I went on a tinder date today and it was just so depressing.

At least you can get a date. I know I'm broken from the fact that I can't do such a simple task.

no shit, because "coffee" isn't a damn date.

>>35748457
We didnt get coffee. I picked her up and we drove around on the interstate/highway for a couple hours then i dropped her off

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>>35748511
Did you really do that? Please say majority of it was awkward silence and shitty music playing.

>>35748405
I know. I feel like I should have a chance to get somewhere. But I just don't understand it and it just doesn't work and I'm not happy. And it just saps the motivation to go further. Like why try and do anything when it doesn't make me happy anyways. How can things get better in the future when even if things get better I still won't be happy and I still won't enjoy any of it and won't be any happier. When I was KHHV I thought getting a gf would make me happy but now I don't know what to look forward to.

>>35748457
nigger we saw a movie and cuddled during it and I was less autistic than any of my dates that went better and it was the most empty and depressing feelings in my life.

>>35748457
Really...? So if I ask a girl if she wants to grab coffee, she won't think I like her? I don't know man, I get so shy. Like it's a bad thing if I show interest in a girl.

>>35748563
I'm a KHHV. I don't think a gf will solve all my problems, but it would be one less thing.

>>35748377
Maybe you guys should have gone out to eat something or visit a mall

Post pics of you & her, OP.

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>>35748599
that's what I thought, but then I felt nothing more I think I dunno I'm drinking now but it all feels so bleak

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>>35748658
wtf kind of fag takes pics on a single shitty date you fucking retard

There's a reason some of you autists are lonely

>>35748883
No you retard, individual pics.

>>35749153
That's slightly less autistic but you're still completely fucking retarded and deserve to die alone if you'd post a pic of yourself ande a chick you went on a date with to an anonymous laotian child raping imageboard

>>35749202
Harsh. What's the big deal? I want to see if she's out of his league or something...

>>35749263
then she wouldn't have matched on tinder, neither of us were catfishing

Having bad social skills is something that's hard to come to terms with. Alot of people on this site are somewhere on The Autism Spectrum, wherein all the shit will just pile itself on all at once in the form of meltdowns. At times like those you just need to find something to do or sit and wait for it to pass. You wrote your post over half an hour ago so you've probably calmed down by now.

I talked to a girl in college one time and she gave me her number. I called her up and I realized I didn't have a single thing to say. However it wasn't until yeas later that I realized I'll probably never have friends and definitely never have a girlfriend. Getting married and having kids is something society presents to us as normal, but is that really all that it's cracked up to be? Kids are alot of work, first when they're babies you have to change their diaper at all hours of the night, for the next 4-5 years they have to be under constant supervision, you have to pay for all of their meals, clothes and everything else they need, and when all's said and done children tend to distance themselves from their parents. And alot of times girlfriends and wives will start fights for no reason and try to establish dominance over their boyfriends or husbands. In every T. V. show the husband is almost always the butt of jokes, and with women entering the workforce more men are taking on household responsibilities. Dating is a means to getting married, so if you don't want to do that missing out on dating isn't as big a deal.

You can't always control what happens to you but you can control how to interpret it. So instead of focusing on things you're not good at, focus instead on things you are. Find some hobbies you can master. You could learn a musical instrument, get good at Chess, start creative writing, take up running or lifting or anything else. When you get good at your hobby you'll produce something you can be proud of, and you'll feel good about yourself.

>>35748599
who the fuck gets coffee stop reading reddit

coffee is what girls get with other girls when they wanna gossip but have no fucking time

its like when guys go out and "get a stogue" or w/e with each other its fucking gay. but its worse than that.

why the fuck in gods grace would you get COFFEE WITH A GIRL ? how the fuck is that a date? thats not even doing anything youre literally saying hey lets go get a bag of chips at the store like wtf? even valet has more interaction than that..

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>>35748599
I know your feel.
I know it so bad.

How's your jerking off? 'Cause you know you're supposed to be slamming girls. Probably why you feel empty, too much porn and you think that's enough

>>35748511
>driving around aimlessly for a couple of hours

I do that too sometimes, and I try to thrown an errand or two along the way, but damn, that it is a depressing activity for me whether it is a date or not.

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>>35749473
hows not kysing because you know you should reeally kys nigger

>>35749394
>Dating is a means to getting married

Not always. There's all kinds of relationships.

>>35749394
But I don't nescessarly think im bad at it i just dont become happy from it and that's the same way other shit seems to me like writing code and shit that im good at.

Ill probably be fine I think but i dunno. I ulsually think ill be fine because everything seems better than it did a few years ago but sometimes it just seems so hard i guess

>>35748377
I'm not experienced in this regard, but I think that most of those questions are up to you to decide. As the man, you set the tone, and it's up to her to decide whether to follow you or not.

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>>35749419
what the fuck is getting a stogue?

yeah coffee is pretty irredeemable, i fell for that once. never again will i go get coffee with a girl. nothing says: i'm boring and unoriginal as fuck, and i have no confidence whatsoever and can't commit to an activity that could potentially last longer than an hour. fuck man.

lol, i remember back in the day like 2011 or so, i read a story about a guy thanking reddit for giving him the idea of researching a bunch of facts about coffee so he had something to talk about on his coffee date. that was one of the last straws for reddit, as he got a shit ton of upvotes and a bunch of people legitimately thought it was a good idea. that's a level of autism i never wanted to stoop to. no, not ever. i thought i had reached a low point in my life while reading that post. but here i am on /r9k/ 6 years later. fucc.