Who else /changed/?

>>36090664
Teach me your ways.

I really need a gf I am a socially anxious 23 KHV.

>>36090664
was
>NEET, depressed with bad anxiety, obese, virgin

now I'm
>decent job but with long hours, depressed with light anxiety, fit, virgin

getting better

>>36090664
>27 obese NEET
Studying again and quit drinking so losing weight and getting /fit/.

>>36090719
If I knew it, bro, I'd make a manual.

One day I just woke up, felt like shit by being the way I was, so I decided to work out, stop overeating and get a job.
Did all that. Then I noticed that socialising with people is not a seven-headed monster, it's simple and people are mostly okay, as okay as people can be at least.
It got easier as I got confidence by seeing girls checking me out and flirting and all that. So I just moved on them and that was it.

It was just something that clicked in my brain.

>>36090664
I used to be a person that wanted to have a gf and went out of my way to get gfs
Now i dont care about gfs and just do other things
Thats the only thing thats changed, stayed the same in other aspects, minimal effort in everything i do, no hobbies interest motivation.

>>36090664
was
>normie gamer, drinking in clubs every week chasing girls like a cuck, skinny beta, complete bluepilled idiot losing life opportunities, bad choices, doing autistic things...

now after 2 years of 4chan I'm
>slightly strange normie, redpilled on politics and girls, still rather beta but not doing autistic shit and can defend myself verbally more, /fa/ and /fit/, higher self-confidence, enjoying beautiful moments in my life more, social drinker and also have 2 gfs like you OP...

>>36090664
>used to be a semi popular normie in highschool, could hang out with Chad and Stacy
>realized how shallow people actually were and slowly lost faith in humanity
>now I'm here looking at human failures in hopes of them posting something that will entertain me and give me a laugh
>but I am also one of those human failures

>>36090664
>17.0 BMI, can barely leave room, rarely shower
now
19.5 BMI, exercising reguarly, cleanboy, better wardrobe and haircut, driving places

Still have a ways go go, but It's happening. feels babysteps man

>>36090664
Filed under shit that never happened.

>>36090664
>>36090811

imagine how pathetic someone needs to be to lie on r9k

and I don't even know why

>>36090664
I smell loadsa bullshit in this post

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So what are you doing or r9k then ?

was
>sad and lonely NEET, in decent shape and with lots of hobbies
now
>got a waifu pillow
>happy NEET, in decent shape and lots of hobbies

I got fit and got a job (i've had 3 so far) and not a god damn thing changed. I am still very socially autistic and shy around women, and they don't seem to find me very attractive. Good for you though.

>>36090664
Was
>loser, no close friends, virgin, skinny
Now
>popular, got a place to study at the best uni in the world, /fit/, had sex with several girls and now have a insanely cute gf that adores me

Achieved in 2 years of hard work and perseverance

>was obese and socially anxious
>now healthy weight and still socially anxious, now with additional body dysmorphia
>tfw everytime i look in the mirror i see obese me even though i have decent muscle mass now and when i measure myself im definitely thinner than i was
>tfw panic attacks if i go over maintenance calories on one day because im scared of suddenly ballooning back up

So many people say weight loss gives you confidence but i feel worse now

>>36090664
OH YEAH BRAAAAH HAHA LOL I JUST WOKE UP YESTERDAY AND THOUGHT SHIT NIGGA I NEED TO GET FIT
AND THEN TODAY I WAS A 6'4 BLACK MODEL WITH ABS LOOKING LIKE A GREEK STATUE AND ALL GIRLS WANT MY BBC
DUDE ALL I DID WAS BE MYSELF LMAO

>>36090811
>seeing girls checking me out and flirting and all that.
Stopped reading here. You're not short, not ugly, can't relate.

>>36092302
I'm short. Being short never bothered me, still doesn't bother me. Not sure why you assume I'm not short.

I tried to change for years and years, then one day I actually stuck with it.
I started lifting, eating healthily and I stuck with it. Lost 29kg. Then I decided to get a job because everything stopped making me feel good. Vydia made me feel like shit for wasting my time. Staying at home became a chore. I used to hate going out, now I can't stand being at home.
The only thing that made me happy was working out. Video-games, being obsolete, a good for nothing fucker started to make me feel like shit.
So I got a job and I have to travel a lot because of it, I go out, meet people, socialise with co-workers.
The two girls I'm "dating" (mostly just going out with and fucking sometimes) I've met only because I decided to go out. I saw them checking me out, flirting and I decided to say hi, meet them because why not?
It took me a while to learn the ropes of socialising.