Who /transgirl/ here? I wanna transition, but my family would

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>>35687713
>Who /transgirl/ here?
>I wanna transition, but my family would probably disown me. I'm not even out yet.
>The dysphoria is killing me.

There's no reason to tell your parents. You are old enough to schedule doctor's visits and get pills yourself

The sooner you do it the better it'll be for you

or just self medicate, qhi has cheap pills

No. The lack of attention and validation is what is killing you, and the only way you can find yourself receiving that is by becoming a girl, because you see how girls receive attention and validation for literally no other reason than existing.

Being a tranny isn't the same as being a girl, so your plan will fail and you'll likely kill yourself once you fuck up your body and realize this

>>35687713
Just do it.
Unless your family regularly jerks you off, how will they know your Dick is missing?

>>35687713
>The dysphoria is killing me

I really don't believe you. You were a depressed robot beforehand and then you simply attributed it to dysphoria when you decided you wanted to transition later. It's simply not the case that you somehow intuitively know what's best for you or what you Really Are On The Inside.

You won't believe me but this is coming from a tranny myself. Dysphoria is basically a myth really, and I'm not even an AGP.

I'd recommend going to a psychoanalyst (try to find a good one with tonnes of experience even if it costs a lot), to help you work out these feelings, because this is tricky ground and plenty trannies are either psychopaths and perverts already or become unhinged as they transition, isolating themselves even more, becoming paranoid, becoming vulnerable.

Sorry if this sounds like I'm hating but it comes as advice from a similar person and I'm not going to feel obliged to be polite on 4chan of all places.

>>35687713
I have to agree with the tranny op, I'm not convinced that dysphoria is a thing

If you want to transition I think you should. If you think you will feel happier if you transitioned I think it would be a good thing for you to do.

But the whole feeling like a girl thing, that's kinda bullshit. Do you feel like a man now? No. You just are.

>Meet nice transgirl
>Her dick is bigger than mine

>>35688134
This, nobody actually feels like a man or a woman, it's just a kind of unsaid code. Despite gender being kind of nonsensical from a rational point of view it means everything sexually and socially.

Nobody visiting r9k even passes. So why not just kys failed trans?

>>35687713
just become mine

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>>35687713
>I wanna transition, but my family would probably disown me. I'm not even out yet.

so you want to attach a penis in place of your vajayjay.

because you think that this is the only way to validate your life.

and they want to disown you because they don't want to pay for the Penile Attachment expenses.

Can't believe a faggot claiming to be a "transgirl" is here instead of tumblreddit and /b/.

>>35687713
Arent you just a guy still?

>>35688183
>unsaid code
nope, its masculinity and femininity

>>35688281
Yes but these are just two sides of something nobody really understands

>>35687713
i wish there were programs where young men take in transgirls and nurture them

>>35688395
i'm right here dummy. save me

>>35687713
just kill yourself you ugly gay

do you really wanna be like this freak?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1hIAQrWjGgM

If you're 18 and already have feminine features and aren't over 5'8" I am willing to pay for your HRT and also cute clothes and feminine products for you. In return every day you will spend at least 1 hour on cam doing what I tell you.

>>35688475
h-hey that's me! I'll love you

>>35688442
oh baby
you're just a floating anime avatar right

>>35688491
No! I'm a real person who needs somebody to love me.

>>35688475
Why don't you just buy shit for a fembot instead of wasting your time with a man?

>>35688513
>fembot
no such thing you braind ead rosatie

>>35687713
Iktf anon i want to transition too I hate my body

>>35688512
How can I love you if you don't even love yourself?

>>35688490
post throwaway or something

>>35688513
I have a feminization fetish. Watching in real-time the effects of HRT is exciting to me.

>>35688134
>, I'm not convinced that dysphoria is a thing

lol fuck off

>trans"girl"
>using the child name for the sex you want to be
I'd love to see research into the link between autogynephilia and age regression fetish/pedo tendencies.

>>35688628
kill yourself you gross faggot no one will ever like YOU they might have a fetish for your body but that's it faggot

>>35688512
Be my trans gf and let's be lewd.

>>35687713
you should refer to yourself as a transgender person. no trans girl. you are a dude that believes is a female.

you should specify what your mental disorder is, like "i'm a transperson (male pretending to be female)"

things would be so much easier and clearer for the rest of us.

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>>35688659
>Suffer from dysphoria
>extremely mentally ill
>suicidal
>little to no cures except suicide
> <2% of the population

why do you make fun of extremely suicidal and mentally ill people? what's the point.

>>35688707
>>suicidal
good fucking do it then you gross fag

>>35688727
>bullying suicidal people

fuck off normie scum

>>35688029
if you're a tranny and don't have dysphoria you're not a tranny. that makes no sense at all. stop giving retarded advice, uggo.

t. a real tranny with gender dysphoria

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There is a place to help you

>>35687713
you're mentally ill

origami

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Seriously, fucking stop these threads. I just want to work and drink myself to death. I will not pass if I transition. Just let me work and drink like the pioneers it's the only thing that helps.

what is it with transgirls and love live?
Nico specifically, too

You don't see transgirls watching VOTOMS or Mazinger

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>>35688231
That's not what a transgirl is you fucking doofus

>>35688671
o-ok how do we do that?

>>35688553
Yeah you're right... sorry

>>35688970
They have a fetish for being the little girl. It's escapism. If only they could be as cute as a girl, everything would magically be so much better and everyone would love them.

Escapism and narcissism.

And it gives em boners.

>>35687713
>trans
>girl
pick one, histrionic faggot

>>35688789
>liking actual fags
why do you think they go to the gay side? because they are to chicken to deal with no girl wants them so they go gay

>trans*
>2017

I'm tired of this meme

>>35689010
you'll learn to accept yourself with tender love and care

So correct the dysphoria with drugs. It's like having a headache and thinking the solution is cutting off your penis.

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>>35687713
I wanna be a cute girl too.
Science isn't there yet. You are just destroying yourself with the means we have today.
Sorry, you were not born In the right time for swapping genders.
The pills and knives won't make you a girl, I'm so sorry.

>>35689208
>It's like having a headache and thinking the solution is cutting off your penis.
except not at all

>>35689208
do you mean hormones or antipsychotics?

if hormones:
>OP never mentioned wanting to cut her dick off, her family would still find out she was on estrogen and kick her out

if antipsychotics:
>they don't work, I'm trans and schizophrenic and have been on high doses of antipsychotics since I was 16 and at times it made the dysphoria worse ( a side effect of one of the drugs was lactation). from this I conclude that it is not a delusion, but something else.

A BULLET in the HEAD of every DISGUSTING transsexual FREAK

>>35687713

This is what anime does to your brain.

You become so obsessed with 2D perfection that eventually you want to BECOME a waifu.

Kill your local anime nigger.

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anime is a disease that injects gender dysphoria into depressed males

almost any mtf person has watched anime and it is the reason why japs are so suicidal

just try and prove me wrong

>>35689285
wrong thread serg.

>>35689310
>>35689317
all me

desu senpai senpai

>>35689319
kill yourself gross faggot

>>35689271
I mean like heroine or cocaine or electrocution. If she did enough cocaine it would set her straight.

>>35689390
No it wouldn't.

A coked up tranny whore is worse than a virginal tranny who watches anime in her room all day.

>>35689457
Well plan B then. Electrocution.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Electroconvulsive_therapy

>>35689317
Is there a word for dysphoria where you identify as your biological gender but don't feel like you embody it at all? Like, I identify as a man but feel like people see me as a little boy or effeminate even though it turns out they don't. I lift because I feel small and childish and weak but nobody describes me that way, even behind my back

>>35689582
yes, I think that still counts as gender dysphoria, just manifesting in an atypical way.
or maybe it's more typical but people don't recognize it as gender dysphoria because they don't want to change their sex.

>>35687713
>Transition

Don't do it. I have two trans friends. One became a 9/10 girl, really passable.

Both are suicidal and depressed af.

Transitioning won't make you happy.

>>35687758
This desu.

Also I'd like to mention that the people telling you to "transition" are more than likely doing it solely for selfish and sexual reasons.

No one actually thinks trannies are real girls, there just happen to be a lot of guys who are into trans "girls" as a fetish.

Hell, I'm straight (don't want to date guys, not attracted to them, etc), and even I get turned on by trannies because there is something deeply wrong and taboo about a man destroying his body for sexual deviancy.

>>35688158
>not wanting to be emasculated in the ultimate way by your gf
What are you, gay?

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I sincerely believe that, while individuals who experience gender-related body dysmorphia do exist, the vast majority of trans individuals today are just fadsters who at best are simply insecure about themselves and their role in society and at worst are deeply misogynistic individuals who think of females as sex objects and are bent on destroying womyn-safe spaces. Fite me bro

>>35689969
>womyn

I love radfems, they have not one fucking idea about how gender works.

>>35689717
Is there any way out of this meme? Therapy doesn't do shit

tfw 6'2 but identify as the boy in /ss/ doujins [/spoilers]

>>35690023
> tfw 6'2 but identify as the boy in /ss/ doujins
post links

>>35689994
>strawmen
>2017
On the contrary, "radfems" understand how gender and sex really work while trans activists don't. Why else do you think they can't agree on anything at all?

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>>35690023
6ft myself my man, work and alcohol do me well. Gonna move to the country and live like the pioneers. It's the only way.

>>35690081
Shoot. Neither of those are really a good option for me. Guess I'm always going to be sexually repressed

Saying dysphoria doesn't exist is comparable to normalfags saying depression and anxiety doesn't exist. Anons get pissed off when normalfags expect them to be themselves or man up yet they turn around and do the same thing to others.

>>35690063
>trans activists

you're such an empowered wombyn that you have to use radfem/terf buzzwords to argue with me.

I'm not a fucking mongoloid, I know radfems think gender doesn't exist and what we think of as gender is actually just gender roles.

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>>35690127
I'm sorry anon, I really feel for you. Nothing else eases the mind like a 12 hour shift, 2 hours of drinking and 8 hours of sleep. Only leaves 2 hours during my commute where I debate crashing my car into a tree. Moving to the country and working 18 hours should fix that.

Have you tried working out or channeling your stuff into something creative?

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>>35687713
>he fell for the transition meme
Kek. Fucking kys.

>>35690232
The point is that your "gender" is not something inherent to your personality and independent of your outside self; in fact it's determined by the way society treats you. You can't just declare yourself a girl and have people start treating you like one, and even if you pass you still have decades of training in one type of gender-oriented behavior. What is so controversial about this claim?

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>>35687713
>>35687755
>>35687890
>>35688134
>>35688158
>>35688183
>>35688395
>>35688475
>>35688490
>>35688555
>>35688707
>>35688789
>>35688830


To gulag tranny scum.

Hopefully you're a part of the 41%

>>35690267
Yeah I already do work out because I want to be a man instead of a little boy but I hate it because I have to face my own pathetic weakness. It's even worse at the gym where I have to see real men.

I am not creative at all. I have tried. No pleasure in it.

>>35690397
Wrong. Gender = sex.

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>>35690555
>Gender = sex
What on earth does this even mean?

>>35690617
Gender is a synonym for biological sex.

>>35690617

That your gender is bound to the fact whether you are born male of female.

Fucking trannytards man.

>>35690555
Are you saying that one's biological sex is the same thing as the way people perceive them? Because you would be surprised at how many "women" out on the street actually have male parts, and vice versa. Also what about hermaphrodite/intersex individuals?

>>35690651
>>35690650
Gender is about the way society perceives you. This is often correlated closely with sex but not always. Which is why people are so hostile to men who try to act and look like women - they aren't following gender norms.

>>35690658
I'm saying that gender means XX/XY. Social perception is just that, social perception. Hermaphrodites can be disregarded, as you would with any other outlier. The exception doesn't make the rule.

>>35690692
>Gender is about the way society perceives you.
Wrong. Gender is the informal term for biological sex. Cultural marxists have tried to redefine it recently, but it's best to ignore them.

>>35690397
Your gender isn't how people treat you, it exists outside of other people. It's a self identifier. What are you talking about training? You have to pass for safety, not all transactions people care about passing, they just care about living their lives and receiving basic respect. You are so delusional that you think there's a sinister cabal of men in dresses trying to infiltrate women's spaces.

>>35690692

"Gender norms are dictated by society". You tranny fags really are retarded. Gender norms are dictated by nature and people hating trans people is also natural, because they don't see a man pretending to be a woman as a threat therefore acting hostile to them.

>>35690744
Most peopledon't think of themselves as a particular gender in their own heads, they're just who they are. Which is why so many MtFs act like complete Barbie sluts - they believe that deep down, all women are just mindlessly obsessed with sex and being degraded.

People aren't born with "men's brains" or "women's brains". If that were the case then it would be completely justified to bar women from jobs and social roles that are traditionally male because "they just don't have the constitution for it".

This thread belongs on /LGBT/ not /r9k/.... I really don't get why a straight up trans thread is posted here, if you tied it in with robots in the OP it would at least make a little sense

>>35690784
Different societies have always had different gender norms. Some have a third gender such as the hijra in India, which are an ancient group of transgender women. They assist biological women in childbirth.

>>35690863
>People aren't born with "men's brains" or "women's brains".
They are.

>If that were the case then it would be completely justified to bar women from jobs and social roles that are traditionally male because "they just don't have the constitution for it".
It is.

>>35690863
They don't act like cheap barbie sluts lmao, you're thinking of drag queens which aren't transgender.
Also a woman can't be flamboyant? What the fuck, if Paris Hilton can be a dumb barbie slutwear so can a transgender girl if that's her personality. Being transgender isn't a sex thing, either contrary to radfem belief.
I'm not saying at all that there are 2 kinds of brains, don't play retarded.

>>35688555
Are there any videos showing the effects of female hormones on males?
I don't even really have a fetish in it, I'm just really curious about what happens over time.

>>35689010
You post your location and possible contact. And we see if we can have a happy lewd future together.

>>35690942
>I'm not saying at all that there are 2 kinds of brains, don't play retarded.
Then what exactly is it about then? Your point is that a "man in a woman's body" has a woman's brain, isn't it?

>>35690942
>I'm not saying at all that there are 2 kinds of brains, don't play retarded.
You're retarded then, because there are two kinds of brains.

>>35690983
Typo
man's brain*

>>35690983
Um, no? That's what we tell cis people because they're too thick to comprehend why genitals and gender are different.
I hope you didn't base your whole argument on that ''wrong body'' shit

>>35691029
Please explain how a person can be born transgender, if gender is socially constructed.

>>35691029
>That's what we tell cis people because they're too thick to comprehend why genitals and gender are different
ok so what's the real story here champ

>>35691048
Gender doesn't have anything to do with other people. Already said this.

>>35691075
The real story is that your gender is a facet of your identity. You shouldn't reduce people to their genitals and societal expectations because their wee wee doesn't match who you think they should be. For me, I have gender dysphoria, meaning I am trying to live my life and my body keeps betraying me because cis people don't perceive me as my actual gender which is demoralizing. So as long as this keeps happening, hormones and surgery will continue to be a thing because we're sick of being deciphered wrong because of your body. I'm also biracial so I'll compare it to that.
When people look at me, they only see a mutt or a single race. My race doesn't change who I am as a person, but it is an important part of my id3ntity that outsiders get wrong. It's essentially unintentional erasure.

>>35691221
>My race doesn't change who I am as a person
It sure as fuck does.

>>35691296
shut up whitey

>>35691221
Define a "woman" for me. If gender isn't in the brain, and isn't based on society, then it's just made up. Thus, you can't be transgender because "gender doesn't real"

>>35691324
>There's nothing mediating between the brain and society

>What is psychology

>>35691324
I just said it's in your brain please read.
A woman is a person who considers themselves a woman.

>>35691337
So you're admitting that your "transgenderism" is just delusion/psychosis?

>>35691029

>My genitals do not define my gender!

My lack of hair does not define my baldness

>>35691221
I don't understand what it means to "identify as" a man or a woman at all. I'm not a gender in my head, I'm just me. I'm masculine in some things I do and feminine in other ways. I guess you could write this off as "cis person gonna cis" but I simply don't have a gender identity in my head at all.

>For me, I have gender dysphoria, meaning I am trying to live my life and my body keeps betraying me because cis people don't perceive me as my actual gender which is demoralizing

What are some typical examples of this happening to you? Do people call you "sir" when you want them to call you "miss"? Do men keep hitting on you at parties when you feel like you should be hitting on women?

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Why is being transgender OK but not transracial? Serious question here.

>>35689936
You're not straight my man.

>>35691467
Genders have real differences in how the mind works, races do not.

>>35691563
>races do not.
Retard spotted

>>35691446
I'll try to tell you more, I'm not gonna dismiss you for asking questions.
If you were a woman whom everybody referred to as a man, at first it might be whatever. After a while you get nagging thoughts like ''it must be because I'm ugly or too butch'' so you try to change yourself to fit in. A cis person may have never ever had to think about their gender identity at all so it never registered to them that it was there.

I get called 'she' a lot, which reminds me my feelings are invalid, my mom calls me her daughter which makes me feel again invalidated, I go to clothing stores and feel like I'm invading women's space in the ladies change room because I am not one, etc.

>>35691433
I'm on antipsychotics and they do nothing, if it was a delusion it would have stopped like my other delusions.

Gender dysphoria is not a thing kek

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>>35691563
>races do not

>>35691467
Race is a family thing. Trans racial is ok only in adopted kids.

>>35691221
I am in a strange situation. Basically I am supposed to dress and try to look like a women in order to profe that I am a tranny.
The thing is I am a manly man...with a bears and naturally alot of muscle.
Did you have this aswell? would you have rather gone out as a total freak, obvious guy in female clothes or waited till hrt did some effect?
I want to be a women... but I don't want to be a freak. This just feels degrading and wrong, I don't want to look like a freak but a women.
not op btw.

>>35691221
>I have gender dysphoria
>I am trying to live my life and my body keeps betraying me because cis people don't perceive me as my actual gender which is demoralizing.
Wait, that's it? You're just... unhappy with how people treat you?
I've never experienced it myself, but I've read some pretty flowery descriptions of people feeling, on a deep and visceral level, that their body is wrong somehow. There was a particularly good one in The Man Who Mistook His Wife For A Hat, of a man who woke up in a hospital bed, utterly convinced that someone had stolen his left leg while he was asleep and replaced it with a fake. That's dysphoria.
Like, no offense, I'm sure your psychological problems are just as bad as everyone else's here, but your description has them sounding really lacklustre.

>>35691665
It's 100% up to your discretion but understand that people will have different reactions ad may lash out at you violently. So do what's right for you but err on the side of caution.

>>35691613
You're not a doctor

>>35691597
>>35691614
He's not...exactly wrong? but he's pretty much wrong. Different races think differently, they're on different levels mentally and culturally. But all human brains work roughly the same unless they're broken.

>>35691387
That makes "woman" a useless term.

>>35691704
I don't want to talk to a cis person about how I feel about my body tbqfh but it can be flowery and it can be simple. The thing is that I feel like I am made to be ashamed of my body because how people treat me. It feels like getting punched. because of this, I am ashamed of my body. I feel that it does not accurately represent me to the world, I feel suicidal over parts of it.
sorry if I underwhelmed you. hope you understand.

>>35691712
You're not a woman

not original kek

>>35691708
Well the thing is, it seems that they wont consider me trans unless I do this on my own accord...

This is just lunacy. tbqh, which average male could ever simply start looking like a women.
I have fucking beard shadow all the time.

>>35691805
if you're willing to put in the work, I can tell you how to fix beard shadow

Idk what I want to be. I've been thinking about becoming a femboy but that seems like a lot of work from where I'm at now.

I'm 5'4 and have a 5 inch benis. I will never be able to please a woman and thus I want to become a femboy.

Plus it just feels right. I was feminine as a child and I liked being that way. I want to go back to the good days.

>>35691796
lol you sound like a raging tumblr faggot
please fuck off and die you freak
youll never be a girl

>>35691897
But you have a feminine penor?

>>35691852
Well, that would still not fix all the muscle I have or the wrong fat distribution.
I heard you apply some red lipstick or something?
btw I am a bit drunk

>>35691909
shut the fuck up I'm not even a girl you fucking mong.
I was speaking in nice, sjw terms for the radfem.

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>>35691387
>defining a word in terms of itself

>>35691928
yeah, you put red or orange lipstick everywhere there's stubble, then you put concealer over it, then you put foundation over it. it's a lot of makeup for every day but if you're going somewhere and want to feel pretty I recommend it.

>>35691897
>lot of work from where I'm at now.
Where are you at now? Do you look like a man or do you have some feminine features except your cock?

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>>35691976
I'm just a fat lazy neckbeard slob right now. Pic related is what I used to look like. I've been trying to eat less and it's working out so far. I've also been walking a bit.

>>35692038
sorry for the sideways pic

im a retard

>>35691973
Thanks, I have no idea of how make up works or what this stuff with the brushes is and stuff.
i will talk to more psychatrists and psychologists...hopefully will get some hrt otherwise once my univesity is done I am aswell.

>>35692068
it's a learning curve. it's easier if you have artistic interests because it's essentially painting your face to look like an idealized version of you.

ok have a good day anon

>>35690483
That joke is too good to belong on this imageboard

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I just want to be a pretty girl tbqh.

>>35687713
I'm a few months in and estrogen has really improved my mode, that and breast development is going good so far

>>35691796
>I don't want to talk to a cis person about how I feel about my body tbqfh
>tbqfh
The shame you feel is entirely deserved. Just, it's not your body that's flawed. It's all of you. Your SOUL, if you will.

>>35692305
Be my trans gf! I'd be a good bf

>>35692365
I already have a gf, sorry I don't like guys

>>35692364
I'm actually one of the only decent and kind people on this site.

>>35692135
Don't hope that I am ogne allready, anonness!
How do you concil your male body shape tbqh?
I guess clothing is the only thing you can do. But undoing beard shadow wn't fix the face.
Guess tranny bangs + something that is wider at the hips?

>>35692282
You could I'm guessing from the pic. Potential is there for a very cute grill. Do you plan to go on HRT?

>>35692406
I don't know anon. My psych thinks I should consider it - but I'm just scared of bein more of a weirdo than i already am.

>>35692436
Apart from your round face do you already have feminine features? Like curves or little bodyhair? How tall are you?

Did you post in the lgbt pre-HRT threads where people judge if you could pass?

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could I oregano pass?

>>35692455
I dont know, some? I'm told my butt is kinda big, my waist is thin and my thighs are kinda wide. I've got relatively little body hair for someone in my family but it's still definitely there. I'm 5'4". and no, i haven't

>>35692403
yeah, bangs are a pretty unambiguous hairstyle that you should go for.
an outfit that would be good for a rectangular body shape would be a dress with a 50s style skirt and a belted waist, then wear a cardigan over it and wear flat shoes so you're not towering over anybody.
just avoid puffed sleeves and tank tops, high heels (unless you're short), middle parted long hair (makes jaw look wider),and shift dresses and caftans (shapeless). you want structured outfits that accentuate your waist and draw attention away from your shoulders.

>>35692507
>5'4".
that's a really good start you know, try asking around >>>/lgbt/
sooner is always better then later when it comes to hrt, I've found it has greatly improved my mood. you can even diy it if you want to

>>35692485
pixie cut lesbian actually can work if you're trans but you really have to wear lipstick and necklaces with it. short hair, no makeup and pants can make you look like a boy.

>>35692395
>decent
>kind
>on this site
What happened?

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>>35692507
You could be a cute girl I'm judging. 5'4 is very cute and if you were my gf I'd be very lewd with you

>>35692567
I c-can't help it
I've been on here since I was 16 and I'm 22 now, maybe I'm a bad influence?

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how do i find someone to date me?

my gf dumped me because im mentally ill and idk if ill want to date a girl again, but gay guys hate that i want to be a girl?

i just feel so alone all the time. i'd do anything for someone to love me...

>>35692736
Meeting people in real life is too hard. I also want a boyfriend

>>35692772
W E W L A D

Who are you anon, what do you like.

>>35692736
go full transbian, it's the only thing that works

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>>35687713
hi op

how old are you? i came out to my family when i was 16 ish and started HRT by 17 and now I pass, not sure what your case is but i'm guessing you're older

in my opinion transitioning is pretty impossible after 25 and you'll need at least ffs unless you have godlike genetics and already look cute and girly

my family didn't take it so well either i got disowned by quite a lot of them, i'd hope that it goes well for you though if you decide to come out.

>>35692772
i met this person in my city from a similar board, but he was gay and only liked me as a guy... and i was too afraid to tell him about being trans because he hated people like that.

>>35692820
i tried, but i dont like using my penis, and my ex gf despised the fact that i wasn't dominant.

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>>35692772
>>35692931
I'd be your boyfriend and let you be your submissive self.
But then I read that you had a gf and aren't a virgin anymore and I'm sorry but D R O P P E D

>>35692931
A lot of us are like that, you just need to find someone who understands your issues with it

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>>35692905
Are you looking for an original boyfriend?

>>35692736
i mean i'm not a super manly guy but i'd have no problem dating a trap or a trans

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>>35692977
i came here to help op !

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>>35693021
Yes but.. are you looking?

>>35692963
I don't have a gf, I've never been in a relationship with anyone or had any sex or held hands

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>>35693094
Sorry anon I thought you were both the posts I linked to.

how do I make it up to you

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>>35693079
i-i have an e-bf, sorry anon

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>>35693136
WHY does everyone get e-gfs and e-bfs but me.
Is it because I'm in Europe. Fuck this continent shithole get me out.

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>>35692963
i am a virgin though. our relationship was basically just online, and she never wanted to meet me.

nobody has ever even kissed me, you jerk.

>>35693135
tell me the secret to finding a real life boyfriend who doesn't mind that I'm trans
hard mode: no gay hookup dating apps

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>>35693161
my e-bf is in europe, i was too but moved to study elsewhere

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>>35693173
An online relation is still a relation. It's for my own sake anon. I don't hate you much. But I'd feel I'd get compared all the time or never be the first to do things with you and I would sabotage it eventually.

I just want a gf who did nothing with any guy before me. I'm too shitty.

>>35693179
F-find me? I'm probably too insecure for you though.

>>35693239
holy shit your autistic

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>>35693265
Welcome to r9k I'm an actual robot and not a dormant normie like many of the people here.

>>35693239
>But I'd feel I'd get compared all the time or never be the first to do things with you and I would sabotage it eventually.

that was my problem and why i messed everything up.

oh well, you probably wouldn't have liked me anyways. im too clingy.

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>>35693295
I like other clingy people. I'd probably be more clingy than you hence why I don't like you having an 'ex'. I can atleast recognize it and don't want to ruin a relation for any other well-meaning people due to my shit.

>>35691796
So tell me this: Why should society listen to your idiotic rambling and take it seriously, instead of just doing the sane thing and locking you in an asylum?

>>35692547
I've asked around a bit but I dunno. I'm equal parts disgusted with how my body is changing as i grow older and terrified of actually doing anything to stop it.
>>35692605
h-how lewd?

>>35693239
>F-find me? I'm probably too insecure for you though
I dunno. Unless you live in new jersey I don't think it's happening. I'm just a bitchy tranny anyway

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>>35693347
That depends if you're submissive or dominant anon and how much
I have very few limits on how far I take things so it's up to you.

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>>35693393
Sorry anon I'm way over in the EU. I hate how all the transgirls are in the US. Transitioning apparently hasn't caught on yet here.

transwoman here, @op JUST DO IT you pussy

I really hate faggots

>>35693451
I'm usually really dominant, but it depends on my partner!

Any transgirls looking for a guy? I'm a 28 year old cyborg. I work from home as an investor and own a business. I do a lot of cocaine. Huge nihilist. I want an mtf as a pet.
Must be white, tall, thin, and a US citizen. Bonus point for being eager to serve/willing to be arm candy when I need to go places.

>>35693653
the cocaine thing is a deal breaker. drugs are scary desu. I could never date anyone who did any

How do I trick a person into giving me a female haircut?
Also is there any website or something that explains what collors go togehter?
fuck /fa/

>>35693653
huh, i didn't know people liked tall transgirls. 4chan always told me otherwise. that makes me feel a little better about myself.

you sound like an older version of me, heh. although i prefer other stimulants.

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>>35693536
I'm really dominant all the time. Seems like we aren't compatible anon I'm sorry :(

>>35694259
Taller is always better. I love long legs.
Which stimulants? I'm curious.

>>35694662
>Taller is always better. I love long legs.
and what if those tall legs come with big feet? what about the fact that tall transgirls can't really pull off heels as well?

>Which stimulants? I'm curious.
adderall is a fun one. i like analogues though.

>>35694732
Then you'd be my tall gf in normal shoes.
>big feet
I wanna do nasty things to those feet

>>35695042
oh wellll, too bad im not white ;^)

>>35695203
When did I say I only liked white girls? I don't have racial preferences that's stupid.

>>35692507
>tfw 5'4" man with babyface

i don't want to transition i just want a qt partner
how fucked am i

>>35695290
>Must be white, tall, thin, and a US citizen.

I'm persian and canadian, lmao

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trannies are all mentally fucked in the head

I dated one only to get ghosted after 6 months, Instead of chasing her I just said fuck it and ignored her back. removed all contact etc, burned her "love" letters and presents

eventually I found a normal qt boy who likes me, we've talked every day for the last year or so and visit each other as often as study allows. I love him so very much

Just get a qt bf robots, ignore the transcum

>>35691598
Are you a trans gril or guy? Very confused by what you wrote

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>>35695369
That's not me anon.

oreos

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>looked at cute clothes that I'll never be able to wear for an hour again
why do I do this to myself

>>35693337
They have put me in the psych ward. It didnt work. What about what I said was crazy though?

>>35693337
Well my fine uneducated friend. That's because psychology as a science has come a long way. We've determined that the best way to deal with certain mental illnesses isn't in fact to sequester people away and subject them to a life of endless suffering. We seek out the least worst outcome for suffering individuals, if we had a pill that could alleviate gender dysphoria chances are good it'd be offered as an option. But we don't. The least worst treatement is to allow transitioning as overall, the damage caused both mentally and physically isn't as severe as the effects of the dysphoria itself.
Or so goes one school of thought, at least. There are still individuals in the mental health community who view it as a mental illness to be treated similarly to other disassociation disorders.

>>35687713
You're going to regret it and kill yourself.
So I suppose that's one less problem in the world.
Go for it.

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>>35692485
you look like someone startled you.
also daily reminder that trannies are mentally ill

>>35695753
The notion that someone is mentally ill is kinda pointless. where do you go from there? why is it a bad thing?
>>35695624
Transsexuallity is based on the brain developing different than the body as the gender in the brain and the sex of the body is done at different stages in the womb.
I can even give you sources for that, but you won't look at them anyway.

Feel kinda ignored btw:>>35693933

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I just want a pretty face and life would be good
Always want to try makeup but never have motivation.

>>35696286
Be my gf jesus christ you're cute.

>>35696336
Im cute bc i use [s4s] not [r9k]

>Tfw when started shaving, exercising, and eating well.

On my way to becoming a femboy

>>35695839
>Transsexuallity is based on the brain developing different than the body as the gender in the brain and the sex of the body is done at different stages in the womb.
If there was something noticeably different about transsexual brains, you could reliably diagnose it with a single MRI scan. That isn't done. Instead, psychiatrists rely on shit like the patient's subjective experience.
Seriously, tranny brains are just regular brains.

How do you determine when the "gender in the brain" develops, anyway? What does that even mean? Sure, the sex hormones probably do a lot of stuff to the brain, but that's just another part of the body's development, and will necessarily occur at the exact same time as the rest of it on account of they're the same fucking hormones.

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Are any of you in Europe. It's actually amazing how every single person on r9k that isn't a guy is in the US. Did I fail my continent or did my continent fail me at getting me a gf?

>>35697758
The brains of transsexuall women show extreme similarities with those of women.
Source: Some paper I can't find right now...
Basically the brain matter is very similar to that of women. in FtM there is less similarity.
Important for the gender identity is the BSTc which seems to be unaffectd by hormone treathment but simply an effect of the hormonal values during pregnancy.
source: Bao & Swaab, 2011- sexuall differentiaton of the human brain.

I guess there is a difference between a need to threath it aswell. Also not eveything can be perfectly diagnosed withan MRI

>>35687713
NO trans "girls" in this thread are remotely passable.

Don't fuck with me. Don't waste our time.

To be a passable qt trans you have to already be cute. You have to already be super femme. You have to be able to pass as a girl before ever even transitioning. Transitioning for an 18+ person improves your femininity by 20% at most. If you weren't already super girly it's never going to happen. It's over.

Just stop. You're more likely to find the love of your life with your birth gender.

Were you born with a dick, and you're hot for guys? There are WAY more gay men than there are tranny chasers. You're literally gimping your ability to find true love by limiting yourself to a TINY pool.

You think

>If I really truly become a woman, even straight men will bring me home to their parents!

No. You'd have to be so far beyond passable my parents would even care if you had a dick because you were so gorgeous. You'd literally have to be prettier than most cis girls.

And that's never going to happen.

Cut it out. The fantasy is over. Reality is here, and he's angry.

>>35698072
I like girls tho
>file size too big
H..hah...

>>35696286
lets be friends!!!!!!!! we can chat about silly sh*t on discord

>>35698072
>i can clock any tranny therefore no tranny passes: the post