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My younger brother was sheltered by my mom and has aspergers.

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My younger brother was sheltered by my mom and has aspergers. Hes a weeb and I really worry about him after college in the real world. My mom does everything for him and then has my sister and i do stuff as well because we are girls. I worry about dating for him, but also just general stuff. He can't even use his debit card because he doesn't know how to. What do I do?
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how old is he

originalio
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>>35859082
18
not original ofcxcc
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He is fucked for live unless your mother drops dead in which case he will also be fucked but in a different way
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Offer to go hunting with him so he can blow his brains out.

That's what I would wish from my family as another sheltered autist.
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Yeah, my oldest brother is now 36, he still lives at home, hadn't worked since college, even though he's an engineer. Still relies on my parents, not sure if he's retarded or lazy, either way, he just needs to die off
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>>35859143
What was he like growing up?

ugh someone help
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>>35859059

sounds to me like you should make a man out of him.

tell him that if he wants your pussy again he has to show resolve.

sexual rewards will fix any and all conditioning hes had put into him.
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>>35859143
you try this yet?
>>35859244
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>>35859240

He had like 2-3 close friends, but mostly associates than friends.

What I hated was when I was with friends, he'd just start hanging out with us. Weirded me out and my friends
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>>35859288
My brother has some nerd friends. Anyway, I'm at a loss of what to do in my current situation because we're not going to be young forever and be in college

My mom is so dumb.
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>>35859288
Do you know where you are? If you do, would you be so kind and GET THE FUCK OUT
You disgust me.
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>>35859370

Well you're the older brother........ I was the younger brother so it had a different dynamics. My other younger siblings pretty much go to me for life advices instead of him
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>>35859405
I'm a girl and we're kinda not friends even though we're siblings if that makes sense?
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>>35859433
So you're weirded out by your younger brother? Why not tell him about it? If you're weirdedout by him, 100% chance other girls are too
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>>35859433
>if that makes sense
yea, it's called our culture sucks and we are all disconnected from each other
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>>35859484
No, we're just not attached siblings. I'm not weirded out by him. He's just not going to fare well with normies, dating or just adult things and I blame my mother. I'm a fembot but I'm not genuinely autistic and I have the advantage of being female. Also my mom didn't do everything for me.
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>>35859532
Drive him into the nearest woods, drop him off, and let him fend for himself.
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>>35859143
>If you don't work for the jew man you need to die
Fucking braindead normal slimes need to leave
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>>35859532
Kill yourself you dumb roastie bitch he's probably happy with 2D women and doesn't care about disgusting 3D succubi
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>>35859059
You get off this board you goddamn roastie whore
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>>35859059

He needs to discover on his own that the world is a shitty place.

I was in his situation.

I thought I knew it all, and had to be humbled in order to learn my lesson.

I just wouldn't listen to anyone older than me who had common sense. I had to find out for myself.

All you can do is just not give him any money, nor should you let him live with you if things go bad. If others consider him a social liability, you shouldn't encumber yourself with the burden either.

If he really wants things to improve for himself, he'll fight for it to make it happen. He needs to learn that magical fairies aren't always going to be there to wash his clothes and dishes for him. He has to participate in this reality if he wants to survive.

t. literally handicapped fucking one-eyed 4'11" 38yo retard with hearing aids.
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>>35859059
Failed men have no chance in the world - this board is evidence. You wouldn't understand that concept being a girl. Best thing you can do is leave him to wallow and die.
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>>35859694
Oh wow.
Did your mom just throw you out? I feel like if my brother was helpless, I couldn't leave him to fend for himself.
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>>35859761
No, she died.

My older half-siblings don't consider me their blood.

After all, my defective birth was the reason why the quantity/quality of their awesome birthday/Christmas presents decreased.

They're all happily married with children of their own, so no need to endanger the fragile balance of their social status and image by allowing me to associate with them.

Aktion T4 is alive and well in America, just in a more subtle and hands-off format.
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>>35859059
The only acceptable answer is to offer him your cunt and suck him off.

All normies thinking he should change should just get the fuck out.
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Please dont let him date other autistic people

my borderline autistic sister married the biggest beta cuck who might as well have autism. he follows her around like lost puppy, never says anything and just looks at the floor. She on the other hand is the loud obnoxious kind of autistic and wears the pants in the relationship. If youre familiar with the cartoon Rugrats they are basically Phil and Lil's parents but autistic. anytime I have to be in the same place as them is super embarrassing. I dont want the same thing for you
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>>35859853
That dynamic says a lot about how girls with autism are validated and encouraged while boys with autism are criticized into submission.

Remember that news story about the female teacher who made her male autistic student stand in the trash can?
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>>35859832
That's sad :(
Sorry if you dislike pity.
My brother is 18 now and my parents are still alive and well and they don't listen to me. Am I supposed to just let him become a retarded adult? I honestly don't think he could pick himself up if my mom didn't help him. Doesn't know anything other than eating, school and weeb stuff. I helped him apply for college. Did his financial aid stuff.
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>>35859943
All you can do is advise him in a clear, tone, loud tone of voice while making eye contact with him.

If that doesn't sink in and affect his choice-making abilities, then only traumatic experiences will. He needs to make wrong choices and suffer the consequences so that it'd impact his decision next time.
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>>35860071
I see.
Well how did your life turn out?
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>>35860121
Paying rent with 3/4 of my disability check to an older man for the privilege of sleeping on an air mattress in his spare room that he used as a storage space. I do chores while he's at work so as to make myself indispensable as a roommate.
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>>35860201
How sad. Are you depressed?
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>>35860266
Nah, I've moved past denial and anger and have settled into acceptance. It makes the final solution that much easier to approach. All I can really do for now is serve as a lesson for others to not make the same mistakes I did.
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>>35860201
>>35860349
>>35860071
>>35859908
>>35859832
>>35859694

Stop avatar fagging you retarded newfag. No one cares about you fucking disablility or whatever, you attentionwhore.
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>>35859059
You should fuck him

Origiwb
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>>35860444
What's wrong little buddy, forget to take your autism medicine today?
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>>35859059

I have autism, when i was around 18 years old i started therapy and counselling. Now i'm 21 and i can do chores around the house like cooking ,cleaning and fixing things. I plan to move out of my parents house in the next 2 or 3 years. So from my experience i would recommend try to talk to your mother and brother about the future and how he plan's to sustain himself in the future? Try to motivate him to seek assistance to improve, Maybe something like therapy or counselling. Do some research about what the government can offer you/him. (Thing's like SSI and stuff, maybe there is a local cheap or volunteering program that he can attend?)

>>35859694

Kicking somebody in this situation out would be rather cruel as he would likely end up a homeless person, and in that scenario still remain a "Problem" to society as to where if you try and help him improve he can try to contribute.
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>>35860349
are you a wizard by now?
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