>long term crush on some girl
>she decides to get a piercing
I know it's a huge red flag and I've never seen a girl that looked better with a piercing than without one. What a waste.
I'm not even terribly upset, I'm just disappointed.
Piercings and tattoos really are trash. It's not even cool anymore, homosexuals probably have tattoos more often than bikers, prisoners and servicemen.
>>36043899
It's like I'm living in a dystopian future
>>36043821
Stop chasing after her OP, it might sound like overreacting, but it will only become worse.
>>36044962
I'm having self doubt, I'm not even sure whether I'm right or wrong here.
>>36043821
Red flag or not; she's probably trying to make herself more sexually attractive to someone, and my bet would be that that someone isn't you.
>>36045552
That's fairly unlikely.
>>36045614
Unlikely that she's trying to make herself sexier or unlikely that she has no interest in impressing you?
And exactly what kind of piercing are we talking about?
>>36045663
She might be trying to make herself more sexy, but not for me or someone else. I got that covered.
A couple of ear piercings.
>>36045718
That's what this is about?
Ear piercings?
And what do you mean 'got that covered'?
>cyberstalk ex for years
>cry a lot
>she gets tattoos and piercings
fucking dropped
>>36043821
Kek, you don't know about disappointment.
>Be me 15 at the time
>Get invited to a good friends party
>By party I mean little gathering of our social circle
>Like 8 people in total
>He invites my crush aswell
>I meet up with my crush and walk up to his house together
>I ask her out before we get there
>She says "yes"
>absolutely buzzing
>Think to myself it's going to be a start of a new chapter
>I might even get laid
>Get to friends house
>Sit around for a bit, order pizza
>Then we go and buy some booze
cont
>>36045808
It's a lot of ear piercings, you have no idea.
She decided to get the piercings together with a group of girls to show how good of friends they were.
>>36045998
>we get to the corner store that sells booze
>friend has a fake ID or something
>we buy booze
>walk back to his house
>Get there and start drinking
>I drink the most
>I go upstairs to the toilet
>walk back downstairs and see her making out with my friend
>Full on tongue fucking each other
>Crushed inside
>Stay at the party and drink even more.
>extremely pissed off at crush
>She says sorry etc.
>I call the date off.
cont
>>36046064
I don't like where this is going. Please make this end.
>>36043821
>see a girl when riding a bus
>really qt
>see her few more times
>tfw no gf
>notice she has a tattoo behind her ear
And then all of my feeling were gone. She is trash. Feels good. Now I have to find a new girl that will make me go tfw no gf.
>>36045852
My nigga.
I've been thinking about her for 5 years. And then she got a tattoo.
Now I am finally free. Fuck her, I'm looking for a new pure waifu.
>>36046064
>>36046126
>Fast forward 7 months
>Decide to give her another go
>We start going ice skating with our group of friends
>befriend a different group of people
>Go to parties a lot drink etc
>I decide to ask her out again
>She says yes again
>Plan out entire date
>We'll go on the in 1.5 weeks
>crush turns 16 (age of consent in UK)
>Meant to go to a party saturday (week before the date)
>I get ill don't go
>Find out that she ended up fucking a 19 year old.
>absolutely hate her now
>Still haven't recovered from the subsequent depression
>still have no trust in women
>>36046212
How old are you now senpai? You don't still follow her on social media right?
>>36045852
>>36046186
It's like coalburners, once you find out you completely lose interest.
>>36046491
18I still follow her on social media sometimes.
>>36046812
I've followed a girl for many years, it sucks the soul out of you.
I probably can't tell you anything you haven't already heard. You know the drill.
>>36045852
Girls are so casual about it. I'm sure the vast majority of men dont like it.
I obsessed over my first oneitis through much of high school and eventually the feeling faded away towards the end. What made me finally realize that I was completely over her was seeing her FB pictures a year or two after graduating and seeing her with piercings and bright tumblr-tier hair dye though.
>>36043821
i know that feel
i fuckin hate piercings, man
>>36047634
iktf, the saddest part is when you realize how many years you spend chasing after the girl.
>>36047786
Yeah, I spent my entire freshman and sophomore years and half of my junior year obsessed with a girl who rejected me. And now when I look back I just wonder what I saw in her in the first place and I get angry at myself for wasting my high school years on her. Maybe I wouldn't have become a normie anyway but I probably would've turned out better doing literally anything else.
>>36047877
If it wasn't for the girl I chased after I would probably have switched schools in second grade.