Going on my first date tomorrow, any tips on how to progress and not royally fuck up? I feel like most of /r9k/ have been romantics at one point, I'll appreciate any advice.
treat like royalty or die like a peasant
just talk about stuff. That's about it. Ask her about herself if you can't come up with anything. Idk dates always feel a little awkward and that's okay.
>>35850680
Make sure to shower her with gifts and admit that you love her.
Make sure that she knows that you're a pushover who LOVES taking away all passion in anything you do by being far too easy to win.
>>35850680
Tell her you're gay. Girls love gay guys.
>>35850680
I've had a quite a few dates before, and I have one tomorrow as well.
If you don't know what to talk about, talk about F.O.R.D. (family, occupation, recreation and dreams).
Try to make it so that there are no awkward silences and keep the conversation going. Also smile alot when she speaks.
Oh, and wear a nice cologne.
>>35851352
>Try to make it so that there are no awkward silences
Impossible
Awkward silences WILL happen on the first date, especially with someone inexperienced like OP
Just don't get nervous and trip over yourself trying to fill the gaps with words
>>35851388
Yea, also true. But when a silence happens, try asking her a question about F.O.R.D.
People loving talking about themselves.
>Actually going on dates
wew lad
>>35850680
Don't fall in love, the moment you fall in love is the moment the woman knows she has power over you/you get cucked.
Deny it now then weep when you realise it.
>>35850680
ok i actually went on dates unlike most of the people here!!
HERES THE ABSOLUT MOST IMPORTANT THING THAT YOU HAVE TO DO:
DO NOT GET INTO SITUATION WHERE YOU SIT AT A TABLE FACING EACH OTHER
This is like an interview. Its awkward and it fucking sucks.
Second ... do not talk politics. This should be obvious but never talk politics on a date.
>>35851520
Hehe, I'm so great. Please validate me as genetically supirior compare to you losers. Hehe
>>35851520
Do you mean that you should sit next to her instead or what?
>>35851499
this basically
if a woman doesnt want you as much as you want her then the relationship is already over.
why do you think there are so many divorces?
and why do you think they are mostly instigated by females. women hate men who are not miles better than them.
If you are at the phase where she is interested enough to go on a date with you,
You're going to have to do what r9k thinks is a meme and BE YOURSELF.
The entire purpose of a date is to test chemistry and see if both parties see each other as compatible.
For any autists reading, when trying to initially get a girl's attention, do not "be yourself". You want to "be yourself" when it becomes more serious.
Just accept that you will probably fuck up and let it happen. The secret to relationships and dating is practice and experience.
>>35850680
Just one simple piece of advice. Less is more. Meaning always give the least information to any questions, and say the least in the conversation. Keep the convo flowing, but let her do the talking. Will make u seem mysterious but also reduce the chance of saying something she will not like.
>>35850680
You could try a quote if some sorts, like a Shakespeare quote
If you set it up online, be prepared for her to cancel last minute.
>>35850680
Why are you asking advice on the most autistic board on 4chan???