Why did you leave your first real boyfriend?

I've never broken up with a man. They all break up with me, and then try getting in touch with me years later. The second just tried getting in touch with me recently. I found out their wife divorced them. I don't understand. I've only been with 3 men, all long term relationships, and I don't think I'm trying another because at this point it is just stupid.

Why are you leaving him?

>>35920034
Or did someone just break up with them?

>>35919990
I've never had a bf but if I get one I'll never leave him

>>35919990
>sweet kind quiet gf said she'd never leave me
>after two years she became confident, strong-willed, and no longer desired to have me in her life

h-hahaha...

>>35920030
It's the same for me, but in reverse, since I'm a guy. Up until now I've been getting into this "real" relationships just to break up after some time and be utterly dissapointed. I'm through with this. I'll just casual fuck , and never get serious while I'm still at college

I tried to kill myself so he left me because it was too intense for him.

>>35920406
Well that sure is really fucking intense.

>>35920424
I didn't tell him or talk to him about it until we were on a trip away a few days later which I suppose was disrespectful. Longterm relationship so I didn't really see the point in talking to him about it.

>>35920303
as they say: no good deed goes unpunished. i hate that this is the way it is because my natural tendency is to always be nurturing and understanding, but it just makes it all the easier to walk all over me. it is what it is i guess, at least my karma will be good when i die.

>>35920449
Well normally you'd talk to him about it before it happening. Any normal male would react the same way before getting the "if you leave me I'll kill myself"

>>35920487
Yeah. I can't remember if I pulled that shit. Don't think I did but I wouldn't be surprised if I had.

>>35920459
>at least my karma will be good when i die
you will be rotting in hell when you die for believing in heathen nonsense

>>35919990
Being with him only made me more miserable.

>>35920382
I've personally called off all physical contact. Sorry to hear you've suffered too. I don't know why people hurt other people in such a way.

>>35920569
You're silly anon. Real silly.

>>35920382
>>35921218
Men who can't keep their polygamous instinct in check, wwomen who can't keep their hypergamous instinct in check.

This whole "never settle" and "YOU DESERVE" infinite choices, addicted to pleasure, consume and throw away culture is killing everything.

>Initially edgy atheist
>Became Christian
>Boyfriend couldn't deal
>Broke up with him

Just normie things, must be nice