Anyone else here athletic but still a beta loser?

lool and joe rogan said martian arts gives you confidence in all facets of life

Almost exact same here except I'm 22 and a kickboxer not an MMA guy. Although I've done some wrestling scrimmages for cardio before fights.

I thought getting fit and taking boxing lessons would help with my abysmal self confidence and anxiety.

It hasn't.

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>>35677910
>>35677921
Yeah, it helps me not be intimidated by guys, my anxiety has not changed though. I still feel like a beta around girls, I think success at sex trumps being able to fight in a primal sense

>>35677870
>19
>training mma
>in beastly shape for years
>~27yr, no luck with ladies, give up completely
>start drinking
>eat the pizza
>drink the beer
>now a fatt mann
>welcome to my domain

>>35678222
Damn, you got any advice because that looks like where I'm headed, I'm just worried about being inexperienced at 21 and my looks make it hard b/c girls expect me to be confident and assertive sexually

>>35677870
what does your body look like OP?

>>35678369
If I could go back in time I'd get a half-decent haircut, dress nice and just ask girls out. I learned too late that its Actually No Big Deal to get rejected in a bar on a friday night.

i think its easier to overcome rejection than it is to get in shape after falling off the wagon, honestly

>Take MMA
>Now have to deal with niggers pulling out firearms

Welp. Time to join the military.

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>>35678616
Like pic related. MMA gives you shit physique honestly. Also have 5inch dick, very average, have good face though

>>35678035
I'm still intimidated and anxious around people.

No matter what I do, or what I am able to accomplish, the irrational fear and anxiety never go away.

>>35677870
>Amateur boxer
>3-21
They told me I was good, but I could never followup in competition.
I'm such a fucking loser, both in the ring and outside of it.
But the people in my gyms liked me I guess.

>>35677870
No, I failed at sports (still do kickboxing/jiu jitsu but I suck dick at it desu) and am a loser socially

>>35678917
>3-21

why didn't you quit at 3-5, now your entire reputation is tarnished

>>35678917

Lololol fight me nigger

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>>35678916
Maybe try Xanax, it works for me way to well though, felt normal for once, used it as a crutch daily until I ran out and the symptoms hit me way harder than before. Phenibut also kind of works sometimes

>>35678995
I was too much of a pussy to quit, I kept telling myself that it was enough for me, but I couldn't bring myself to tell my coach or my father.
Plus no one even knew I was a boxer.
Also,
>reputation
>tarnished
As if it wasn't bad enough.
>>35679017
I am not a nigger, I am a spic.

>>35677870
Do you train at rising sun? I love you senpai

>>35678917
Competition is overrated. My coach also worked with the local collegiate teams so I got matched up with a few college kids who had been boxing for less than a year it seemed like. Sparring is way funner and easier to apply techniques. I lose like 40% of my skill once a crowd is around me

>>35678951
Everyone sucks at first just keep showing up and be humble to sparring partners or they won't want to work with you

>>35678995
He probably never got to 3-5 retard.
He probably didn't get his first win until his 6th loss.

>>35679157
It was the fourth, actually.

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I'm surprised so many of you guys have martial arts experience. We could unite and smash normies, we have so much power, just no will

>>35677870
Is there a fighting style for me to go Zangief or King on a motherfucker?

I would give anything to suplex or powebomb some thug

>>35677870
What weight class and how tall are you?

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>>35677870
>parents own really big yard for garden and chickens
>get /fit/ from moving rocks to certain places and chopping down trees that are getting near our yard, which I get paid $80 every two weeks for doing
>walk long distances as well for fun every day
>all I do is that, play old ass vidya, jerk off, write, read and watch anime
I'm applying for college though now, so my life might change for the better.

>>35680581
6ft compete at 178

>>35677870
>he fell for that meme out of all possible memes
wew

>>35681209
We all fell for the worst possible meme out of all of them.
We fell for the 4Chan meme.

>>35680790
>work-fit
A-anon, that's literally my wetdream. I can't belive there's someone who got fit thanks for work.
>tfw no workfit bf that will carry you with one arm and put you in his shoulder

i feel like im above average at any sports i play

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>>35677870
>Fit
>amateur boxer
>train mma 5-6 days a week
>Crippling anxiety since childhood, can't even talk to cashiers without panicking
Are you shitting me, partner?

>25 years old
>on the attractive side
>have literally been in about 50+ fights, fighting often since highschool and a lot less the past year
>have a decent amount of scar tissue on my eyebrow, probably taken more hits than a needed to
>I met a girl on transit by groping her and we'd fuck in her car weekly.(she was fat)

I've still only fucked 2 girls. I don't have really any friends anymore. I don't go out. No career. Anxiety. Probably borderline

I'm trying to change things around, learning to code (if you're not an aspie that thinks he knows everything, I'm free to mentor with coding. It's a way out)

23 yo
Compete in rally car racing
Only have enough money from delivering pizza
Crippling failure of life

>"I am leaving, I am leaving."
>But the fighter still remains.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MYPJOCxSUFc

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>>35677870
>getting autistic about hobby and not spending time to developing people skills
the same is happening with /fit/ autists.

>>35679624
catch wrestling and sambo may help you lad.

>>35677870
What are best martial arts for tall guys like +6'3?

>>35677870
yo should start doing classes, like a personal trainer and shit. I am a martial arts sperg too. At 21 i was doing ITF taekwondo and it did not helped my anxiety, just time and talking to people, be daring with girls, fucked some ugly to regular cunts, lived life out of the gym too.
Then at 32 i am now a dad, a instructor and have won my first mma amateur bout.