Times you thought you made it

she wasn't perfect, your relationship wasn't perfect, cut her the fuck off completely if she's causing you this much pain

either stand up for yourself now or live a life of cuckery

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I thought I found my perfect bf in 2014. We broke up shortly, and it devastated me - the whole ordeal fucked me up, and I'm still feeling the pain. But back when it started, I legitimately thought I had finally met the person of my dreams with whom I would grow old with.

I thought I finally had found a great path out of NEETdom just last month, when I got this job at this seemingly good place. However, then I realized I'd just be doing menial clerical work for a miserly wage. It's not uncomfortable: at the very least, the place is fun and easy-going, but it's dead-end and low-paying.

>cont?
You can continue on your way to /soc/

>>35890209
I did.

>go to her place last saturday
>she's cut her hair, it's usually down to her waist but it's at her shoulders
>can't stop looking at her hair
>we talk about how shit the situation is
>eventually both crying, she starts telling me she's sorry
>telling me she broke up with me because she didn't want to hurt me, sounds like bullshit but I believe it because it feels right and I don't want to accept the other possibility
>doesn't matter anyway, we won't see each other again, we agreed
>she hugs me, I hesitate and hug back
>she's crying on my shirt, getting her snot in it and stuff
>she's done it so many times, but it's been so long
>she tells me the last time she cut her hair was when she cut off her abusive father, tells me when it finishes growing back she figures she'll be officially able to move on
>realize what she's saying
>now I'm crying

This is like some shit out of a fucking movie

>hold each other crying for two hours
>she tells me she loves me for the first time in six months
>stands up and gets a glass of water
>when she comes back I've got my coat and boots on
>she asks if I can let go one more time
>silently hold her
>frustrated, want to scream that we wanted the same thing
>infuriated that the thing that's best for both of us is to move on
>say "goodbye" seriously for the first time in my life

Got blackout drunk that night, no idea how I got home but I didn't have my gloves or my scarf

Still feel like shit.

Fuck feelings and relationships, leave it to the real people.

>>35890209
>>35890209
>>35890159
get on with it faggot.

Your gf is totally unfaithful. She destroyed years of relationship by fucking a man 17 years older than her, and has the gall to cry on your damn shirt that she's "sorry"?

All the bullshit with her hair is a smokescreen. It's emotional manipulation. She is the only one to blame, and she can deal with it herself. Don't give her the luxury of pity.

>>35890468
I absolutely blame her. I didn't include my shitty behavior and neglect for the months leading up to this whole situation. We're both guilty. She didn't fuck the guy til we were broken up, but it still feels like a betrayal.

We were both so concerned with what the other thought of us we forgot to actually be a partner to the other, and ended up in the bullshit situation we did. Don't get me wrong, I'm not apologizing for her fucked up relationship with her senpai, but I'm not innocent either. I could be angry if I was innocent.

Honestly, move on and be thankful for what you had.

Two year relationship is an admirable thing. You got to experience love and for a decent amount of time. Your ex had the decency to break up with you rather than be an immature cunt and cheat on that man and then tell you before breaking up with you.

Take 3 months for yourself, rethink your future relationship goals. Try not to rush into another relationship during this time. Fuck some random if you absolutely need to but trust me, it probably won't fill the current hole in your heart.

It will pass, in time.

>>35890615
I'm trying, anon. Threads called "times you thought you made it" because I have no idea if I can achieve that again. I've lost weight, gained muscle, fixed my wardrobe and learned how to get a decent haircut, so I've got the tools... still gotta learn how to climb. I know it'll pass in time, it just hurts, and it also hurts that eventually it'll stop hurting, if that makes sense...

Sorry just needed to share this with someone and I don't want to talk about my gf fucking a 36 yr old with anyone close to me.

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>>35890615
>our ex had the decency to break up with you rather than be an immature cunt and cheat on that man and then tell you before breaking up with you.

Usually when a girl tells you about breaking up and leaving for another guy, she's already been seeing and fucking that guy for months before she feels safe enough to branch swing, you fucking thick skulled faggot.

>>35890771
>usually

This may be my inner cuck/denial speaking but I actually believe her

She's honest, for better or for worse. One of the primary reasons I was interested in her years ago. Don't think two teenagers could do a 2 year relationship without honesty. Also I kind of read her facebook messages with him, and didn't see any evidence up until three months ago.

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>>35890849
You do know people communicate face to face and with other forms of media other than facebook?

Seriously how dense are you?