Why not just jack off? All desires go away instantly saving you alot of trouble.
>>35920316
Porn can't hug me and tell me I matter.
I want cuddles though, and there's no robots that can fulfill that (yet)
Because women smell nice and can cuddle
>>35920316
>Why is it necessary to have a gf?
because I want to have a family
Validation is important. Every time a girl turns you down she is telling you that you're not good enough, and when she dates someone else she's stating that that person is better than you. There's only so much of this one can take before your self worth plummets to zero.
>jack off
>cum
>sit alone in the dark on my computer for two more hours
>jack off again
>cycle repeats
This isn't how I planned on living my life.
I don't even want sex with a woman anymore, that sounds like way too much pressure
I just want one to hold me and run her fingers through my hair and tell me everything's going to be ok
>>35920371
damn that's deep
waddya mean unoriginal. it is
>>35920316
It isn't necessary.
>>35920339
Too many people in the world already, stop being selfish prick.
>>35920316
is that alisha from tinychat
I want affection and validation much more than sex. I don't even get very turned on by porn anymore. I'm just de-sensitized and also it often seems so degrading for the people involved, and for me by extension. When I watch porn I just start thinking about the circumstances that led the performers to having sex for money, and to me sitting and jerking off to other people having sex like a cuck. The whole situation is just sad.
>>35920316
Lol no. After I jack off I feel pathetic for being a 26 year old man that hasn't had sex in ages while my last gf that I still love more than anything is having a kid with someone else. Tomorrow is 30 days of nofap not because of superpower shit but because I'm tired of feeling like shit after a nut
>>35920371
that's why I dress up as a my own gf and be lovely dovely with myself
like I cuddle with myself and tell me I'am a good bf
>>35920316
Because it's not the same feel as having a girl in you arms, a warm feeling, even if it's a slight moment and bonus a kiss on the cheek from some chick at work.(because she's comfortable enough to do that) I crave that shit more than I crave sex. It's like the most soothing feeling ever. Like I'm a miserable person and a fucking liar to myself. I always think "Man, I hate girls" but I find myself wondering why they feel so damn nice. It's a serene damn feeling. I'm surprised some girls allow me to kiss them on the cheek, I'm fucking lanky as shit. I've come this far man, I've never dated anyone in my life. at all. Girls man, they're fucking mysterious, they have an aura that makes everything okay and I want to feel that aura. I may sound sappy but I've been so down into deep shit there's no way I can go any further.
>>35920316
people are social beings and like connecting but if you are fine with just jacking off more power to you
>>35920541
The trouble is that they're aware they provoke that feeling in you, and they want to use it to make you work for them and give them money
>tfw libido is dead
>>35920316
>All desires go away
God no.
The only desire that goes away is the desire to orgasm, which isn't really a prominent reason that I want a gf.
The desire to cuddle somebody I love doesn't go away, and usually gets worse.
The desire to have somebody to share life with is still there too.
The desire to raise a family with a woman I love doesn't go away.
Masturbating only helps if the only reason you want a gf is to use her to orgasm.
>>35920581
Yeah man, like I've seen it happened, I almost experienced it and now I've become so cautious that there's like an invisible barrier warning me whenever I get into a situation like that. It's not easy when it comes how a girl looks. Like fuck man, there's different types of "cute" it's fucking ridiculous. How are they that good-looking? That's the ultimate question in the whole of creation. It always surprises me.
jacking off is getting harder to justify because i'm starting to realize that the midget, chubby, no teeth mexicans at my stores all have wives and kids or did at one point.
and then the bald headed black try hard faggots also have wives and kids and grand children.
these guys are complete fucking rodents, so i have literally zero excuses, other than i can't stand being around human beings at all.
>>35920416
Don't jack off, lead an ascetic life, that's what the New Testament teaches
>>35920327
Neither do real women.
>>35920316
Sometimes you need to be touched, just to be reminded that they can still see you.
BECAUSE HAVING A MATURE WOMAN SEE STRAIGHT THROUGH YOU AND UNDERSTAND WHY YOU DESIRE TO EAT HER ASS WOULD BE THE MOST THERAPEUTIC EXPERIENCE A BOY COULD HAVE???
>>35920327
Girls can do that.
But they can't make you believe it.
You have to do it yourself, regardless of gf or no.
>>35921745
no you just have to stop being american. you simply dont matter.
Because I honestly enjoy cuddling after sex. Done it with prostitutes a couple of times and it's a nice feeling. Would be even better with a gf
>>35920846
>Neither do real women.
God damn that hits wayy too close to home.
>Your mother was useless abusive bitch
>Your older sister was like a school bully that would actually physically try to hurt you and play victim immediately after
>Your younger sister betrayed you constantly by never taking your advice and screwing herself into a shitty situation
women are the cancer of this world and yet bore all of us.
A lot of the meme-tier no fap stuff comes true eventually, if you're addicted to porn
You get sucked into a black hole of porn that involves more and violent stuff; if you watch amateur porn instead you start to cry; you have no energy (especially in the mornings) from masturbating all the time so you don't focus on yourself and your hobbies; you develop ingrained neural pathways that result in behaviours where you associate sex with passivity, an audience member watching on; you increasingly can't imagine sex as something that could happen between yourself and a human being or even as something that really happens in real life; you become a dysfunctional social being and completely incapable of capitalising on the tangible assets you have as a person.
It's possible to masturbate and experience some or none of these symptoms, but I suspect that those people who do gaily go on masturbating are non-virgins (mitigating most of the potential harms I listed here)
>>35920316
Porn cant feed my craving for love.
>>35921821
what is cause and effect RETARD
>>35921722
>that George Lucas double chin
jeez, Anon, up your standards just a little
>>35920634
IKF. One of my old #foreveralone friends has got a qt3.14 gf now even despite the fact he is balding, looks 10 years older than his age, is really awkward around girls, and is generally autistic. His success I can basically put down to simply being proactive with his life, by getting out there and doing things a situation simply emerged eventually where something went in his favour.
Trouble is such situations have come my way in the past but I have always lacked that killer instinct to close the deal. I always feel like its a trick, that I don't deserve it, or at worst that it would simply be easiest not to just to avoid a bit of anxiety
>>35921842
What is it? Enlighten me
>>35921842
>>35921885
forgot the obligatory pic of Hume
>>35921885
people masturbate BECAUSE they are bored. also tons of impotent people clinging on to their malehood, aging women unable to accept they are not desirable, etc. when porn gets blamed it's always just fatuous babble
>>35921902
What if people stopped masturbating, and without being able to pass the time in this manner they became SO bored that they went out and did something worthwhile?
It's honestly ridiculous that people like you think that a world as complex as this can be organised into a simple cause/effect binary.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tzWckYfZhbA (lel)
>>35921983
lmao how high does your horse have to be to even present that as some kind of insight?? all homeless people should get a job too
>>35920316
Sex is fun especially if you get to dominate the woman.
>>35920316
It isn't. Sex can be acquired without one.
Everything else seems like placebo shit.
>>35920371
That hit too fucking close to home desu