>practice gf wants us to get a place and live together What

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>>35820012
>practice gf dies of old age
what the hell guys how am i going to tell our 4 practice children and 3 practice grandchildren about this?

If you let it get that far, she's evidently not a practice girlfriend. Assess your true feelings for her.

>>35820069
top quality post here, i had a genuine chuckle

>>35820077
Nah man sometimes you hold on out of desperation

>asked my long distance practice gf to move in with me
what am I doing? I'm not that bad looking. I should stop doing this and just better myself so I can be with someone I find attractive.

>>35820077
A practice person never knows that they are ...practice. How do you think that would go over? .."hey I am just using you till some one better comes along or I advance in life ..then I will drop you". Uhhhhhhhh

>>35820012
is the most logical step, now if your relationship is as comfy as it is online, I suggest you marry the cunt.

>>35820012
Move in together, but start shopping for a real gf at the same time

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>>35820143
lol people actually do this though.

>>35820373
Women see men in a relationship as more attractive, so it's better to find a new girl before dropping the old one and going back to being a single

>>35820389
Both sexes do it. I have seen some fucked up savage practice gf threads. Idk man.. idk.. real fucked up.

This whole "practice gf" thing makes me sad.

It'd feel horrible if somebody used you like that.

>>35820389
Those are just fucked up people who will always move on to the next one. They see people as nothing more than stepping stones and if they do it to others.. it doesn't matter if you're a friend or whomever.. they won't hesitate to do that same thing to you.

>>35820012
does she fucking know its practice? this is what happens when you don't communicate your intentions with her dumbass.

>>35820459
People use others all the time.

>>35820459
Why?

Your practice gf would drop you without a second thought too as soon as any chad showed her a little bit of attention or surpassed you in any way.

Don't be sad. Women don't even have feelings.

>>35820493
A practice person never knows. What don't you understand about that?

>>35820493
Of course she doesn't. She wouldn't have agreed to date me in the first place if I went "hey gurl I'm just gonna use you for practice until I get a real gurl, gurl ;)"

>>35820529
There are men ,just the same on the flip side of the coin. Don't put it all on one gender.

>>35820537
what don't you understand about fuck buddies? tons of girls are willing to fuck with no attachment

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>>35820595
They aren't interested in just fucking. They want to play the game and advance and level up. "Don't hate the player, hate the game"

>>35820488
If you disagree with it, I don't care.
But you're the one who will go back to years of solitude between gf's

>>35820595
>fuck buddies
We're robots, you fool!

>>35820595
a practice gf is a gf for practicing having a real gf. not a friend with benefits.

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>>35820676
The blood is on your hands, not mine.

>>35820701
This.

Think of it like having a shitty part time job so you can get some experience on your resume and move onto better jobs.

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>>35820701
Training wheels gf/bf.

>>35820676
HOLY FUCK
I spent all this time thinking that there was something wrong with me since it took me years to find a new girl while it takes other guys a few weeks or months but now I realize that those guys are literally just looking for practice gf's to not feel lonely

Thank you OP

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>>35820701
Well how do I get one? I get lonely

>>35820731
Think of it like this. Women might see a man in a relationship as vetted. "He's in a relationship, so he must be boyfriend material" So if you wait until that gf smell wears off, you're just going to look like a loner again, "why is he single? is something wrong with him?"

>>35820515
I know, and it's horrible.
It feels horrible when you're used, and the thought of doing it to somebody else makes me feel bad.

>>35820529
Maybe the reason people are so flippant about relationships these days is because they try to avoid becoming attached in case it turns out their partner was just using them.

I wish we could all just be honest with each other,

>>35820909
To add, I'm not saying it's right or fair to cheat on a girl when you're with another.
I'm saying if you go back to being single, it might scare off potential gf's.

>>35820933
>I wish we could all just be honest with each other,
Blame cunts for that. Honesty is a one-way street to cuckoldry.

>>35820933
There's no reasonable way to avoid hurting other people. Hurting people knowingly is cruel, but you can't know what action or inaction could cause another to be hurt physically or emotionally.
By being with others we hurt and get hurt.
That's a part of who we are.

>>35820933
I feel you anon, but I think you are too pure for this thread. What's even worse is that some people will get a practice gf ostensibly to build interpersonal skills, but really just because they want the sex and emotional support of a girl who thinks its real while not putting themselves on the line or sacrificing or risking anything in return. It's incredibly immature and selfish, which probably explains why robots think it's acceptable behavior.

>>35820933
Honesty it's quite hard to find these days, you have to dig really deep to find someone worthful of your time, feelings and money. Not everything that glows it's gold, and not because it's a beta or robot that doesn't mean he or she is not going to change you for someone "better".
It's better to have self-respect and only have a relationship when you want something really serious (and tell the other one that you want him/her for real)

>>35821027
Stop being a whiteknighting homo.

real non fake story here
>meet girl so messed up and with a horrible past, yet still super cute and my manic pixie dreamgirl ideal looks
>want to make her my practice gf
>be an impulsive and bold fucker with all my moves and dates, since it's just a practice gf
>lose all of my virginities and milestones of dating I should have had earlier, and I'm in my mid 20s
>she's pretty much mentally ill and I'm just seeing how far I can take it before she leaves me
>end up becoming a sex master, my masturbation techniques and edging to crazy fetish porn paid off with godlike stamina.
>can make an ex junkie cum with just raw fucking
>got my life together with career and place to live, since they were steps necessary to continue playing practice gf
>two years have gone by, her parents love me and my now love her.
>if she's not pregnant now she will be some time soon with how we do it now
>engaged since I thought she'd say no (proposed super super early in the practice gf zone)

it doesn't feel real.
if anyone has watched the movie Mr nobody, I'm in that life where nemo is married to that Asian.

I did what I visualized I would do, entirely. but it doesn't do anything for me. was this really what I wanted, what we wanted? why a gf? was that my though, or did I confuse my consciousness with r9k? I don't even know who I am anymore, I. defined as being my practice gf's fiance. that's my identity.

>>35820933
i think most people get practice gf's without knowing it though. they get excited someone is giving them attention for once so they just go with what they're given, until later on they realize they just liked the attention but not the actual person and leave when they realize they can do better. humans just simply evolve and grow up, and their fulfillments change.

>>35821328
I have this gut feeling you'll be really fucked over in the future, keep your eyes open man

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>>35821328
>engaged since I thought she'd say no (proposed super super early in the practice gf zone)
Top autism. Nice job, faggot

>>35821586
If you look far enough ahead, we'll all be fucked over

>>35820012
Anyone who truly considers practice bf or gf has psycho views of the world and should change

>>35821611
the world we live in is psychotic and psychopathic.
Only the psychopath can thrive in such an environment.

>>35821601
I'm talking about having a mentally ill person as partner, but you're right in a way

>>35821328
Fucking idiot. Do something that will push your fiance away. Start making preparations NOW. You'll live the rest of your life in remorse if you marry this girl

>>35821631
>Only the psychopath can thrive in such an environment.

This might be true, but is thriving worth your peace of mind? If yes, go ahead

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I'm a fembot how do i know if i'm a practice gf for my bf of 7 months?? is he going to randomly turn on me like the rest of you creepos?

>>35821681
you're definitely practice

>>35821681
>Implying you're not a neckbeard role-playing

No, in the real world the percentage of psychos is really low

Tell the kunt she was just for practice then call her an autistic kunt

>>35821675
peace of mind and conscience are just things people who see other people breaking rules use to ease their own feeling of injustice.
Murderers who get away with it might sleep like a baby, and anybody can work out a justification or rationale for any awful act they've done.

I'm sure most of the people reading my dull post have done something that is pretty rotten. But they've made some reason why it was okay, or just, or fair. Whether it is or isn't doesn't really matter.

>>35821703
Is it because I'm kinda fat?? 142 lbs as of last week

>>35821769
I presumed it because you're here asking.

>>35820143
I actually had a girl that wanted something like this between us. I accepted, but it never went too far.

>>35821681
Do you suck his cock regularly?
If so, you're definitely practice.

>>35821713
>in the real world the percentage of psychos is really low
In what delusional anime world do you imagine you live in to make this psycho reality more bearable?

ITT: normies who unironically believe having a practice gf makes them a robot
Lynch yourselves and get the fuck off my board
Even unattractive girls dont look twice at me
Im fucking sick and tired of alphas complaining about how they cant get rid of their practice gfs, while Im here eager to take your sloppy seconds because Im khv

>>35821888
>implying i can get a practice gf

>>35821888
Why do you shit on people who are moving up in life?

You're the only normie here because being another crab in the bucket is the status quo.

>>35821764
Lying to yourself doesn't give you peace of mind, it just makes the noises less loud

>>35821968
the more you do things that trouble your conscience, the less your conscience is troubled by it.

And if you belive your action was right and just, you probably won't even have an attack of conscience.
Would you feel bad if you punched someone who was bullying you, or your hypothetical friends?

>>35821839
why would sucking his dick imply that she's a practice gf, walk me through this one please

>>35822063
I assume he's thinking of a power imbalance.
If she is always serving him, then she must be lower and the one being used.
It seems like a poor measure to me.

>>35820012
>tfw no practice gf to suddenly really love me

>>35821839
Yes but we also go out on dates every week and just hang out. Sex is not the only thing we do!! :) is that still a sign??

>>35822197
A practice GF can be used for all those things
it's for practicing for a girl you actually like/actually want to get serious with.

>>35822014
Again, your conscience getting less and less loud is because you are lying to make the regret stop.

The premises used to classify something as right in this case are generally weak and based on false assumptions.

Example
>If I wasn't using her as my practice GF, she would have used me.
In this case, the justification already assumes that using a practice GF/BF is bad (and thus shouldn't be done) and that your current partner does it, which might not be true. You are lying to yourself with bad arguments to make your mind quiet.

>>35821764
Thats not true, no one has gone without doing bad shit but there are people out there that experience intense remorse after wronging someone
I still shudder when i think about bad stuff ive done

>>35822328
my justification isn't kill or be killed
it's do something unethical or spend years alone.
regardless of whether I myself would get dropped for someone better, if I didn't have a foothold to a new relationship, I would be lost at sea.
This is of course all hypothetical. I've been single since I was 19... so 16 years.

>>35822385
Every gf is a practice gf in the sense that you will dump her if things don't work out, but you are a bad person if you use someone only as a tool and start a relationship with plans of ending it

>>35822498
I agree with that. Considering your significant other "just for practice" is a pretty rotten way to live.
But I suppose for people who honestly have no idea how to act around the people they care about dating someone they don't care about is a first step.

>>35822550
Yeah, that's okay, dating is basically the long process of knowing someone to choose her as partner

>>35822498
>tfw had a practice gf for two 2 years without noticing she was practice
She turned out to be batshit crazy. I HAD to dump her for my own sanity 2bh.

>>35822498
>you are a bad person if you use someone only as a tool and start a relationship with plans of ending it
Why are you a bad person when the woman is basically an animal who is barely even conscious?

Also they LOVE to be used by chads.

>>35823042
What you just said is what a bad person would say. If you are considering women as sub-human, do you only want to date them for sex?

>>35823076
I want to make them feel what all of us nonchads feel. They cannot experience loneliness but they can experience heartbreak and that is a good thing. They need to suffer for being such chad-fucking, 80/20 rule following cunts.

>>35823156
I think there are simpler ways to enact your vengeance than spending weeks or months dating women you don't care about.

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It hurts knowing that if I'm ever in a relationship with a girl, she won't be able to completely trust me because she'll always have it in the back of her mind that I might just discard her, since that's so common these days.

>>35823378
That's been true for hundreds of years.

>>35823378
Grow up already. She would do the same to you.

Real life is not like your japanese animes.

>>35823042
If you want to get revenge on a specific woman that's okay, but if you break someone's heart just because "hurr durr all women are stacies" you're just being a dick

>>35820012
>practice gf
Neck yourself you degenerate shit.

>>35823395
I know, it just feels like people are a lot more flippant about it now.

>>35823421
It's nothing to do with "growing up", I've accepted that it's the way it is, I'm just saying it's unpleasant.
I know there are women out there who would do that as well, and I don't like that I'd never be able to fully trust her either.

I'd just like to be able to have a relationship where we could trust each other completely, and know that we love and care for each other, and have every intention of spending the rest of our lives together.

I know that's not how it is in the real world, but it'd be nice if we could have that.

>>35823395
>>35823421
t. never had a healthy relationship
meet some non-roasties, you'll see what light life truly has.

>>35823697
It surprises me a little that no movement has been made towards "no divorce" marriages.
>Even if you dickheads can't get along, you're stuck with each other so make the best of it.

If I ever get married (honestly probably impossible) I would tell her "I won't divorce you no matter how bad it gets, so be ready for your whole life ruined by me"

>>35823820
We need to get rid of no fault divorce and go back to the old system, where you can only get divorced under extreme circumstances, like infidelity or abuse.
Or retain no fault divorce, but whoever initiates it surrenders all mutual assets to their partner.

Too many people get divorced because they're bored with the marriage.

>>35824007
I agree. A lot of people just give up and put no effort into it anymore, but the real problem is that people are ending up with shitty partners and can't make the right choices anymore. It's either the guy is more loyal than the girl and vice versa.

>>35824007
That's not enough for me.
If you're going to swear an oath to be with someone as long as you both shall live, then that's how long it will be.

>>35821920
I try my best to move up in life but Im too unattractive
Why dont you guys leave this board once youre no longer a robot