Hiring an escort to lose your virginity

You've confirmed you're not asexual. That's good. You've confirmed you enjoy hetero sex. That is also good. If you want MORE hetero sex, find a significant other. If that is not possible, find a different escort. For the love of God almighty, DO NOT start seeing this girl on the regular. You WILL catch feelings, and Pretty Woman is a lie. Save yourself the heartache friend.

>>35696279
Yeah, I've heard that it's really easy to get emotionally attached to the first girl you've done it with.

I don't really have the money to spare to keep seeing girls all the time though. It probably won't be until like this summer that I consider it again.

How did you get screened???

>>35696705
Lots of phone calls and e-mails. I worried for a bit that I was actually talking to cops and would be arrested as soon as I stepped foot in the hotel room but luckily that didn't happen.

I', a virgin and would but sex with a condom to me just isn't worth the money.

>>35696776

She didnt ask for bullshit references? Might fuk her also tell detail I wanna fap

Do you feel different now that you've done it? Do you think you are now a step closer to us REEEing you out here? (which would be a good thing for you)

I did. Found out sechs is overated, its repetitive and exhasting. Had to take breaks since she said it was hurting.

Didn't even nut, it was unstimulating.

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>>35696855
the only reason i wanna have sex is to impregnate woman, it is literally the only thing that makes me want to fuck woman, the idea that they will have to carry my child. Lmao

>>35696855
I used to think the same thing but I went through with it. I'm sure that condomless sex is better, but it was still great with.

And the condom only usually goes on before you put your dick in, blowjobs tends to be without.

>>35696926
Not really a lot of detail I can give because it was more of an experience, but sure:

>Met at the hotel, she introduced herself as Nathalia
>Broken English, I think she is probably Russian or something
>Very beautiful
>In the room I pour both of us a small glass of wine that we quickly drink
>"You're virgin, I'll show you a good time"
>We took all our clothes off right there and she led me by the hand to the bed
>Took her time with the blowjob so I couldn't cum too soon
>The next 45 minutes or so was a frenzy of sex (mostly slow), kissing and then orgasms
>Then we took a shower together, then she kissed me again after we got dressed and she left

>>35696981
I feel a lot different, like I'm one step closer to actually being a man. But it's not like it gave any real boost to self-confidence, the fact that I had to pay for it is a bit of a downer.

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Imagine if you became a normie and met a girl OP.

How did you lose your virginity anon?

Either you tell her or your whole relationship, possibly marriage/life is based on a lie.

Tbh I'm very tempted to. I'd want one with big tits and I know I'd last long cause of death grip so I'd have a good time. Just imagining doing a 9/10 qt doggystyle, sucking on her tits, and her sucking my dick gives me a hardon. But honestly I'll probably never be horny enough to do it, unless I'm very secular frustrated.

Anyone have interesting stories about hiring escorts?

>>35697145
It's not like girls tend to divulge their entire sexual history when getting together with guys.

And that's probably not going to happen, but if it does I'll just say that I had a one-night stand with a blonde woman I met that day. Which is technically true.

32 year old virgin here. Considering it, but paranoid about being arrested.

>>35697145
>Implying OP can get girls without paying them

>>35697195
Whats deathgrip?

>>35697251
>Implying any of us can get girls without paying them

>>35697283
>implying we are not here forever

>>35697195
Seeing a girl behind a computer screen and actually being with one in person are two very different things. Once you're naked yourself and see them naked, and especially once you're pressed against them and can feel the skin and heat it shouldn't take very long for your dick to stand at attention. Especially if you're still in your 20's.

>>35697272
I've been jerking my cock since I was 13. By now a pussy won't feel as good as my hand because I use a certain amount of tightness. It'll still feel good though, and I won't cum as quickly, in theory at least.

i lost my virginity at 12 years old when i got raped by my literal senpai.
Not even joking.
What do i do? i cant become a wizard anymore

>>35697318
You won't know until you put it in. A pussy is... not the same as a hand.

And this is coming from someone who masturbated and watched porn almost non-stop for 15 years, followed by a few months of stopping and trying to convince myself I was asexual.

I'm not going to post mine, it's too humiliating to even post it on an anonymous forum.

>>35697444

What's your perception on sex now? Do you feel like sex isn't that hyped anymore? Like are you able to focus on other things instead of just sex noe that you fucked pussy?

>>35697471
iktf, some stories are just too painful to live through by typing them again

>>35697506
The whole weight about having never done it at all is gone now (which is a pretty bad thing to have bugging you), and I can focus a bit better on other things sometimes. But the desire for it is still there, sometimes more than ever before because I've actually done it.

>>35697544
Imo my story is so bad that it may cause other anon's to go through the same thing and I wouldn't want to tarnish someone's experience.

>hiring an escort in America

America is such a cancerous shithole for prostitutes. You got lucky, OP, but even then you had to go through a ridiculous length of red tape just to bust a nut.

You'd be better off going to Europe, where they od things right. In England, there's a website that not only lists all the girls in your area, but also a concrete price list, pictures, reviews and sexual acts they're willing to perform. It also requires them to confirm their identities upon signing up. I couldn't believe what a massive step down America was in terms of the quality of the girls, reputability and ease of access.

>>35696167
Pic related? Cuz I absolutely love those fake tits.

>>35697627

We have that here in the states too you dumb britbong.

>>35697627
IMO America is as fundamentalist as Iran. By having a fundamentalist grip over the legal system it makes it far more dangerous for everyone involved. You got your head 8 miles up your ass if you think you'll stop the oldest profession in the world (most fundamentalist christians do).

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>>35697630
>mfw I like fake tits more than real tits

my go to girl has ruined me

in more ways than one, seriously, she is a fucking tiger in the sack, it's like I'm being devoured

>>35697630
Pic is the actual girl I got.

>>35697627
Canada actually, but yeah, it was annoying plus I never knew for sure if I was being set up. Stings are fairly common and I know I got lucky.

Europe seems nice because it's legal and for the most part safe, in places like FKK clubs and other brothels, but the expenses just to get there are pretty off-putting.

>>35697675
Your version is shitty. You wouldn't understand, mate, you have no idea what it's like to have a system that functions how it's supposed to.

>>35697701
Canada its not iilegal to solicit or be an escort privately. The only stings I've heard of is on public brothels.

>>35696167
So is that the body that actually showed up to your place?

>>35697714

>Tnaboard
>Eccie
>The Erotic review

>>35697748
Yes. Actually her, not someone in their 40's who looks nothing like the pic (something I also feared might happen but didn't).

>>35697752
All far less convenient and streamlined. Check out AdultWork.com to see what a good escort site looks like.

>>35696279
He still needs to confirm if he would be better off having sex with a trap he has not tried this yet.

>>35696167
Your next encounter should be with a trap, if you dont want to pay try Grindr for a quick suck and fuck anon

>>35697740
It *is* illegal, the law here is fucked up and sums down to "It's legal to sell sex but illegal to buy".

They really should just make it legal like they're about to make weed.

>>35697824
I've never heard about people getting arrested for soliciting prostitutes privately. The police don't do stings on this like they do in the states.

I'd love to get an escort but years of jerking has meant they need to look a certain way for me to want them.

I tried doing it but couldn't get it up. It gave me perspective though. And actually sucking tits and necks felt good, at least now I know how that is.

>>35696279
It's only a lie for ugly guys. Butterfaces usually end up with the escorts.
>>35697093
Without chads looks or money you do realize this is all a dream right.
>>35697143
>broken English and a russian
You do realize she was probably a sex slave right? If they aren't white they usually are. Have you seen eastern promises op.
Thanks for being part of the problem you virgin fuck.
>>35697320
Rape isnt consensual. Therefore it doesn't count. And in theory your a virgin still.
Unless part of you wanted it.
>>35697544
Then why are you here wasting a post faggot.
If your humiliated go to reddit and write a essay on how your feelings hurt

>>35696167
>reverse image search OP pic
>find a profile
>"No black gents"

well shit

>>35697883
I'm glad I'm not the only one tbqhwymf let's get together sometime and touch limp dicks

>>35697936
Just say you're indian or muslim.

How to tell the fake ads from the real ones?

>>35697936
That's another thing about Europe - less of this shit.

>>35697883
Bad escort then. Good streetworker should know how to deal with your stagefright because you're desentisized by porn.

Had to go through 3 escorts before finding a good one. After the history of failures, i was outright open about my V and and limp dick. Promise to pay bonus above her rate if everything goes as planned.

>>35698029
Plenty of review sites. Choose only well reviewed whores.

>>35696167
what website did u use to find her op

>>35698041
How do they deal with it? I'm thinking of popping some viagra prior to meeting another one, practicing some meditation
and going no porn for a month and no fap for a week prior.

>>35698011
I'd actually do that if we could drink after, talk shit and play videogames. I need a friend who won't judge me.

>>35698132
Not OP but the first site that comes up after reverse google searching the image is a Toronto escorts site, probably that

>tfw too self conscious and low self esteem to be intimate with another person
I'd probably be too embarrassed to even touch the girl if I ever hired an escort.

I did it. I have severe social anxiety and I think it made me numb because I hardly felt anything during bj or when I was fucking her. I feared was suffering from massive death grip, but when I went to jerk it while she was touching me I couldn't feel anything either.

It was interesting to touch and put my mouth on a woman, but without any stimulation from my dick was kind of awkward in the end. The whore was nice though. I keep thinking I should try again to see if I would be more relaxed.

>>35698151
Viagra may help if the problem is not purely psychological. As for what she does, its mostly attitude - if she can fake she enthusiastically "wants" the dick, it does wonders (this is what porn does to you). Most whores assume you'll be dominant, which will simply not happen with betamax V like me, at least not at first.

Noporn is not necessary. Keep watching porn, but let go of unrealistic hardcore. There's porn for grills. It's boring, but more in tune with what happens in the real life. Try fapping to that for few months.

Nofap for a week prior to escort is waste of money. You can easily the cum with limp dick the moment she touches it - when you're blue balled like that. Obviously not a nice experience.

>>35698332
Escorts are better than actual women. They'll sense you're nervous and a good one will put you at ease and cater to that.

>>35698346
If its pyschological would viagra be a waste? I've never tried it, I have a source though.

OP here (back, I was away for a bit).

I feel sorry for guys who end up having problems getting and staying hard, and why it happens to some and not to others.

In my experience, I was pretty hard while we were drinking the wine and small-talking (and thinking what we were about to do also helped) and then absolutely horny as soon as Nathalia and I took our clothes off. She got really close, to the point where my dick was poking her just below her belly button, and grabbed my shaft with her right hand and said that I was "very hard". Then she led me by hand to the bed.

No way I was not going to stay horny after that and see things through to the end.

>>35698447
Viagra will force it, but it will suck. There's usually good reason brain doesn't want to get it up, well described in >>35698334

You won't feel anything. And you'll most certainly not cum.

>>35698593
So viagra doesn't make you horny, it just makes your dick hard? Seems counter intuitive.

>>35698334

Are you a cutfag?

Orig ofc

>>35697615
please post. I want discouragement to save me the money

>>35698684
Yes. Viagra works pretty much like morning wood. Dick is hard just like that without no prior arousal.

>Seems counter intuitive.
Of course it's easy to switch into the mood if there's no anxiety involved, at which point the experience becomes pleasurable.

>>35698699
no. I'm sure it was just anxiety, things felt normal when I jerked off alone a few days later.

>>35698767
>be me
>decide enough is enough and decide to get a hooker
>she's cute and thicc in the right places
>on the day enough start getting massive paranoia about not being to get hard
>have to drive 2+ hours to the hotel
>almost back out minutes before but get the courage to meet her
>show up, she's even more beautiful than in her pictures
>she starts kissing me and taking off clothes
>still can't get hard
>she takes off her clothes and reveals the most perfect tits
>still can't get hard
>she starts playing with my cock it is totally limp
>decide that I will eat her out for some
reason
>she has a really nice pussy that actually tasted nice (just a little salty)
>spend a good 40 minutes eating her cunt despite knowing how risky this is
>she tries to play with my cock again
>nothing
>she eventually wraps it up and forces me out
>drop my money on the counter along with my parking ticket and some spaghetti
>get the fuck out with a bright red face
>embarrassed and ashamed

>>35698941
and your mouth didnt explode? did u get tested son

>>35697195
Death grip actually hurts your stamina. You won't cum but it'll be difficult to stay hard.

If you don't want to go limp, start jacking off LIGHTLY now.

>>35698984
It's been a week and no sores or anything. I figure I'm in the clear. Honestly I need to get my fucking head examined doing something so risky.

>>35698941
awww. Thanks for sharing.

>>35699001
get tested anyways. its cheap and basically everyone at the clinic is like "dis nigga got laid lol"

>>35698941
Obviously she was incompetent. Had quite similiar shitfest with my first hooker.

The way to do it: Talk, lapdance, dryhump to create the atmosphere she "wants" you. If you're not rock hard at that point, say sorry and pack it up. Licking minge and thinking this will make you hard is retarded, maxes you only bored and even more anxious.

>>35696167
I did
Since it was my first time, she did it for free
Good time

>>35698941
I would never lick a hooker's pussy no matter how good they look. I think Nathalia implied that I could if I wanted to though, but I never brought it up either way.

She did suck my cock without a condom though, and we kissed before and after that and very often during the sex. So there's some risk there, but not nearly as much as licking. That's something I won't risk doing, and I can't understand how so many accounts I read have guys who do that to strippers or hookers at FKK clubs.

I rinsed my mouth and lips with mouthwash for like five minutes after she left though, more to help prevent colds or sore throats than anything else.

>>35699141
>I can't understand how so many accounts I read have guys who do that to strippers or hookers at FKK clubs.

It's sort of a meme already (at least on that one german imageboard with 'i got a hooker' threads).

Betas gonna bet. The problem is that it's mostly waste of time - unless she's a nympho, or you genuinely hot, she most likely fakes through the whole session regardless of what you do. At best she doesn't feel anything, at worst she's slightly revulsed.

I'm thinking of doing this. Probably just going to go to a hooker at a brothel or something, escort seems expensive. Probably won't be as nice, but whatever.

I'd like to fugg a qt escort but paranoid about getting sexual diseases

>>35699798
Tbh you're as likely getting a disease from a girl you meet at a club. A hooker getting a vd could be a career ender.

>>35699840
Yeah, one night stands are practically the same as fucking a whore, as usually they want you to buy them a drink first so you are basically paying for the sex

>>35699798
You're more likely to get an STD from a normal girl who fucks Chads on the reg while drunk than you are to get one from an escort who regularly gets check-ups to ensure she can still make money.