[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y ] [Search | Free Show | Home]

How old are you and why are you still a virgin ?

This is a red board which means that it's strictly for adults (Not Safe For Work content only). If you see any illegal content, please report it.

Thread replies: 206
Thread images: 34

File: poll.jpg (23KB, 625x350px) Image search: [Google]
poll.jpg
23KB, 625x350px
How old are you and why are you still a virgin ?
>>
27. No skills.
>>
File: 0e9.jpg (27KB, 600x600px) Image search: [Google]
0e9.jpg
27KB, 600x600px
>>35803451
Like nun chuck skills?
>>
21. No game and don't like parttying. Library girls are not real. I don't walk up to them. Autism and schizophrenia.
>>
>>35802541
23 lost it at 17

Funny thing is everyone made a big deal about me losing later than everyone else
>>
19. I honestly couldn't care less, though it's not like I'm fending off the poon with a stick mind you.
>>
>social anxiety
>don't drink or smoke
>hate parties
>only willing to lose it to another virgin I'm in love with

So it's pretty much entirely my fault
>>
>>35802541
22. Not very social, zero game. Awkward around strangers.
>>
>>35803519
>only willing to lose it to a virgin I'm in love with
>putting your virginity on a pedestal
at least you admit being an idiot
>>
>>35802541

25

Spend almost all of my time in my room.

The times when Im around other people I have no interest in socializing with others.


Wow that was easy.
>>
26.

Was so convinced I couldn't I never bothered to just get it over with like everyone should

I'm not bothered by it directly any more but the secondary symptoms of apathy and lack of motivation are a real problem.
>>
21 (22 in a month)

I'm an ugly failure who has never been close to anyone.
>>
>>35803552
Yes, but it's not something I'm able to get over even if I tried. It doesn't make sense but the idea of being a girl's second or third drives me insane, enough to actually hurt myself.
>>
File: smoking_wojak.png (8KB, 193x261px) Image search: [Google]
smoking_wojak.png
8KB, 193x261px
>>35803594
Holy shit I know this feel man.
>>
>>35803594
As long as you admit the problem lies with you and not with women
>>
just lost my v at 21 two days before my 22nd bday congratulate me bros
>>
>>35802541
>19. I honestly couldn't care less, though it's not like I'm fending off the poon with a stick mind you.

LOOOL CRYING
>>
>>35804003
Nice reply jackass.
>>
29.

No social skills, no job, no money
>>
>>35803674
Women are definitely a problem.
>>
File: IMG_0715.jpg (61KB, 499x499px) Image search: [Google]
IMG_0715.jpg
61KB, 499x499px
>>35802541

19
>black
>not a virgin
>white bitches love my cock

Go ahead and reeee u fags
>>
>>35802541
Just turned 18 and because I fucked up my last relationship and we never fucked.
>>
>>35802541
25

Mainly because only girls asked me me out (no thanks) and every time I had a chance with a guy I chickened and ran away.
>>
>>35804067

>He was in a relationship

Fuck off normie.
>>
>>35802541
30, I just never meet people and I don't have much money nor status.
>>
40. Wizard mode attained. Not even fat, ugly or poor.
>>
25
My social skills make me difficult to deal with, and there's nothing making me worth overcoming that for. So I avoid situations that lead to all that disappointment and worry.
>>
File: just get a girlfriend.jpg (100KB, 625x416px) Image search: [Google]
just get a girlfriend.jpg
100KB, 625x416px
>>35802541
20 and kissless
>why
pic related is why
>>
>>35802541
31. I'm obese. Poor. White. No social skills. Don't make eye contact. Don't leave the house. I wanna eat a bullet.
>>
File: what-went-wrong.jpg (54KB, 760x751px) Image search: [Google]
what-went-wrong.jpg
54KB, 760x751px
21 I don't know how to talk to girls, poor, weirdo, autistic and introverted.

>tfw I remember I was dating 2 girls when i was 13 and kissing them both at the same time and they were okay with it.
>>
22. A deadly mix of aspergers, obesity, and social avoidance
>>
>>35804334
Why then? Do you have poor social skills? Mental illness? Non-functional dick?
>>
20
I don't know how to interact with people in a way that will result in anything other than becoming friends. As in, I don't know how to become
And I'm too scared to try something I don't know.

I think I would be probably attractive if I could figure out how to style my hair, dress well and have less awkward posture.

Basically, it's pseudo-autism.
>>
>>35802541
26. I'm not.

Orig
>>
18. girlfriend for long time but virgin
>>
File: flat800x800070f.jpg (64KB, 800x452px) Image search: [Google]
flat800x800070f.jpg
64KB, 800x452px
20. Have turned down several chicks mainly cause they ugly. Also was homeschooled. According to /soc/ I'm a 8.5/10. Idk I just can't seem to close the deal.
>>
>>35802541
30 years old
socially inept and prob incapable of pleasing any qts sexually.

I can't be the only wizard here come on....
>>
File: 1487626598394.jpg (125KB, 1252x1252px) Image search: [Google]
1487626598394.jpg
125KB, 1252x1252px
19
Im actually quite good looking now but I decided to go on path of ascension. My plan is to lead on females and then when they think we are going to start dating I will break it up
>>
>>35802541
26

Passed at least 3 very direct opportunities to get with girls when I was in school.

Had a gf of 6 months last year that was also a virgin and same age as me, tried to fuck her but couldn't manage to get my dick in for some reason. It was embarrassing I thought I was in but it was just her pussyfat or something. IDK. It's really hard to get it in. Never tried again
>>
>>35807360
this way more satisfying than sex imo
god speed anon.
>>
>>35803465
This thread isn't for you normie.
>>
26, I'm ugly as fuck and I have no personality or social skills due to decades of social isolation.

I exhibit some signs that the monkeys in this experiment had: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pit_of_despair
>>
>>35802541
30.

Because I was shy all through school and became a shut-in who gave up on life and doesnt try.
>>
>>35802541
21
I don't talk to women and I have no friends.
Maybe I could get an average girl but I doubt it since I don't even get matches on tinder.
>>
File: IMG_8425.png (11KB, 657x527px) Image search: [Google]
IMG_8425.png
11KB, 657x527px
>>35802541
18
too much of a speshul snowflake, never went to a normal public school. Only charter schools and magnet schools.
idk what my parents expected but they mock me for being a virgin still
>>
File: worthless.jpg (145KB, 640x1136px) Image search: [Google]
worthless.jpg
145KB, 640x1136px
>>35807531
That was me. This is what I look like, to verify the claim of being ugly as fuck.
>>
>>35802541
21. Always playing the "nice guy" card with girls so never actually ended up with a gf
>>
File: 1445674533574.gif (431KB, 225x300px) Image search: [Google]
1445674533574.gif
431KB, 225x300px
nearly 22
high school dropout, age 14
don't leave house much
stopped making friends online when I was 18

damn I wish it was still 2010-2011, should have fixed shit
>>
>>35807471
>It's really hard to get it in.
I know that feel. When I had my first sexual encounter with my wife, I couldn't get it in no matter how I tried to. I lost my erection and called it a day. One week later I pushed harder, broke the hymen and creampied her after some awkward humping.
>>
>>35807585
You look like someone who'd bury a body at 4am without any questions if I asked him. Would befriend/10.
>>
23

In High School I was extremely unpopular, but still I had a few girls make passes at me and I did nothing. I was way too scared of what everyone would think about me showing interest in a girl, stupid really.

After that I was neet for basically 3 years, so no girls naturally.

Then I was in college and actually became popular, had girls who were interested but I either did nothing or fucked it up due to autism. I had one girl for about a month but became so fucking clingy that I repelled her. Later went on a date with one girl and got rejected afterwards. There were others too but I just took so long to do anything that they found other guys before I made a move.

I'm near the end of uni now, haven't noticed any girls on my course show any interest. I have been on several dates since moving to london, but none went past the first date. I did see a girl off tinder for a few months, but we never had sex. We did mess around though so I'm not a total virgin. But I never came from any of the stuff we did.

and now I'm here. The idea of sex actually happening is like a myth to me. I can't believe it actually goes on some days.
>>
File: 14376650473622.jpg (74KB, 785x644px) Image search: [Google]
14376650473622.jpg
74KB, 785x644px
21. socially retarded, quite ugly
i really hope after closing this thread, something changes.
>>
>>35807585
You'd look fine if you lost weight
>>
>>35807699
you'd have to buy me taco bell on the way back but sure.

jk i'd do it without taco bell
>>35807805
i weighed 100 lbs less and still looked fucking hideous. so i'd have to lose more than 100 lbs. Probably 120-150. Pic related, 100 lbs less and still overweight as hell
>>
>>35807657
Let me know if you want to be friends. I watch anime and shit
>>
>>35807699


That's all I really want from a friend
>>
>>35807704

I'm also basically blind which makes me extremely socially awkward. Honestly it's fucked up every date I've had, since the girl turns into my immediate care giver and helper. Which is something that's obviously a turn off.

I'm just not worth the difficulties of being in a relationship with me. Girls want a guy who can take control, a guy who doesn't need to be led around like a puppy, a guy who can drive. That fundamentally and biologically can never be me.
Any other positive traits I may have can be found somewhere else with none of the negative conditions involved, so why pick me at all?

There was also one time I couldn't even find the girl I was going out with so had to go home srsly. Stuff like that just makes you stop trying at all.
>>
>>35807904
Nigga you look completely normal in that pic. Not a Chad ofc but an easily bf-able face.
>>
>>35802541
21
Zero interest in sex and relationships. I just want to focus on my studies and then get a decent job when I'm finished with uni
>>
>>35803674
women are a problem that cannot be solved
>men are just forced 2 deal
>>
>>35808021
nah i still had a shrek nose and villain eyebrows

holy shit i just need to fucking die
>>
>>35807124
u gotta be willing 2 take risks
especially if its someone that has no real impact on your life
>>
>>35807904
>you'd have to buy me taco bell on the way back but sure.
Damn, there are no Taco Bell restaurants where I am from. I really want to try some cheap mexican food.

>>35807951
>That's all I really want from a friend
They call someone like that a bury buddy in friendship research. A close friend who you can rely on and trust in any given situation. They are rare now, since people become more and more superficial.
>>
26.

Probably because I dont leave the house besides work and make no effort to meet women, even online.
>>
20
Work as joiner with middle-aged balding men as 'friends'.
Have no social life
>>
File: IMG_20170320_132038.jpg (95KB, 720x240px) Image search: [Google]
IMG_20170320_132038.jpg
95KB, 720x240px
>>35802541

25/F

Ugly af mostly, no personality.
>>
24.

Girls don't like me.

>You have been muted for 4 seconds, because your comment was not original.
>>
>>35808350
That's a hugh problem within the trades. Young men go to college and you are left with the 40-somethings who don't do anything but watch sports they don't do and drink stuff they can't stand anymore.
>>
>>35808411
Wait, is that a received message or a sent one?
>>
24, never tried because I am too scared of rejection
>>
19, all girls i've shown interest in always have boyfriends.
>>
20

I'm a girl who is into girls and I don't want anyone to find out.
>>
>>35807585

You're cute as hell, imo
>>
>>35808501
noice

you should watch this show if you haven't already
https://myanimelist.net/anime/20047/
>>
>>35808455

Found it, but it's a received one via Grindr iirc. Perfect though.
>>
19 this year. Bad Luck. All the girls i want are taken. Hate my life
>>
>>35808594
>Grindr
I had to google that. Now I am both confused and terrified that something like this exists.
>>
>>35808411
ay lupita
>>
>>35802541
I'm 30 and I'm not a virgin. I've had regular sex since I was 13.
>>
>>35808815
>I've had regular sex since I was 13.
That's nothing to be proud of. It's a little strange, actually.
>>
>>35803465
fuck outta /r9k/ you fuck
>>
>>35808501
What's your situation? Are your parents not very accepting?

>>35808669
What do you look for in girls?
>>
>>35808853
no its not, id wish i had sex at 13
i wish id had sex with f 9 with some nice pedo woman
>>
File: 1481229923343.png (39KB, 645x773px) Image search: [Google]
1481229923343.png
39KB, 645x773px
>be 18 year old KV female
>normie in uni starts hitting on me
>i know he's only interested in sex
>want to turn him down but think this might be my one and only chance to get laid and finally understand what Stacies and my old female friends have been telling me about for years
>he eventually invites me over
>he drags me into his bedroom the second i get in
>i tell him to turn off the light because too shy/insecure
>we engage in foreplay but i'm not even turned on
>he tells me to suck him off but i say no
>he wants to finger my asshole but i say no
>he starts grinding on me but i don't feel a thing
>freak out when he tries to put it in and rush to stop him because i just realized i can't do it
>end up cuddling (which felt a little nice)
tfw too autistic to lose my virginity to someone i don't have feelings for but too unpure to have sex with a virgin boy i am in love with
>>
>>35809134
I had my first time aged 11. It's really fucking awkward and puts you into a maturity isolation during the next five years, because you are a few steps ahead of your peers. At least that's what happend to me.
>>
>>35809170
>he drags me into his bedroom the second i get in
>he tells me to suck him off but i say no
>he wants to finger my asshole but i say no
Now that's one fucked up dude right there. You did the right thing.
>>
>>35808853
Come on dude, that is definitely something to be proud of and it's double definitely not strange. Who wouldn't want that? Jelly as fuck.
>>
>>35809236
The right thing would've been not falling for the platonic sex meme I haven't stopped feeling dirty ever since
>>
>>35809251
>Who wouldn't want that? Jelly as fuck.
As I just said, it's going to push you off the rails for years. I turned a girl into a hugh slut and myself into a lonely sperg, and you can trace it back to just one moment where I thought I knew what the lady doing sex ed meant.
>>
>>35809306
>I haven't stopped feeling dirty ever since
Don't beat yourself up too bad. It's still miles away from riding the dick bicycle, just as many women do these days. As much as I can judge, you are still pretty much pure. Go and get that virgin boy you lust for.
>>
>>35802541
I'm 18 and I'm not a virgin i just spoke to girls in the same league as me
>>
>>35808853
In the long run it probably wasn't for the best. I was a sex addict for a long time and still struggle with that. But that's another story.
>>
>>35803460
N-no like violin
>>
>>35803594
I hope you'll never have sex with more than one woman in your entire life.
>>
>>35809335
White Knight cuckold. A true incel knows that unless the woman has a good reason to say no to sex. E.g. belongs to another man or is ill. And they say no, then they should be punished by law
>>
>>35809385
Yeah, cos violinists are know for getting mad pussy.
>>
>>35809422
You make it sound like it's bad to have sex with only one women. It's not. You know what you get, every single time.
>>
>>35809446
They know which "strings" to pluck
>>
>19
>Have such bad experiences with women that I associate them with negativity and I assume the worst from them immediately and act rude to them
>This is especially true to attractive girls
>The thought of me ACTUALLY putting my dick in a girl is unfathomable
>Perfectly fine with jacking off
>>
19. I'm a weirdo.

>unsurprisingly unoriginal
>>
>>35804066
um, okay. (You)
>>
>>35809574
>I'm a weirdo.
What the hell are you doing here?
You don't belong here.
>>
18
at hs like three girls wanted to fucc me but I had no clue how to approach them and didnt wanted to,while my crush moved away and left me devastated

moved far away for college and have friends but none of them is female
>>
>>35809450
It is if you expect to lose your virginity to another virgin and expect her to remain monogamous to you for life.

If you fuck other women while at the same time not wanting your wife / girlfriend to have fucked / fucked other men then you're literally asking to be cheated on and vice-versa.
>>
>>35807124
>>35808115

22 and I feel the same, however it's not because I'm not willing to take risks, I just have no idea what to do in given situation to get any further.
I have been on 5 dates in the past 2 weeks, with two girls twice, but nothing came out of it - not even a kiss.
>>
26, no girl has ever liked me.
>>
File: 1490217542657.png (53KB, 826x593px) Image search: [Google]
1490217542657.png
53KB, 826x593px
>>35802541
19.

At least one girl or more showed interest in me during school but I didn't bother because being 16 at the time I thought it would happen eventually. Of course it didn't.

Now I'm in college, there are no girls in my class and years of sitting behind a screen have ruined any chance of normieness.
>>
I'm 20 years old and I'm still a virgin because I have AIS.

My body doesn't know what to do with testosterone so it converts it all to estrogen. I was born with a narrow vagina and two undescended testicles.

Originally my parents thought I was a girl but after some tests were done and it was discovered I was genetically male my parents began to raise me as a boy. This was after doctors told my parents that I would develop as a woman when I hit puberty.

I was made fun of throughout school as I was given a male name and male haircuts and using the boys room and the boys locker room, but I was developing as a woman.

Now I'm out of school and about to go off to college, but I don't even know what I am. I'm genetically a boy, I know this, but I don't look or sound like one. I have a vagina for christ's sake.

Part of me is saying I'm a boy and I should be going after girls but part of me is saying I'm a girl and I should be looking for a man. My parents wouldn't be supportive if I brought a man home, but I was also teased mostly by women growing up so they scare me a bit too.

I feel like this weird third gender freak and no one wants to even associate with me because I look like a girl trying to look like a guy that acts like something in between. I want to kill myself, having sex is the least bit of my worries but even if it wasn't I wouldn't be able to because I can't even put anything inside me.

I'm sorry if this was a girl post or something, I know you hate these things. I'll go away. I'm sorry.
>>
>>35809728
>>35809364
>>35809170
>>35807182
>>35804067

Why are there so many 18-19 year old normies on this board?
>>
File: 1484220941992.jpg (27KB, 350x288px) Image search: [Google]
1484220941992.jpg
27KB, 350x288px
>>35809335
I still don't think I'm 100% pure and would feel like a poser if I pretend to be, but thank you for your words anon!
>>
File: 1489354423040.jpg (66KB, 546x618px) Image search: [Google]
1489354423040.jpg
66KB, 546x618px
>>35810013
should have been the little girl
>>
>>35810013
maybe try living as a girl anon
its terrible your parents knew you'd develop female but still raised you as a male
>>
>>35810469
I don't know how. Girls learn all this stuff in high school about beauty and haircare and I don't know probably a million other things but I was told that I was a man and that I had to behave like one.

There's this mental block relating to wanting to be a girl. I was always told by the father growing up that I was just as much of a man as the other boys, I just had a condition.

I would try so hard to do sports and stuff growing up but I just couldn't keep, especially once puberty started..
>>
>>35802541

37. i got aspergers.
>>
>>35802541
23
apparently mentally handicapped, as I don't feel like sex is something important for me
>>
File: 1471197495219.jpg (35KB, 500x386px) Image search: [Google]
1471197495219.jpg
35KB, 500x386px
24 years old.

Basically I'm a virgin because I'm ugly as fuck. Modern women have princess syndrome and even the ugly/fat ones won't lower their standards enough to bang me(which I find funny how absurd it all is). I'll just fap to 2D alone until death takes me.
>>
>>35802541
I'm not a virgin! I just had sex with my virtual waifu a day ago.
>That counts, right?
>>
52, negative skills
>>
>>35811425
Dis nigga knows what's up.
>>
18 im too awkward
>>
>>35810013
>>35810659
YOU'RE FUCKING STACY LEAVE
>>
24. I grew up obese, introverted, and never developed socially as a normal person would. Moving across the country was the death knell to any hope of establishing a social circle.
>>
>>35809724
Wow, button up my keekers because that was oregano.
>22 year old virgin btw, don't really know why.
>>
>>35802541
24. I don't care about it so I don't bother.
>>
19. dumb ugly depressed
>>
>>35802541
20. I rejected the only chance to lose it from a slutty girl that went after me for 3 months. I just want it to be special with someone I actually like. I'm not really desperate anyway and would much rather just find someone to love me.
>>
File: 1415472522847.png (293KB, 442x594px) Image search: [Google]
1415472522847.png
293KB, 442x594px
>>35810659
Gee anon, I'm sorry that happened you.
Do you feel a little better after talking about it?
>>
23

I have no way to meet women. I work, go to school, and go home
>>
>>35802541

29. I wasted the last 12 years of my life smoking weed alone in my room.
>>
File: hh.jpg (7KB, 240x210px) Image search: [Google]
hh.jpg
7KB, 240x210px
>>35804066
die
88
>>
>>35803465
>How old are you and why are you still a virgin ?
>23 lost it at 17
>>
>>35808055
This was literally me. I finally managed to lose it at 27 but felt like a bag of shit still, because by that time your libido is way down from where it was in your early twenties and the girl you have sex with probably lost it like 7-10 years before you did. So either way you're just looking back on wasted years.

If you aren't totally autistic or ugly and the only reason you're not trying is "muh studies", take a few hours out of whatever else you do and FUCKING TRY. You'll thank yourself for it later.
>>
>>35802541
31. I am way too nervous and shy. I live not far from FKK Paradise in Stuttgart and could go there to come out a man but I never have.
>>
>>35811897
Moving across the country after uni is what finally caused me to lose my virginity.

Lost the small circle of friends I had, and to avoid being totally alone and dejected I just started trying to find a girl. Took me a year and a half but finally found someone, six months after that we had sex.

Sometimes you just need to be thrown out of your comfort zone and life finds a way.
>>
File: 1490456234263.jpg (25KB, 357x412px) Image search: [Google]
1490456234263.jpg
25KB, 357x412px
>>35802541
23.
Christian with traditional values.
Find all sex in general to be risky due to STDs.
Don't want to have sex before marriage, and I don't want to have sex with a complete stranger, there has to be some romance and love involved.
Pic related is how old I feel.
>>
>>35813686
Maybe a bit. I just don't know where I fit in in the world.

I have fantasies about being a masculine man and being a dainty woman. I don't know what I am.
>>
>>35809422
That would be a blessing.
For me I'd be ok with marrying a non virgin if she was a widow and was faithful only to her dead husband and he was her first and only.
>>
>>35802541
After years of hanging out here, "tfw no gf" threads and trying to convince myself I was asexual, I lost my virginity to an escort on the 18th of this month. I'm 26.

It was good, but the fact that I had to resort to paying to get it really makes me feel super inadequate now that I've fully come down from the high.

Yes, it was sex, but it's like cheating in a video game... it wasn't earned from my own merits.
>>
>>35802541
Because im unbearably autistic and ugly.

The good thing is I pour all my autism into making music and art and its almost all I give a shit about now, so the crippling loneliness goes mostly unnoticed.
>>
>>35802541
20 and because I've always been pretty asocial. Could of lost it when I was 16, but I didn't think she was hot enough lol. Could of lost it twice during the summer after graduating high school to a 7/10 and a 9/10. Didn't fuck the 7/10 because it was at a party and I was too drunk and not horny at all. I made out with her and fingered her though. Also at a party, I didn't fuck the 9/10 because my friend liked her a lot and I felt like I was betraying him. I kissed her, though. Could of fucked some tinder bitches but I don't have a car and don't feel like driving my parent's car somewhere just to fuck some slut lol. I don't really think about sex very much actually. Just at night I'll masturbate to make myself fall asleep faster. I don't give a fuck that I'm a virgin. I'm not that stupid.
>>
>>35802541
20
Not ugly, not dumb, and I've got a ton of friends so I don't think its autism
Girls just don't like me like that
>>
>>35802541
>pretty social kid
>almost every girl in elementary school had a crush on me
>growing up to become literally Chad Thundercock
>other boys get jealous and bully me throughout my teens
>fall in love with best friend
>daily hardcore bullying has taken its toll on my confidence
>never manage to confess my feelings
>(they were mutual)
>things end badly
>never get over her
>look like literally Chad Thundercock
>self-conscious about being an inexperienced virgin in my early 20's
>acquire serious disease that changes my life for the worse
>effectively physically unable to do most activities that would qualify as dates at this point
>save for a miraculous breakthrough in medicine I'll stay this way for the rest of my life
>>
File: cowbama barabop.jpg (14KB, 467x467px) Image search: [Google]
cowbama barabop.jpg
14KB, 467x467px
>>35814080
Perhaps you don't have to fit anywhere? I don't know, I'm probably too focused on the individual.
Uhm, it's hard to try and think of something helpful. Even saying you don't have to fit anywhere, which mind you I agree with, feels hypocritical. I've always fit in somewhere. How can I tell you it's not mandatory?

I want to but I don't know how to help you anon. I'll listen to you if you wanna talk
>>
26 KHV

I have had numerous chances to lose it to sub par girls, but passed them up. Looking back I should have just fucked them for the experience not the pleasure. I have zero social skills, I just go to work, the gym and then home. I do not even meet girls at all. I have nobody to blame but myself, especially late high school early college years there were decent girls that were clearly into me I should have just tried, but no.
>>
>too young for this place
>no one likes me
>dont have a lot of friends
>most girls i see are ugly
>exist only on the internet and never go outside
>always on my phone
>lightly autistic
>jump down from from second floor of school
>do more stupid shit
>threatened to blow up the school(i'm muslim)
>defend all my friends too much and get problems with pieces of shit
>they are scared to fight even tho i'm weak
>when i get angry i will try to kill you
>want to die
>>
>>35802541
Saw through the meme early on.
>>
>>35802541
38 never picked up girls vibe I procrastinated there were many opportunities I fucked there if you're giving your cherry up to a pro don't say your a virgin go with the flow everyone lasts different when fucking *I know taking advice from another virgin pffft*
>>
>>35814356
I don't know what to say, I guess I'll just type out stuff as I think of it.

As a kid it was easier, cuz you know girls and boys don't really look that different anyway at that age. I had some friends and I felt mostly normal even though I obviously didn't have what the boys had down there..

But you could already tell that I was starting to look different by like 11. I was getting mosquito bites and stuff along with the girls in my class. My friends started making fun of me and calling me a girl, they didn't want to hang out with me anymore.

And it kind of just stayed like that. I went to a private school that had a sister middle and high school, so I knew these kids all my childhood. The boys didn't like me because I was a sissy freak in their eyes and the girls didn't like me for the same reason. Neither one saw me as their gender.

It got bad in high school. Guys get that weird sex drive then. I only had gym for two semesters but they'd always try to grope me and dryhump me in the locker rooms. It was really awful. I was trying really hard to act like a guy then, I wanted to fit in, but they'd just emasculate me like that.

I looked into gender identities even though I thought they were special snowflake stuff because I thought maybe there were other kids who were like me and had their own label for themselves. I found the term "non-binary" and found a support group for people who identified as that in my area.

It was all women with dyke haircuts sitting in a room talking about how they wanted to be one gender one day and another the next. No one like me.

I found videos with other people who have AIS recently and they all had supportive families who raised them as women. Part of me knows that I should just try to stop acting like a guy and try to become a girl, but it goes against 20 years of what my parents have told me.

I'm just a boy with a condition.
>>
>>35802541
26
Super introvert, I don't make many friends, have a lot of uncommon hobbies and I don't want to sleep with someone without knowing them for a while first.

If a hot stranger asked me for sex I'd say no.

I was also really depressed from about 16 to 23. Having a partner didn't even cross my mind.
>>
File: image.jpg (59KB, 564x564px) Image search: [Google]
image.jpg
59KB, 564x564px
>>35802541
22
Lost it at 18 to high school sweetheart
Spent that summer fucking like rabbits in every hole she had.
She was from France so she went back and broke it off.
Well it was great being Chad for a summer. Good way to close out high school.
I feel bad for you perms-virgins.
It felt terrible but I only got her because I lost 70 pounds and grew a pair.
>>
>>35802541
19

I never initiate, and even when others do I usually sperg out
>>
>>35814720
>Guys get that weird sex drive then
Do they? I never felt the urge to grope someone. Maybe I'm the exception lel
>It was all women with dyke haircuts sitting in a room talking about how they wanted to be one gender one day and another the next. No one like me.
Really? That sucks.
Uhm, how does the law consider you as? I've studied, and I'm still studying, a little of it for uni and it got me curious.
Imo how your parents raised you shouldn't be a border for you, I am guessing it's really the one million dollars question, but shouldn't you be who you feel like being?
I didn't even know this syndrome existed before tonight.
>>
>>35815034
how does the law consider you*
>>
21yo virgin.
Don't know how to talk to people.
I send all my time in my room.
>>
>>35814088
At least you admit you cheated. Most people who go the Escort route continue with the "sex is sex so it still counts!" myth
>>
>>35815034
My parents had my birth certificate changed to male after they discovered I had XY chromosomes.

I suppose it should be an easy answer, but it really doesn't feel like it. I was raised as a boy. My family, including my extended family, went out of their way to treat me as a boy because they and my parents believed that it would be good for me to feel like the other boys.

I have male socialization, I don't act like a girl, and I was taught to feel like I shouldn't want to be a girl. And yet I get gendered female everywhere I go.

I suppose there's a bit of imposter syndrome mixed in there as well. I may look like a female, but I'm not a genetic female. I am, however, a genetic male.
>>
>>35802541
31. I messed up bad in high school by obsessing over a girl, then never really getting over her (to this day). So I retreated into myself, pretty much.

>>35815143
I've never seriously considered paying for sex. Aside from being illegal here, I know it wouldn't exactly be fulfilling. IMO paying for sex is just really expensive, interactive porn. It's not real sex.
>>
>>35815176
You're genetically male but you still don't know the answer. Huh. I'm guessing no amount of thinking would give it to me,
I can really only say I'm sorry other people treated you badly and were insensitive.
Have you ever spoken to a therapist? What did they say?
I gotta go soon, I can drop my email if you wanna talk more
>>
File: image.jpg (36KB, 480x360px) Image search: [Google]
image.jpg
36KB, 480x360px
>>35815439
>trying to get a tranny's number
Kek what a fucking beta!!!
>>
>>35802541
24. I'm a recluse and don't care about virginity.
>>
42 virgin here
>>
File: 1484237422090.jpg (29KB, 500x394px) Image search: [Google]
1484237422090.jpg
29KB, 500x394px
>>35815504
I'm curious you faggot
>>
>>35815504
How am I a tranny? I didn't choose to be born with a vagina.
>>
>>35815439
I've talked to a therapist a bit but I didn't really get much out of it. People aren't able to relate to what I'm feeling usually.

Um I guess it would be okay to get your email?
>>
>>35815619
>Um I guess it would be okay to get your email?
I don't know brah, you tell me, I'll leave it here in case you wanna talk [email protected].
Otherwise seeya in the ether space cowboy
>>
>>35815619
not them, but I went through something a bit similar with my family, and I've known a couple of people that were actually intersex and stil deal with those issues. my email is [email protected]
>>
Shut-in. Mental health issues. Didn't go to high school.
>>
>>35804034
Turned 27 last week.

I have a job and money so it's just the social skills thing if we triangulate our causes.

Also I'm not good looking, probably a 3.
>>
25. Because no social circle and otherwise no idea how to get a gf. I certainly am not going to find one on a dating cite.
>>
>23
>pretty much no libido
>never been in love or had a crush
>Introvert
>probably not able to connect to another human being
>>
>>35802541
22. Waiting until marriage.

I'm not some alpha LARPer, or anything, but I've been in two situations where even my stunted-social instincts picked up on the fact that I could have lost it.
>>
>>35815779
Are you intersexed as well or are you a transgendered person?
>>
>>35815917
I'm only transgendered. I guess it doesnt compare that much really, but the part about not being accepted by either gender sticks out a lot. And not knowing how to be a girl and feeling like you dont fit in with boys as well, regardless of what it is you actually want. parents making bad decisions too
>>
>>35802541
24.
>Crippling depression
>overweight (like.. literally never worked out a day in your life fat)
>shit personality
>literally no social life
>unattractive
>fear of commitment
>fear of rejection
>performance anxiety
>fear of sexual contact

At this point if a woman forced herself onto me I probably couldn't get laid.
>>
>>35815972
Yeah, I've been on your general before and it seems like you go through similar stuff.

I hope things are working out for you.
>>
>>35815972
I feel this so much desu.
>>
29.
I dropped out of high school at 16 and became a hiki for almost 8 years. I was somehow able to find a job after that, but I'm still a hiki at heart. I never leave my house except to go to work and spend all my free time on vidya, anime and shitposting and have pretty much no social skills. Thankfully I'm at the age where my sex drive is naturally beginning to decline and I barely even fap anymore so I don't have to deal with those feels as often.
>>
>>35816011
my family disowned me and ive moved 11 times in the last 4 years across two states, but at least i can put on eyeliner straight 9/10 times now

>>35816060
were all gunna make it
>>
24
7/10 (was able to make out with good looking girls in clubs)
too much anxiety when i'm not drunk/high, can't talk with girls
> I actually have never kissed, flirted with a girls while sober
>>
>>35816123
can i make it if im 6'1
>>
>>35816142
I am and get gendered right a lot. and my sister was 6'0, as was my mother. girls come in all sorts of bodies, same with boys. just have to make due with what you can anon
>>
>>35816188
what if you have a masculine jawline and start at 20

im 5 months in and i go from thinking i look kind of fem to JESUS CHRIST IM FUCKED
>>
>>35802541
>13
im not

ahaha look at all the virgins here
>>
File: Grubber.png (645KB, 1065x1440px) Image search: [Google]
Grubber.png
645KB, 1065x1440px
22. Literally never was interested in dealing with all the bullshit of having a gf, I was content with just fapping heinous shit. Until recently that I really like this girl for real and I'm too autistic to talk to her
>>
20
I suck at interacting with other people. Whenever I do, everyone's pissed off after a while. It's like I'm gifted at shitting in people's moods.
Most of the time I try to remain invisible cause I know how talking to people goes. But sometimes I get lonely so I socialize. Then everyone hates me for being a dick. Can't get laid like this.

Also I've got erectile dysfunction which has ruined that 0.000001% chance of me getting laid every time so far.
>>
>>35816225
everybody does. and mtf's have the same issue, though they typically do transition a little easier. all you can do is work around it and accept it, just like less attractive cis girls do. le beee urself may may aside, theres really nothing else you can dobut work with what you have. even if you dont think you have anything if you sound like a girl and dress like a girl and move like a girl youll be one to most people, and anybody can do that no matter how hard it seems
>>
>>35816437
I got kind of the same problem but reverse. Ftm and small, high voice, round face, percieved as adorable rather than handsome. Well... that sucks. Not even sure if I can take T due to me reacting hella sensitive to hormonal changes
>>
>>35807904
You look like Matt Damon, but a bit fatter.

Fatt Damon?
>>
>tfw to smart too have sex
>>
>>35816628
i have another friend who decided to just not transition because of the same issue. i know time on T makes most people look totally male, but if youre over sensitive o it maybe you couldnt, im not a doctor idk. but i bet you could be a cute boy if that was enough, even if not a big guy
>>
>Male (Duh)
> 20 1/2
>5'8" (I'm white with broad shoulders though)
>Antisocial
>Way too self-conscious
>My conversations are boring and logical
>I vegitate in front of technology too much
>Crooked yellow teeth
>Low social status
>Mild aspergers
>Victim mentality
>Afraid to be too nice (is that a good thing?)
>Mentally masturbating to PUA videos/articles
>Anxiety issues
>Pea brain
>Broke as hell
>Overthinker
>>
>>35816800
Thanks friend. The over all apprechiation of traps helps me (strangely enough) because well.... looking hella feminine while being/feeling like a guy is kinda famillar to me. I will see what the future holds T wise, and until then I may find a way to actually look more like said cute boy instead of a dyke.....
>>
File: pepe.jpg (68KB, 600x720px) Image search: [Google]
pepe.jpg
68KB, 600x720px
21 KHV dateless
social anxiety, general anxiety, depression, no motivation to improve. And I fell for the skilled trades meme. Trades are good jobs, but you are not in social situations with girls your age EVER at work or school.
>>
>>35802541
27. Can't be around large groups of people, am not into drugs/drinking, am not into partying, am not into watching tv/movies. In America this essentially classifies you as an outcast. People think you are likely to go on a shooting rampage if you aren't either some drug-induced pile of filth or a smug rich asshole. Damn I'm screwed.
>>
File: 1485889993671.jpg (313KB, 1204x1204px) Image search: [Google]
1485889993671.jpg
313KB, 1204x1204px
>>35802541
23
Only asians deserve my 8'' cock and my 6'2 /fit/ frame but there are no asians where I live
>>
>>35816962
cosplay as shimakaze if youre enough of a weeb, and make sure you arent overweight. weight will just make you look girlier, boys are skinny and smol. good luck, hope you can be comfortable with yourself.
>>
File: rooo normans exit the area.jpg (20KB, 400x400px) Image search: [Google]
rooo normans exit the area.jpg
20KB, 400x400px
>>35802541
33

I never really tried because why should I have to when it literally happened for all my peers with no effort on their end
>>
>>35817056
based. same here
>>
>>35817131
Both a weeb and not overweight, also on my way to get skinny and msybe get a tiny bit of muscle.
Thanks a lot m8 and good night
>>
>>35802541
I'm 20, lost it at 19.

Almost makes it even harder because now I know what companionship is like, but have none.
>>
File: 1443974778755.jpg (10KB, 285x287px) Image search: [Google]
1443974778755.jpg
10KB, 285x287px
>>35802541
>22(almost 23)
There are a combination of reasons why. I was isolated for almost the entirety of my adolescence, in public I have crippling social anxiety, body is covered in scars, and most of all I find it very difficult to relate to other people. I'm not fat, not a manlet, or even particularly ugly, the problem is entirely internal.

I genuinely dislike most people, and don't really care anymore. Honestly I prefer 2D girls, as their personalities are all in my head.
>>
25. Up until last year it was because of a lack of social skills, status, and worsening anxiety/depression issues

Today, its because I met a girl and we're choosing to wait until marriage because of her religious beliefs. I'll probably make it until I'm a wizard since we're both incredibly rational about the whole thing. Its not like we don't want to fuck. The truth is we find ourselves needing to stop things from escalating every time we find ourselves alone together. That fact alone is satisfying enough
>>
>>35802541
15
im scared to ask
>>
File: SuddenlySusan-Emmy-Ad[1].jpg (73KB, 347x450px) Image search: [Google]
SuddenlySusan-Emmy-Ad[1].jpg
73KB, 347x450px
i'm saving myself for when we get a time machine and i can have sex with Samantha from Bewitched.
>>
>>35802541
25

sat in room, played video games, and smoked weed all throughout high school. slept through classes because was up all night. made a net total of 1 friend

apathy and depression throughout college. didn't care to seriously associate with most people. when people did try to reach out to me, i brushed them off or mocked them. stopped smoking weed, but still ended up dropping out

NEET afterwards for 3 years. didn't do a damn thing except sit in room, drink coffee, and pursue own interests

recently ran out of money, had to do something. chose most isolating career available to me; truck driving.

and that's it
>>
File: d5678.jpg (14KB, 325x346px) Image search: [Google]
d5678.jpg
14KB, 325x346px
>>35802541
>4/10
>29 BMI
>inroverter
>40-yo tier balding at 20
>no informal social skills with women
>only male friends (almost all GF-less too)
>realized I lost even before I started playing when I was 14 so I quit and became an omega-male
>thinking of visiting an escort but my dignity and shit looks stop me every time
You can win if you want
If you want it you'll win Oooooooh
Thread posts: 206
Thread images: 34


[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y] [Search | Top | Home]

I'm aware that Imgur.com will stop allowing adult images since 15th of May. I'm taking actions to backup as much data as possible.
Read more on this topic here - https://archived.moe/talk/thread/1694/


If you need a post removed click on it's [Report] button and follow the instruction.
DMCA Content Takedown via dmca.com
All images are hosted on imgur.com.
If you like this website please support us by donating with Bitcoins at 16mKtbZiwW52BLkibtCr8jUg2KVUMTxVQ5
All trademarks and copyrights on this page are owned by their respective parties.
Images uploaded are the responsibility of the Poster. Comments are owned by the Poster.
This is a 4chan archive - all of the content originated from that site.
This means that RandomArchive shows their content, archived.
If you need information for a Poster - contact them.