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Self improvement ??!

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How do I improve myself ?
>brainlet
>Neet
>No job
>No car
>Still live with parents
>Fat
>Masterbation addiction
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Get /fit/
Get a job
Get out
Put what skills you have to good use
Moderation in all things
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>>35727772
Also don't forget to be yourself.
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>>35727815
Even if I'm boring ???

Bee urself meme lel anon
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Get /fit/ (start with your diet)
Limit internet usage
Explore/find your interests that aren't vidya/anime &
if you're lucky you'll discover a creative outlet and you won't have to bottle everything up
/Lit/ or watch some documentaries on things that interest you
Write a to-do list/set a routine
Look for jobs after 1-2 months of doing this
Don't worry about the car just yet
Have a mantra

imagine how different your life will be after 5-12 months of doing this
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I try to self improve but then some days I just break. Was doing fine, studying hard, no fap, working out. Today however was just fucking hell, fucked up in classes, jacked off and bought some cigarettes to help cope, skipped workout. This next two weeks are basically going to be that cycle until I get my shit back together for a month or so. I just want to stay on track for like 2 months but I always fuck it up.
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how old are you anon?

younger or older might make a diff
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>>35728639
I'm 20


Original comment no mute.......!
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>>35728270
The only thing I can imagine is how much energy (that I don't have) it would take to do all that shit that I don't want to do any of.
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>>35728691
Go /keto/ senpai.

Or just live your life as a nothing, your choice, idk. The first step to fixing yourself is realizing that you're constantly making excuses like "I don't have energy". Bitch, yes you do, shut the fuck up.
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>>35728798
I don't. I have literally sat in bed all day today and have done absolutely nothing because I'm just too tired. My mouth is extremely dry and my head hurts from not drinking water, and I've had to pee for the last 3 hours.
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>>35728860
THEN DRINK SOME FUCKING WATER, YOU ABSOLUTE LEECH
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>>35728885
I can't. I don't have enough energy to walk to the fridge.
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>>35728897
Oh my god, hopefully you die before you burden someone else with your absolute retardation until you die at 50, hopefully.
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>>35728920
Why are you being so hostile on /r9k/ of all boards? Have you never had any experience with /real/ depression?
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>>35728941
I feel like shit right now and I feel like I'm worthless as a person, so yeah, but basic shit like, you know, drinking plenty of water and eating properly isn't hard. And sleeping, too. It's really not a big deal. You're just stupid.
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>>35727815
DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS

Be the person you want to be, not who you are.
Who you are sucks ass and no one will like you if you bee yourself.
Puss in boots and all that shit.
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Literally going through the same thing right now. I'm try to read more and limit internet usage.

I'm a brainlet so bad. I have trouble sound out words.
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>>35728960
>Drinking lots of water and eating properly isn't hard
I agree. There are a lot of things in life that aren't difficult but are highly beneficial. Unfortunately apathy and extreme lethargy don't distinguish between difficult and easy. The fact that you've never experienced these feelings leads me to believe that you've never experienced any sort of real depression, and are a redditor crying depression over spilt milk. This makes all of your advice suspect.
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>>35727750
Find something you truly care about to escape apathy
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>>35727815
Just be yourself
That all you need dude.
Who need charm or social skill.
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>>35729005
Okay

I've never had "depression" per se, but honestly, that's probably because I've seen it ruin people that I've loved, and I won't let it happen to me.

And honestly, when it comes to being mentally ill, I've dealt with it, and there's no kid gloves to have. Either you drink water properly, or you die. It's as simple as that.
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>>35728658
20? too young my man. lose the weight in 2 years. and still have time to do something with your life.
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>>35727750
become seriously religious and the rest will follow.

you won't overeat because that's glutinous
you won't be lazy because that's slothful
you'll have to take care of your body because to abuse it is sinful
and most of all you won't be burdened with existential dread :^)
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>>35729027
>I won't let it happen to me
That's not how it works. You don't choose to be depressed like you choose to be happy instead of content.
>I've never had depression
Then why do you feel that you are qualified in any capacity to give advice to those who do have it? Why would you turn hostile when someone responds poorly to your advice?
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