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When did you realise it wasn't social anxiety and you actually just didn't like being around other people?
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>>35772115
When did you realize you're a faggot introvert and you should just do some fucking drugs and chill out you fucking gay fuck.
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>>35772277
Going overboard with the b8 again?
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>>35772115
Very recently actually and I'm 26.
It's shows at work on the rare occasion that I have to open my mouth.
Other people are the awkward ones.
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>>35772277
haha u said niggers
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> get invited to a qt's birthday party which happened to be a mansion
> didn't know anyone except her and one other guy that I barely talked to throughout my high school years
> didn't feel like I belonged and it made me feel good that I missed out on several parties in my high school years because this shit was terrifying
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>>35772115
since i was a kid. have always hated people
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>>35772277
>just do some fucking drugs and chill out
HAHA xD riiiiiight breeeh smoke dat joint
Wen de dank hits, lifes just so niiiiice, best belieeeve DaT
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>>35772277
I have way better time doing drugs by myself
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>>35772115
I'm an introvert that want to be with people.
I actually want to be around people and when people give me attention.
Not the "look at him" kind of attention, but a simple and plain talk.
I am always so damn happy when somebody actually makes its way to me to say "hi how is it going"


I just realized some day, that for some reason I just don't attract people.
Everybody says I'm the one rejecting or not making any effort...bullshit.
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>>35772277
I too am a fellow 4channer!! Haha epic post dude!!!
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>>35772115
>posting a shitty cropped and upscaled version of the picture
Fucking mobileshitters.
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>>35772115
i love people i just hate interacting with them at the mid-level

i need some amount of superficial social interaction to not go insane but beyond that i only crave the intimacy of a close friendship, a mentorship, etc. Never had a gf I don't think it would be healthy for me, but I feel like I should try going on dates.
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>>35772277
I take some drugs but I do them alone because I still don't like being around people.

There's a reason why I took one of the most isolating jobs an average Joe can get.
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>>35772115
Couple of months ago.
I've been actively avoiding getting friends and such sense then.
Feelsgreatman.
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>>35772115
When did you realize you were just pretending to hate other people to conceal that you are desperate for any form of human contact but don't know how to get it.
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>>35772115
I guess I had something of a "peak" in my desire to be social at around 16 or 17.
Basically all my good friends died or lost touch. it takes an insane amount of patience and luck to find someone who isn't a complete idiot, a degenerate, a gutterslut, a soulless normalfag, etc.

Tldr; I'm not willing to wade through an ocean of shit for some unforeseeable amount of time hoping I'll find someone interesting
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I don't get anxious I just don't like being by alot of people. I don't hate then i don't like them. Just leave me be. Thanks
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I know it's not anxiety, I'm not scared or anxious about socialising, it just feels like a chore.

But I can't figure out if it's that I don't like being around people altogether, or it's that I don't like being around the type of people I interact with.

I think I could enjoy the company of people similar to myself.
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>>35772115

when my therapist told me I have schizoid personality disorder
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Being alone is so comforting.

Nobody cares about anything you do, you're never judged, you don't have to worry about other people's lives.

Introvertism is heaven.
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Why don't you like being around other people? Because they make you uncomfortable? You're using circular logic to try and avoid the fact you have social anxiety.
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>>35777410
>you're never judged

I judge myself tho
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>>35778061
>Why don't you like being around other people? Because they make you uncomfortable?

Why don't you like washing the dishes?
Does it make you uncomfortable?

Clearly you have washing the dishes anxiety.
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I couldn't really say hat there was a time when I became an introvert, as I pretty much always was. I didn't have any friend, or even talked to anybody until I was 13-14, and even after that I barely interacted with people.
Therefore, I never got into talking with people, or even living with them. The only feeling that I get from people in the real world is a slight curiosity at how they interact with one another, although it usually ends up being an annoyance more than anything.
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Always

I only ever tried to be close to people because I thought that's what was expected of me
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When did you realise that people actually weren't so bad?
Was it far too late?
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>>35778339
wut. Stop shitting me.
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>>35778339
>tfw you realize it was you who was terrible, not everyone else
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>>35776149

I know this feel anon. I want to be around other people but they scare me. I feel like i put in way too much effort to see people or make plans and they subconsciously pick up on desperation
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The vast majority of normies are insanely fucking boring people. I mean even yesterday I went out partying with some, and damn, everything about them just seems so vanilla and plain. It's like watching a stale, five year old 9gag meme. There is no way to enjoy hanging around these people when you're sober. Whenever I do that I just can't help but feel indifferent about what they're saying (even when they are talking about things that are supposed to be objectively interesting, i.e traveling, experiences and such). It's not like their activities are boring by themselves, but the mentality that they are approached by seems to be strangely superficial.

I don't know why I feel this way. It's not like I'm interesting myself. Social anxiety seems to be more or less gone from my life, but I still simply can't enjoy being around the majority of people.
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>>35778172
>Why don't you like washing the dishes?
>Does it make you uncomfortable?
No. Your argument already doesn't work, unless you're saying there's some reason you don't like being around people that doesn't deal with how you feel around them. I feel fine around my dishes, even if I don't like washing them. You don't feel fine around others, even if you're not talking to them.
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>>35778569
>You don't feel fine around others

Yes I do.
I'd just rather be alone.

Just as you would rather not be doing your dishes.

It's tedious and irritating, not uncomfortable.
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