What are your tested methods of getting over a girl? I tried

>>35923658
Go and have fun with other women.

Time, as a matter of fact.

>>35923673
partially incorrect.

The only cure for oneitis is another girl.

>>35923680
>>35923673
Neither time nor other girls cured it for me.

I found thinking about them sexually killed it for me.

Girls i liked on an emotional level i never tend to think about on a sexual level, maybe thats my upbringing coming back to haunt me

>>35923846
No offense, mate. But that doesn't sound healthy.

>>35923821
Maybe just talk it out with her in a rational way?
There is this part of your brain that points you at problems and waits for the rest of your brain to figure out a solution. If you can't figure one out that part will just repeatedly point at that problem until you solve it.
And sharing your feelings with the person involved in those feelings you might be able to process them in a better way.

>>35923854
She won't speak to me.

>>35923903
I must assume you did something that made her feel that way.
What did you do and why?

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>>35923852
>No offense, mate. But that doesn't sound healthy.
No it does not.

>>35923846
>I found thinking about them sexually killed it for me.
you have no idea, how much this girl fucking turns me on. I'm watching porn to not think about her, and as sonn as I'm about to cum my brain can only see her sweet smiling face. It fucking sucks.

>>35923658
i've been with multiple women but there are girls from my past who i'm still not "over" even after a decade. you just get used to it but they don't ever leave your mind for good

Kill her and every roastie or fembot you see.

>>35924001
sucks. i particularly hate myself because i've been with hotter women. for some fucked up reason i cant get over her

>>35923846
whats your upbringing, since you mention it?

>>35923668
This unironically. But I know most of /r9k/ wouldn't be able to pull this off. I like to logic my way out of it. Wtf was so special about this girl? She wasn't that fucking special.

Other gf (didn't work for you)
Give it time (didn't work for you)
Talking to her about it (she won't talk to you)
Therapy
Killing her. (don't lie, you know you've thought about it)
Suicide

From the way you are talking about her I doubt I've ever liked a girl that much, however the one girl that I did like a lot; the way I got over her was, sitting down and actually realising that the only logical conclusion is that our relationship would never work. Of course I was lucky that way because if you sit down and realise that your relationship might work you will just feel worse.

>>35924176
she is short and super cute

>>35924184
>Killing her. (don't lie, you know you've thought about it)
>Suicide
OP here i dont know about the guy, but I wouldn't kill her. wouldn't even commit suicide over a thot, I'm saner than that.

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>>35923658
Tell yourself you are a man, no a sorry little bitch who "hyperventilates" over a fucking female.
Jesus christ, you have to be 17-18, right? first real girl-friend?

Give it a few years, fuck a few more girls, you will find nothing actually fills the hole you are feeling right now. It was not her that made it, it was there all along, she just made you aware of it.

Welcome to the cyborg life, don't let the door hit you on the way in or out.

>>35923668

>fun
>with women

Gtfo normie.

>>35923658
not thinking about her or looking at pictures of her

basically pretend she doesn't exist

>>35924309
I'm 22, I've had 4 fucking girlfriends in the past.
I've broken up with 3 of them.
This girl isn't even my girlfriend, we went to watch a movie. After which she just became distant.

Normally I wouldn't give damn, because I've met women on tinder, gone on a date or two, and never met again.

This is just different and weird.

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>>35924309
>way in or out.
>out.

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>>35924436
>hyperventilating
>hurr durr actually I'm all gud and never worried about females

Well done anon, I am glad you have seen the error of your ways, now never speak of this again.

This girl is not different, your mind is just playing with you because you are desperately lonely.

>>35924505
>hyperventilating
>hurr durr actually I'm all gud and never worried about females
I don't see the link, it's literally only for 1 female, though I really wish I don't

>This girl is not different, your mind is just playing with you because you are desperately lonely.
I completely agree

>>35924609
She's propably just a run-of-mill 8/10 qt who you think is not a cunt because she looks "pure".
Just remind yourself that the more attractive a girl is the more of a spoiled, narcissistic, impetuous (hehe I'm just impulsive :^) roastie she is. Also consider that if she knew you visited this board she would probably distance herself from you even more and then joke about you with the "girls". I know it's a strawman but most of time it's similar to that.

If none of those apply to her then check the archives or just stick around for the next 5 or so woman hate threads and you might feel better. Best of luck

>>35923658
Idk it's been like four years and I still can't get over her, even though I did this >>35923668 plenty

>>35924865
>Also consider that if she knew you visited this board
I really don't visit this board that often just came back after a long time, because I was feeling like shit, and I knew someone would help me out. Thanks for your efforts

So you've been had.

We've all been there. You put everything you have into her. Your heart. Your soul. You'd have done anything just to see her smile. The thought of cheating made you actually laugh.

Then the day comes. Today. It was all a lie. She got you. She was fooling you. Some unhealthy part of you wanted to be fooled. You welcomed it with open arms. You allowed her to delude your perception and judgement, so you could pretend that you'd found "the One" for a little while.

Well that was all a fantasy. A dream. Every man goes through it. Now is the time to realize there is No One. There isn't a single woman on the planet whose going to unconditionally love you. It doesn't matter what you do, or who you are.

The dream is over now. It's time to change. Wake up to the reality of the situation. Women are sluts. Bitches. They're stupid, immature, self centered, disgusting slobs. They expect the world and will give nothing in return. 0 loyalty. 0 respect. 0 honor.

So start treating them that way.

And watch them flock to you like never before.

When they see you aren't buying the bullshit they're peddling, it drives them insane. When they realize you aren't going to fall for the scam, they won't know what to do. They'll start asking themselves "how do I even approach a guy like that?". If you've got them really hooked, they'll start changing. They'll stop pretending. They'll grow up. THEN and ONLY THEN can you allow one into your life. But proceed with extreme caution and always remember, they are undeveloped spiritually and emotionally. They aren't like us Desu. They aren't in this for the same things. You have to remember to never let one fool you again. Never let them get the upper hand. I just got out of a 3 1/2 year relationship with a SMOKING hot girl, and I felt absolutely nothing the very next day. 6 months later she still calls me and texts me nudes desperately wanting another chance. I'll never give it to her.

Deleted all pictures of her.
Destroyed all letters from her.
ghosted her
No internet contact, no snail mail contact, nothing
Benzos(from a doc.)

>>35923658
It's time to take up new hobbies and maybe more hours at your job if that's something you can do. I can safely say those are the only things that ever worked for me, having had some very traumatic breakups with crazy chicks.

>>35925503
and i guarantee all this makes you miss her even more

Just stay busy, boredom makes things worse. Although I handle boredom as well as Sherlock Holmes some times.

>>35923658
ask her out
get rejected or accepted
date and/or move on

>>35923658
Ill tell you the only surefire way anon, but it doesnt always happen. You have to watch that girl get fat.

I was obsessed with this girl in college and even almost got her, but it didnt pan out in the end. I was too much of a chicken shit and she ended up dating this guy I knew instead and are still dating 2 years after college.

But guess what! Then she got fat, and not fat in the right places. Now I remember what a bullet I dodged instead of what I missed. Id rather be alone then with a fatty. Feels good.

>>35927112
She was pretty chubby, then she started gyming and got really slim. Now she takes a lot of care of her health. That's one reason I started liking her even more

>>35923979
Her cute smiling face is chads personal cumrag friend.

Just imagine what chad does to her daily.

>>35924001
>>35923658
right now im getting over one from last week and im having flash backs to the one from 10 years ago. i felt i just got over her a couple years ago but if this one goes on that long i think ill kill myself.
yes its only a week but since the day i saw her i just couldnt stand it.
maybe it was because we never had sex
maybe it was because she had too many male friends
maybe im just crazy.
help

I made the mistake of doing this too and now shes rarely making contact with me and i feel like when i broke up with my ex. We werent even a thing but i do actually feel something for and now its biting me up the ass. Fucking whores get to you my dudes, im going to delete her and dump her lewds after this, cant be fucked to deal with all this shit

fuck her only friend

>>35927361
Fuck you m8. I want to be her chad