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Post stories about things getting better
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>>36000586
Quit 4chan, things went immediately better. :)
Go here from time to time like once a week but for 10 mins only.
Dunno what to say, everyhting just went better.
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>ask girl out when I was 16
>she says no
>she has a miscarriage ten years later
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It doesn't get better for us. You can definitely try, but you will eventually realize that your efforts are all naught. You will fall back into depression and dispair; at this point you will either give up completely or start the vicious cycle of attempting to approve/failing and falling back into your old ways
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>Be NEET for three years
>Suddenly start to feel bad about it
>Use the negative emotions as motivation to apply for a school
>Go to school
>Meet a few cool people there
>Get passing grades
>Get into university
>None of my parents went to uni so my self-esteem improved
>Meet more people
>Planning to apply for a course that will likely land me a job in a year.
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>>36000655
Where to go then?
4chan is my life
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I used to be super shy about asking girls out/ being romantic but I got a gf a could months ago and i could not be happier.

You could always man up and get laid/ find your qts. It's never too late.
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>>36000794
>>36000909
Thanks goys, this board needs more self improvement. Right now it's like a festering sore that I keep scratching, I know it's negative but it feels good and I visit out of habit
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>>36000586
every time in my life things have gotten slightly better, it always gets much worse directly after. Probably has something to do with me being bipolar.
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>>36000909

>just b yourself

orignalkurac
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>>36000586
I used to be awkward and anxious, I hated myself and I failed holding any type of meaningful relationship for so
long that I finally gave up and embraced my status as an outcast. I stopped trying to be nice, in fact I forced
myself to be crude and hostile. I started taking what I wanted, not giving a shit how others would feel about it.

Gained several real life friends within the week. I continue to do whatever the fuck I feel like. Went and talked
to a pretty Asian girl last week, turned out she was a cutesy anime weeb, I told her she was really annoying and
left.

Being a jerk is pretty fun dudes, and somehow people like me more when I'm an unforgiving asshole, too.
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>>36001048
Ever heard of Patrice oneal? Dude was famous for being rude to women and humiliating them for no reason, solid 80% of the girls immediately became attracted. They like confidence, especially Staceys, because they're used to every guy going out of their way to be nice
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>>36001217
Especially the hot ones aren't used to that kind of rudeness, they're always catered to. Instantly and permanently
gets their attention. It's not a meme.
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>>36001048
>T-this definitely happened guise
Go larp somewhere else
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>>36000586

- KHV all the way through 2nd year of college.
- Decided that summer to stop being a whiny little pussy.
- Got first gf the follow autumn; lost virginity a few months later.
- Life has been far better ever since.
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>>36001582
How was it? I'm worried I'll fuck something up b/c I've never even made out with a girl, but I look 8/10 so I could get there with a little effort
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>>36001642
Stacy won't appreciate you. You should go out with me instead.
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>>36002033
I fucking hate faggots and would enjoy hurting you
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it doesn't get better. we need to advocate for a genetics program that ensures only the genetically fit are born so they can experience the joys of life, and no more genetic waste like us are forced to live.
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>>36002033
Are you a cute boi (female)?
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>>36000909
i'm a 27yo KV, yeah fag it's too late.
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It doesn't get better, if it gets better then it was better from the start. That is how things are, it is what it is and always was. Things don't actually change.
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>go out with first guy asks me
>he was just asking because he wants sex which is hard to find in a conservative society as i live in
>don't care as long as I'm not lonely
>got bored from the relationship but didn't talk about it
>bf finds pretty girl and started dating after broking up with me
>ex and his gf have problems
>ex come back to me apologizing
>started dating again
>didn't have sex with him finding excuses all the time while hooking up with his best friend
>he find out
>i walk out
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>high school sucked dick
>college was good
>now ended up in a job that I genuinely enjoy

I thought my whole life was going to be high school. I was so wrong.
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>>36000655
You stopped being expose to all the porn...thats why /r9k/ and /pol/ allow porn, its to destroy us.....porn should only be allowed if it is in spoiler form, and even better to make it a bannable offence and keep porn on the porn boards, and buy subscribing to covenant eyes you can add those boards to a restricted list that can only be removed by uninstalling but it will alert the person you assigned to moniter your web activity, including search engine entries as well as on youtube.
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>>36001642
It was awesome. If you find a girl who's really into you and you really make her happy; she'll not only overlook your inexperience but will be happy to teach you and give you plenty of practice.
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>>36002441
That's fucking weird but kind of cool
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>decide to stop quitting every time things get hard and finally graduate college at 25 after years of half-assing my academics
>shit tier liberal arts degree and sub-3.0 GPA (gen eds fucked me pretty hard) but hey first in my family to graduate so my parents were finally proud of me
>after about 6 months of filling out hundreds of job applications I'm about ready to give up
>luck into an amazing 9-5 office job with an insurance company (they were opening a new division and needed to hire lots of people so I wasn't cucked just for not being the absolute cream of the crop to apply, all they wanted was a degree and they didn't care about major or GPA)
>great pay, great benefits, get to work from home often, normies in the office leave me alone in the when I do go in
>fast forward a couple years
>good at my job, already earn more than my parents and quite a bit more than the national average, still have lots of room to grow
>have my own vehicle and nice apartment
>lots of money saved - I live comfortably, I can buy whatever toys/vidya I want and I can make big purchases without sweating it
>it only takes a little effort to meet 7-8/10 college qts from dating sites and it's easy to impress them enough to fug, a few years ago these kinds of girls didn't even notice I existed
>tfw desperate roasties/single mothers my age and older message me first on dating sites all the time but I ignore all women who are older than 24 and all single moms
>tfw have plans to get drinks with 3 (three) different girls this week
>tfw I can just keep fucking random chicks until I find one worth keeping

Dating really does get a million times easier and more enjoyable when you get older, as long as you make something of yourself. I'm overweight, I was a KV until I was 24 and I'm 5/10 on my best day but holding down a good job and having your shit together is worth a couple extra points for men.
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>>36000586
Transhumanism. One day we will be able to biologically enhance ourselves and transform from shitty manlets to cyborg uber-Chads, and modify our neurochemistry so that we are perpetually happy.
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>>36002569
Its bad karma. (You can't cancel it out with positive actions, you have to relent of it)
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>>36002685
bruh you have to be more attractive than you let on. i have my own place and a decent job and am 27, and attractive younger girls want nothing to do with me on any dating sites.
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>>36002888

I'm not. I have a beer belly, (small) manboobs and crooked eyes. I am tall and I have good hair including a good beard, but that's about all I have going for me with looks. I wasn't crushing pussy 5 years ago when I was a loser but still looked the same.

I think a big part of it is once you get some experience with girls you're more confident, less desperate (I swear women can sniff out desperation) and less prone to spill spaghetti. You learn what to say or not say to get the desired outcome. It also helps my confidence to not feel like a useless piece of shit anymore.
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>>36003038
>I am tall and I have good hair

i guess this explains it. i'm also tall but balding. no man can make up for balding unless he is legit 8/10+ otherwise.
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