Social Anxiety feels

Yeah fine, just tired.. laugh it off.

>>35650615
Tell them to fuck off
You have been muted for 2 seconds, because your comment was not original.

>>35650678
>you're tired every day?
what now anon??

>>35650615
At least someone asks you these questions.
Nobody has asked about me in months, if I fell off the face of the Earth, nobody would notice.

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>>35650615

>I have to leave my house tomorrow

i grew up in a terrible home and learnt to keep quiet

>>35650787
Yes, I have thyroid problems

>>35650615
I haven't been asked those kinds of questions since middle school. Now, people just ignore me for the most part; I've had conversations with maybe 5 classmates in the past two months, most of them brief.

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>>35650615
>"Okay class, get into groups for the presentation!"

people say that shit to me

just say oh well or tell them to get over it

>>35650821
you don't taIk much, do you?

>>35650825
what makes you have to do such a horrible thing?

tortellini

>>35650615
I don't respond, because I have no one to talk to.

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>>35650615
>How to respond to this???
You don't, you have social anxiety

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>>35651009

I have to take an exam that I haven't even studied for and told myself I'd spend all of today preparing for but instead I spent the time playing Shogun 2.

I try to do all of my classes online but unfortunately a lot of the time they require you to come take the exams in person. Also soon I'll have to start going to class in person because online versions of the courses I need aren't offered. Worse still this is all for a shitty liberal arts degree that will give me nothing but debt because I'm a brainlet who can't into STEM.

>tfw socially AND mentally retarded, not even one of those socially crippled autists who is extremely intelligent to compensate for it

>speak one sentence
>"omg anon, you TALK???"

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>why are you so quiet
>why are YOU so loud?
said it once during high school and got a laugh.
So of course I kept repeating it...

>>35650615
I dont get why this bothers people so much. I dont have anxiety but im generally very reserved, private and quiet. This either makes people think im a dick or they think im a psychopat that stabs people because apparently i got "psychopatic eyes". Everyone i meet eventually asks or mentions the same thing, then when they say it outloud in a group of people everyone agrees.

I JUST DONT LIKE TALKING AND ANSWERING QUESTIONS, OKAY? IM AN OBSERVER. IF I HAVE NOTHING SMART TO SAY ILL KEEP QUIET.

>why are you so quiet?
Oh, it's nothing. I'm just thinking about something.
>are you okay?
Yup, completly fine i'm too nervous to say no
>you don't talk much do you?
No, I don't, but that doesn't mean I don't want to talk actually, I don't

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>decide to ask a question in class for the first time ever
>stacy teacher ignores question and loudly says "Wow anon this is the first time I've heard your voice!"
>everyone stares at me
>teacher doesn't answer question so I have to stutter it out again

This is why I don't speak.

Suddenly get out of your chair fast enough to scare them and look them dead In the eyes with an incredibly serious facial expression and start chanting WUBA WUBA WUBA getting continuously louder each time until everybody in the room is looking good at you then urinate and delicate yourself while screaming incredibly loud.

Every body in your class will be legitimately terrified of you and assume you and will neverbothered you again.

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>>35651148
Why did they feel the need to do this.

Why are you such a fucking queit autist, what reason are you even here you should kill yourself you offer nothing to anybody

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>>35651334
>Why are you such a fucking queit autist
because i never developed social skills because no one would interact with me because i was short and ugly
>what reason are you even here
it's school you're forced to come
>you should kill yourself you offer nothing to anybody
well maybe if it wasnt so hard to get a gun, i would.

>>35650615
I don't understand when people make a joke and then look at you expecting you to say something. Okay you told a joke, I laughed or at least pretended to, what else are you expecting me to do?

>>35650615
nobody ever says shit like this to me because I'm pretty talkative in social situations and I'm actually pretty funny and good at making people feel at ease.

Too bad no girls ever like me beyond me being a cool person that they're friends with because I don't fucking know why but I'm so starved of affection its killing me

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>>35651065
Pretty much the only way to respond to this shit is "fuck off"

>be me
>have monotone, deadpan voice and hardly talk unless it's required
>be at work
>"you sound depressed anon" -normie
>"I am" -me
>continue going about my work

I swear someone says this shit once a fucking week to me. On the positive side tho they leave me alone afterwards

>>35651148
thats horrible. i would have REEd a mighty REE and flip the desk. FUCKING NORMIES

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>>35651065
this is the worst feel. hate this

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>>35650934
>partner asks other groups for help and doesn't even look at you

"Look who came out of their cave"
Why did parents do this?

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>>35651090
fucking kek
I can relate too well, unfortunately

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>>35651610
>when the teacher partners you with Stacy(s)

>>35650860
Who here /t h y r o i d/ (but not actually)?

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>a coworker asked me if I'm gonna become a workshooter or something because I never talk
How do I respoond

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>"Now I want you all to get into groups..."

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>lets start off with everyone saying their name and 1 thing they like to do

>>35651727

with 9mm JHP at about 1200 feet per second

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>>35651730
>Anon your partner will be... Tyrone!
>WHOLE CLASS FUCKING LAUGHS

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>>35651533
y u sav thumnal

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>why do you always sit on the back?

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>your guidance counselor tells you not to worry about those kids bullying you, because he knows one day you'll go on to do great things and you'll forget about all those kids, or maybe they'd even end up working for you

>>35651648
I sometimes lie about having autism/aspergers to excuse myself when I spill my spaghetti too hard in public.

>post in a thread
>get a (you)
>panic, don't respond, close thread
Anyone else?

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>>35651648
Who here sleeps /16 hours a day/ yet is always tired

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>have to get up tomorrow and go to college with my classmates I've been autistically avoiding

>>35651772
I always said that I liked to hang out with friends, and hoped that nobody asked who my friends were

>>35652058
I have sleep apnea pretty badly. I'm always tired and my mental abilities fluctuate a lot.
I would go to a sleep clinic but I masturbate in my sleep sometimes and am too scared that I'll happen to do that on the night I go in to be observed.

>attempt suicide
>social anxiety disappears
I'M FREE BOYS!

>>35652116
What the fuck. Do you cum in your sleep from masturbating? How did you find do this? Do you masturbate by rubbing against the mattress or do you actually grab your junk?

>>35652229
"How did you find out you do this" is what i meant.

Oh God, in 12th Grade I had to present my project in front of my Literature class, and I did it by sitting in a chair not even facing the audience.
And it was only a class of 12 students.

>>35651445
>Social Anxiety feels
>I don't get these feels because I don't have social anxiety :-)

>>35652349
I did this in grade 11 stood up to present my book report, mumbled for about 2 minutes then sat back down. Ended up with 2% on the present and 96% on the essay, teacher ended up talking to me about what happened and I started balling in front of her. Why couldn't have god struck me down there and put me out of this suffering

>why are you so quiet?
cause we can't talk bout much so there is no need to talk,
>are you okay?
i'm fine i'm always fine you don't need to worry,(inside my mind is sayin your mentally unstable)
>you don't talk much do you?
i do just not with you,

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>>35650615
>I-I'm just tired and not in a good mood

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>>35651772
This was always the worst. I used the think about skipping the first day of classes just so I could avoid that five-seconds worth of shame. I'd be shaking, my plans would be sweating like nothing else, and sometimes I'd forget how to breathe/swallow.....

>>35652669
*palms, sorry.

I don't know what's so scary about it objectively, but when you're in room with 20-30 other people you don't know and they're all staring at you intently (and it's so silent), it's hard

>>35652469
Wow, that's awful. With mine I was at least comfortable when sitting down facing the wall to be able to somewhat audibly give the presentation. I actually did I pretty good job on it, so I didn't need the teacher to help me with it. We basically had to do an analysis on a circle of Hell in Dante's Inferno along with an art portion of it. On the analysis I did it in depth enough that the teacher didn't need to fill in the blanks like with other peoples projects, so I at least felt good about that. Now that I recall I was able to use humor to make things a bit easier, and now I'm sad since now I have to remember how much funnier I used to be.

>>35652669
I had something similar to this in Eng 202 where we had to say our names, something interesting about us, and the names of everyone before us. I was fucking scared, since I couldn't remember anyone's name or their interesting fact. Luckily I was able to pull off a humorous moment by saying that my interesting fact was that I couldn't remember people's names. Humor is the best/only way for robots like us to seem normal.

>>35652813
that's a good attempt at humour. mine was "my name is anon and i go to school." no one really cares about others interests that much.

>>35652813
Can relate, had to do this in hs once.
Except it was even worse because you had to remember the interesting thing about them too

>>35653152
Actually we did also have to remember the interesting fact, but it was a better punchline to just say I can't remember people's names. I had to ask the person next to me each time for the name and fact, but I did it in a funny way where I moved my hand in front of my mouth to pretend to be talking privately even though it was obvious people could hear me. It turned what would have been an awkward exchange into a fun and humorous exchange.

>>35652040
Me too. when i can't think of a comeback, even if the person is wrong. also when i ask a question and get a good answer.
ill always be a thread killer too.

Does anybody else get shit for not being able to remember things like directions? I can never remember even the simplest directions and then people always laugh at me. I always leave feeling embarrassed and very red-faced. I'm not sure what I'd do if gpses didn't exist.

>>35653651
I can't remember names most of the time, but I almost never refer to people by their names anyway, so people don't seem to notice.

>>35650615
I really only talk to people I like or care about ...

>you need to smile more
>why do you look so mad all the time?

I got an award at a company awards ceremony, had to smile for a picture.
Hear in the audience "that's the first time I've ever seen him smile"

Posted in a /soc/ rate thread
>smile more
>you look angry
>I'll bet your a softie on the inside
>you look like an arms dealer

Just fucking kill me. I don't know how to smile all the time. Someone tell me how people have a relaxed expression that doesn't look angry.

>>35653784
i know that feel. i have an "about to cry" face
post a pic of your resting face

>>35653784
I have the same problem, except for me people always think I'm depressed-looking or sad.

I don't see the point in smiling unless it happens spontaneously (well, I see the point I just don't like forcing it).

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>>35653836
Resting face I posted on /soc/ the other day. I don't think it looks that bad, but what do I know

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HOW DO I STOP BEING SO SOCIALLY ANXIOUS? I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE.

>>35651504
I relate to the monotone voice thing.
>In high school on the bus
>Literal autist yells questions at me from across the bus
>answer him in the tone I always use
>"omg anon you're so mean to him"

I don't get why normies exaggerate their emotions when talking to retards.

>>35652058
if you sleep 16 hours a day every day no wonder you're "tired"
its cause your body was sleeping yesterday at the time you're trying to be awake today

>>35653953
you are a handsome dude. you shouldn't be insecure about your face. I'd kill to have pretty eyes like that. but ill always be an uggo spic

>>35654170
It's too bad women don't see the same thing. ;_;

>>35654219
Even with the balding you've a good face
lose about 20 lbs and you'd be solid

so literally practice smiling in the mirror
practice a smile that flashes across your face
then try to look embarrassed after
like you hadnt meant to smile

>>35652058
Try sleeping 8 hours a day, sleep isn't some magic thing that gets you better the more you do it, it has to be done within certain time intervals to work effectively.

>>35654219
women don't see people like men do. they dont feel love like men do. maybe there's a special someone but most women are sluts. that sounds rlly gay but bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks. good luck to you anon and hope you find a gf.

>>35650615
I just nod my head and smile like an autist

>>35654295
20lbs? I'd weigh 140 if I dropped that much.

>>35654417
fine lose 10 overall and replace 10 of flub with muscle

>>35653953
you look nice, anon
I bet you have a nice smile

I have a hard time expressing any emotion or having a personality. I'm just afraid of being noticed or having people pay attention to me. I can't really talk anyway though, I get nervous and choke up around everyone but my parents. I hate myself and want to die

just got done having a good cry session

Does anybody else talk so little that their throat hurts when they actually talk for real to someone? When I call my family sometimes my throat will hurt afterwards because it's not used to it...

>>35654317
Thank you, kind anon. May you find happiness as well.

>>35654515
we're here for you anon. I have a lot of the same problems. It's hell.

>>35654573
My voice cracks a lot. It never used to, even as a teenager going through puberty. I'm almost certain it's because I never talk and the muscles that control my vocal chords have become weak.

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>>35654496
For your reference, here's a smile (I can't find one without a beard. I don't normally have one, though)

>>35654515
Lucky, at least you get to be able to cry, us unfeeling types don't even get to have that.

>>35654678
Knew it, really nice pic man
Just try be confident in yourself, even though I know how hard that can be

>>35654618
I kinda get like that when talking to strangers, but my voice is suddenly completely fine around family.

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>tfw black
>tfw the people who ask me this cannot be detracted by the quirky remarks all itt think of using

Introversion for american blacks is apparently as bad as being a mutant to all parties viewing.

They never just ask why you're quiet, they leave prompts for you to join the conversation if it cycles to you to see if you ever contribute.

They are usually about bragging stories involving women or violence.

"A le vuwine pe chete"

>>35654729
I generally feel nothing but with waves of overwhelming sadness. I'm in one of those right now. I don't want to live anymore if it's going to be like this, I don't even care if I can't be normal, I just want to be a human being

phenibut

enough said

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>>35650615
>first day at new school
>don't know shit about anything or where anything is
>be social anxious as fuck
>ok class let's line up and go to lunch
>picks me to lead the class
>has trouble finding where it's at
>ask for help
>class laughs

>>35654767
im sorry anon
.org

>>35654969
I'm not sure who you are and possibly never will.
But do not call yourself sorry, you aren't.
Don't let anyone ever make you think you are.

But if you mean to apologize, you cannot.
You are not at fault.

I'm not sure what you can do at all.
But it's cool you tried

>>35650615
>ay devil dog you feelin okay?
>yes Ssgt good morning Ssgt

The only reason I'm up now is because I woke up saying someone please kill me. Please

>>35651434
Im 100% with you there. Seriously, everytime the normies joked about me or looked at me after a joke I just forced out a chuckle and smiled awkwardly or just sat there acting like nothing happened.

The worst part is that they arent funny. What the fuck am i supposed to do with forced fart-jokes? Or when they crack a ""joke"" about my supposed personality? What am I to do when teachers joke about me? Its so tiring and their remarks get so by the numbers after a while. And they celebrate their """sense of humour""" and """unique personality""". Ah, well.

>>35652106
>college
get out of here you fucking crypto-normie

>>35652229
I've woken up a few times doing it , though not fully awake. But in the morning I'll have vague fuzzy memories of it and dried semen on my wrists and all that. a lot of times i don't wake up at all but have the dried semen on my wrists so I know what went down.

>>35650615
YOu are a fucking normie scum if "people" even think of approaching you.
reddit might be more appropriate for you FAGGOT

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>>35650615
Just today
>Came out of house the same time as friendly new neighbor
>Was going to give her her mail but ended up just slamming the door in her face and then waiting until she drove off
>Friendly lady sitting in a car next to me nodded and smiled at me
>Could only turn away and leg starts shaking nervously
>Saw former coworker in CVS
>She's a pretty nice girl but instead I chose to pretend not to see her and walk past her eyes straight ahead

I hate that I'm like this.

>>35651949
>lie
I wish