Rejection general

> No vidya

Your aa madman. I guess go for a walk. Go out and get a good book to get lost in.

Give us updates anon, we want to know what she says.

If rejection: go to a country where prostitution is legal, get an escort. Profit.

>>35736810
>book

Yes anon that actually sounds nice. Some big new fantasy series would do my heart well.

No updates yet. I guess she will just ignore me from now on like I never existed. I hope she has the kindness to at least block me so I know for certain. Otherwise these next few days will be agony.

I had a similare experience two days ago. It felt awfull at first, but the next day we talked about it and I feel much better now.
My point is, you'll probably feel good shortly after it. I felt alright about it after I was rejected because I know I can move on, and Im happy I had the courage to do it.

>>35736773
I got rejecte dearlier this yer. I asked a girl over to watch a movie. She said sure but then she never came and ignored me on fb.

OP here. She just replied. Typical "anon your message melted my heart but I like someone already. I'm so sorry I want to cry! You'll find a perfect girl someday! Youre such an amazing guy and im sure it would have worked out if I didn't like someone else". Oh well, at least I tried. Hats off to her for being nice about it. Don't have many girls like that. I replied in kind and wished her all the best

Guess I need to make some stops at a book store.

>>35737666
Hats off to nothing it's her fault the stupid fucking roastie lead you on to leech your attention while she shoots after some chad

I'm sorry though man, ik how it feels, hugs, go for a walk to a park and chill on a bench in the moment, helps me when I need to think

>>35737666
Sucks mang, keep your chin up

Shit. Well at least you did it.
Progress.
Do it again with another grill until it works and you'll forget about this one.

Thinking about asking someone out, but considering I have to be at a 3 day event with them next week, I think it's be really awkward if she rejected me. Should I just wait?

Do something creative or go out for a coffee or a drink.

Thanks anons for the support. It hurts for a bit but dies down. Just don't ever make the mistake of trying to use emotional talk after she rejects you. Act kind and professional, for your own peace of mind.

I think I'll spurge on some chocolate and then work out tilI I collapse. Not a fan of drinking so don't even have that.

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>>35736773
>about to ask out cute 8.5/10 girl
>brown hair, blue eyes
>amazing tits
>text all day and snap until we fall asleep
please help I don't know what to say, am I making a mistake or should I just not give a fuck. Where do women even like to go? How do I even say it?

>tfw never been rejected cause I've never truly tried

The one time I "tried", the girl actually gave me her phone # but i ended up seeing her with her boyfriendanf just cut all ties.

I legitimately cannot fathom how demeaning it would feel to be rejected by a girl you're interested in.

Been rejected twice have only really asked a girl out twice. Kind of hard for me to say how I got over it becuase it still lingers. I thought one of them was actually into me. One in particular still pops into my head a little too often than id like to. I guess talking to girls helps me cope with some of it but unless I actually get a gf those rejections are going to stick around.

>>35736773

Ok guy, here is how you can turn this into a win-win situation:

She acceptes - Give me updates and I will give you responses that will be sure to get you laid

She rejects - Think about how much money you'd spend courting this slut, and use that money to get yourself a nice escort. Trust me, after you nut you won't give a fuck about girls. This will give you confidence to go after other girls.

AMA

>>35738735
>"Hey, do you wanna go see that beauty and the beast movie? It's supposed to be good and I haven't seen anything Disney since my childhood."
>set date for evening
>"Hey do you wanna swing by and get something to eat before/after the movie?"

>>35738735
>"Hey femanon! I had an amazing time chatting with you yesterday. I barely even got to ask you anything interesting about *insert something that interested HER*. Anyways I was planning to go visit dunkin dip (or similar high end dessert place) for some time now but never had the reason. Would you like to come with me? I heard they have those ice-cream covered in godiva chocolate. It would be really nice actually talking face to face. Let me know!"

Try that. Edit as you see fit. Just pretend to be confident.

>>35738781
It sucks and hurts. Like what was I thinking? A manlet like me getting a girl like her? How dare I even think she could be interested?

It goes away over time.

How close do you have to be to a girl to ask her out?
There's a girl from one of my classes that texts me sometimes, but only about uni related stuff. Would it be a bad idea to ask her out?

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>>35738462
I think you should use this opportunity to socialize with them as much as possible. It might give you insight on what to expect when you ask her. Either way I would wait. Her response will likely be the same regardless of this event thing and you have little to gain by asking before.

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>>35737666
Fuck! Reading that just made me wanna get drunk as fuck, this hurts so much. I guess that I've read that so many times from many different girls that every time I read it I wanna get drunk and cry myself to sleep

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I started keeping track of how many women rejected me. This is both an online and real life count that I started January 1st this year. Over my life I'm sure it's much, much more.

>>35738952
>>35738995
Thank you anons I will go with the movie thing I think, she likes Disney shit. My friend said if I took her to a movie I'd have to "make a move" what in exact detail does that mean? Like hold hands? Put arm around her? Kiss? FUG?

>>35739654
>watched too many rom coms

lol making a move irl means once she realises you're a fag autist, you're only chance is to "make a move", right hook to the temple, she's out, you're in.

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>tfw asked a girl out irl and she said okay
>proceeded to ghost the shit out of me online when I asked for anything further

I gave up after this. The open mic that I'd been going to is no more, dude who ran it that I'd become good friends with got fired because of some shit he said to her while on acid. I realized that this was a can of worms I didn't want to open.

Normie life is great until they start getting into some heavy shit.

Pic related I didn't realize was her being pissed off at me until like a day later.

>>35738995
dont try this... the boys clearly very autistic and shouldnt be giving advice to anyone.
>>35738735

>>35739474
you're a chad for even having the confidence to say a single word to a female this many times