ITT: Please Help me. When I masturbate it only lasts a minute.

>>35729035
The more you masturbate the more you desensitize your cock. I've fapped so much I can't cum in a woman no matter how long I fuck.

This is a rumor. It could be harmful but I don't see why it would be. When you pee, once the stream starts flowing stop it. Pee some more stop again rinse and repeat. Apparently you're giving a penile muscle a workout helping you last longer. Again I have 0 proof this works just a rumor.

>>35729075
Yeah this is the reality op if you fap that much and hard.

It's not a bad thing honestly because masturbating feels better physically than sex. If you get a gf and sex it up often it's going to just be a mental thing for you, although that's not implying it isn't a good thing.

>>35729075
yeah this

normie protip: girls feel weird about it if you don't cum (like they think they did something wrong?) so my workaround for this is to fuck like normal for however long seems adequate and then indicate i'm gonna cum soon, pull out, and SPEEDFAP and cum on her back/stomach.

like seriously, as soon as it reverts back to my exclusive control over my penis i can cum at will. the big problem is that a given vagina is not synced to the exact tightness and rhythm that i need to cum--only i know that.

the easier solution here is to cut out fapping altogether for a week or two and see what happens. i've always been wary of this though because i'm pretty sure this would legitimately end in me cumming within 5 seconds

>>35729079
I... may try this

I hope there's some mental trick I can use or something big it ever came down to the 1v1 sex. I'm devastated I'll be done in seconds.

>>35729260
Dude I'm telling you it's more likely sex won't live up to whatever you fap to and you'll most likely take way too long

>>35729329
I'm praying. Surely there won't be as much friction since I don't use lubrication. Surely I'll just slide on in for a great time.

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Just relax before start masturbarting and do it SLOWLY. Train your cock like a retard child, teach him the basics and have patience (very important) for him. Allow yourself to immerse in the act and dont think about comming. Eventually you will be able to last much longer.
But dont panick about it, it's worse. I was in the same situation, then went some time without fap and tried what i described above (i still am, but a little better).

TIPS:
- Don't fap too much. If you can some time without doing it at all better.
- When you fap, do it full conscious, not like some routine activity.
- Leave porn, it hurts your brain. I know it's difficult, but think about the consequences. You can find support groups on the internet. Take this seriously.
- If you doesn't live alone and there's a chance (even if minimal) of being caught, don't do it. Just fap when you are all alone so you can relax appropriately. I fucked up my brain masturbating all my teens in the bathroom cumming as soon as i could to not get caught.

Sorry for bad English, and the best of lucks. We can do it.

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>tfw pussy and bjs make u cum in seconds

>>35729568
Any advanced guide or further instructions on this? Thanks I plan on trying it and taking it serious. I think will cut off porn

>>35729590
>Any advanced guide or further instructions on this?
On what, particularly?

>>35729634
Maybe on the part with self concentration, I know it souds like something I need to figure out myself, but I was just seeing if there was a step by step since I do a lot of things wrong that seem simple.

I don't know if I am premature or not because it varies so much. Its all mental and based on how horny I am really. If its a video of my exact fetish I won't be able to last a minute seriously. If its some boring standard porn I might go soft.

>>35729734
Its involves many factors. For me, it's something like this: I make sure i wont be bothered in, at least, the next 25-30 minutes (not that i will take that time, but if i want, i should be able to). I left aside other worries like tfwnogf or the overwhelming ansiety product of the fact that i'm not even able to maintain a fucking friendship (i know my problems wont go, but now idc). And then just immerse slowly in the atmosphere: start calm, feel the pleasure, taste the moment, etc etc. When i feel i'm about to cum, i relax and do it slower, or, if necessary, cease at all, wait some seconds, and start again. When you finally have to cum just do it, and be at peace with you, it is what it is.

I visualize it like training a retard child that some day, for everyone's surprise, will make you proud. But meanwhile, you have to be patient.

I hope this help you. Good Luck!

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>>35729924
also im still here if you think i can help you in anything else

Tfw when you have the same problem as op, but you had sex and came in less than 15 seconds. It's an incredibly embarrassing feeling, but my gf was confident if we had sex more often, it would all go away. 6 months passed and it's gotten a bit better. There's hope, anon.