I'm going back in, working and studying at the same time.
Life is strange, and it's easy to get lost. I get it man.
The ability to learn will come back, brain is like a muscle, if you have't used it in a while it will take time to get back in shape.
Picking yourself up on your own is the hardest thing you'll ever do. But if you don't no one else will, there are to busy either trying not to fall themselves or they don't care.

>>36115520
Sex literally disgusts me, I was born without desire for it, maybe even repulsionmore than simple lack of desire.

I don't get why so many people are obsessed with it, especially for non repreoduction purposes

>>36115716
Because you're asexual, you won't get them, they won't get you.

>>36115712
I was thinking about coding or programming or web developement, something with computers and stuff. After all, I've read so much about it being the perfect job for an autistic sperglord. I've tried learning that, even took a class but it's like no matter how hard I try, my brain refuses to learn that shit, even the fucking HTML, the most basic shit.
I've tried economy, failed on 4 year out of 5, haven't even started writing my masters thesis.
I've tried math, no fucking chance, calculus is the devils invention.
I'm too stupid to learn the robot stuff so I just drive a forklift with no chance of promotion or a payrise.
Comfy but useless, waste of the "best years of my life".

How do i get over fear of intimacy and physical contact?

>>36115845
Just study history and become an archeologist, you just have to have verbal intelligence and use your memory

>>36115845
There are other sciences you can go for or learn a trade, there is no shame in that. No job is useless, earning your own upkeep and not leaving on neetbux is already something.
Even if takes you a lifetime, you shouldn't stop on trying to find something you like and are good at. Even if it's something simple and others look down on.

>>36115928
Depends how bad it is, your choices are either a right person who will ease you in or a therapy.

>>36115928
Yeah, well, there isn't much demand for new archeologists, is there? It's not like it's a very useful position and there are already lots of people who learn this because they love it, not just because they have nothing better to do.
I would just feel like a total failure if I came back to university in my mid 20s, all these beautiful young people around me, "hip kids" if You will. I already feel like I've wasted my life and I'm not even 30.
Anyway, anyone here from the UK or are there only 'Muricans in this thread?

>>36115985
Weren't we supposed to talk about virginity and stuff? Enough about me, dear anons.
>>36115894
You have to find someone You care about and who feels the same way about You. Yes, I know, this advice sucks dicks but there isn't really any other aolution.

>>36116046
Guy from this post
>>36115712
I'm going back at 27, don't let age stop you, can't turn it back you can only make the rest count.

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>>36115584
That is not really true, a lot of men actually ended up alone for their entire lives even before the XX century.
>pic related was a lonely fuck who scared women because of his mustache
>people made fun of him for apparently masturbating too much
>orbited a woman so hard that she fled the country
>might have contracted syphillis the one time he decided to go to a whorehouse
And then theres Schopenhauer, who literally only had his poodles for company.

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>>36116145
>cherry picking at it's finest

additional text to make my post originato

>>36116145
A lot pf philospers were virgins/never married Descartes comes to my mind, but probably Kant too and Spinoza just to name a few

>>36108762
What entitles you to tell people to leave ' your' board lmao

>>36116117
>You have to find someone You care about and who feels the same way about You
Damn, i'm 25.

>>36116267
Yo momma

Btw, yo momma so fat when i killed her in unreal tournament i got a triple kill

>>36116293
Oh noes I hasn't found my true oneitis by the age of 25 what do I do ?

>>36116339
It's not about finding oneitis, it's about your oneitis feeling the same way. That's the difficult part.

>>36116339
So funny. Besides i've never had oneitis.

>>36110488
Magic duh

>22
>when i interact with girls that are above average i tend to lose my shiz
>even when they seem abhorrent as a person

send help

>>36108437
Is it really giving up if I never tried in the first place?