when was the last time that you told your father you love him?

>>35626900
does it count if you say ''i love you too'' but you didnt really mean it

I have never told my father I love him.

Under normal circumstances most fathers and sons don't do that I assume.

The last time he was there to hear it was his deathbed. That wasn't the last time I said it though.

>>35626900
2 days ago, on his birthday (at the end of the phone call.) We never say it casually anymore though, that stopped when I entered my teen years. As another anon mentioned, it seems kind of odd for fathers and sons to say it regularly, at least to me

before I necked myself and failed

Neck rash for like a month

Never known him anon

we were on the phone and i was about 8 or 9

>>35626900
A month before he shot himself

I've always found it hard to tell my parents I love them, even though I really do love them. I just can't force those words out of my mouth.

literally 2 seconds ago and he sighed and said okay

Today on the phone :^)

>>35626900
I'll tell him when he tell me.

>>35626999
sorry for your loss. This comment actually made me think about my dad

>>35626900
I was probably 4 years old and he was probably sober
I was never 4 years old again and he was probably never sober either

>>35626900
Twice today.

He told me last week that I was the thing in his life that he is most proud of.

>>35626900
>told your father you love him
people actually do that?
the most physical contact I've had with my father in the last 25 years was a handshake at hs graduation

>you and your dad don't fight but you're not close at all either
>have nothing in common
>just sit there and make meaningless small talk
>he always calls you by your brothers name accidentally

feels mediocre man, we were so close when I was younger

A few month's ago. Probably longer then that, really.

>>35626934
Yea, I think it is normal. unfortunately

>>35628367
We only started exchanging it when he almost died 2 years ago.

This morning
I remain generally informal to my dad, but I think it's always important to tell both your parents you love them every now and then

>>35628095
I hate this about life in general. Everyone used to seem like they had so much energy when I was young. Now it's just bad. I guess it's because I'm an adult now, and I no longer have any immediate worth since I'm not young anymore.

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>>35626900
Yesterday, and he told me he's proud of me. Felt pretty good

Mom abandoned us
I tell him everyday.
We are unified, in our love of each other and our hatred for my mother

I don't get not having affection for your father. They're your fucking parent. I get it's a different dynamic from your mom, but still. He raised you (I assume, sorry if he wasn't there) but every relationship is different

About 15 years now, we don't get along.

>>35626900
Before he died I got kicked out he died 30 minutes after I left

>>35626934
It's not atypical for a son and father to say that to each other

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>>35626900
I've never seen my father. I really wish I could have known him.


Goo and hug your dad robots. Even if he is an asshole.

>>35626932
this and I still interact with him

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>>35626900
Freshman year of highschool...he didn't say it back...

>>35626900
I just told him a few moments ago. I'm heading back to uni tomorrow morning and won't see him so I said "night love you dad".
>maybe I'm special but I have good relationship with my family, idk about other bots

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Yesterday.
He texted me letting me know he bought tickets for a concert we're going to next friday, i told him thank you and that i loved him

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I've literally never told my parents i love them. Does that make me a bad son?

But I dont. Not that he is a bad person, I just dont care.

never, my father was never around in any capacity. he's alive but i haven't seen him since i was maybe 3.

how do you become a robot with a loving, involved father? aren't they supposed to guide you in your development so you don't become a failure as a male?

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>>35630147
My father and I never spent much time together, he was always working strenuous hours, and never taught me how to play sports, "be a man" or anything like that.

I don't know how to properly throw or catch a ball, or anything of that sort. We simply never bonded.

I had no role models.

When I grew old enough to see what a loser he was.

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>>35626900
He left my mother when she was pregnant so i never got a chance to talk to him

>>35630192
very sad. what man would spend his time making money for the jews instead of guiding his son in how to be a man?

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Before he left the family for heroin pussy

Last July when he came to visit out of courtesy.

I rarely call him or have anything to do with him though. I've emotionally detached myself from him. I told my therapist that when he dies I won't feel anything.

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>>35626999
OH NOOOOOOO ANON NOOOOOO

>>35628875
>Everyone used to seem like they had so much energy when I was young
iktf. Now everybody just lazes around and nobody wants to do anything fun or spontaneous anymore. I guess my parents are getting old...

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Never for we rarely ever talked/bonded despite growing up together.
We both just never bothered and I just kinda see him as a stranger for the most part.

Then again, I never told my mother I loved her either. So perhaps it's my fault but it's too late now.

Too late to change.

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>>35626900
>go into full autist rage over no friends/gf
>dad comes in to try to get me not to break my hand punching the wall
>tell him to fuck off cause he doesn't understand
>he says he loves me and just wants whats best for me
>get angry, scream and storm out of the room
I still haven't talked to him in three days

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>>35626900

he is in front of me watching History Channel.

We always have small talks.

It's not like we have a lot of things to talk but life and school lmao.

>>35630715
what's he watching

literally never

We hug occasionally or he'll give me a kiss on the cheek, but not as much as before. I don't think I've ever said I love you to my dad. I'm too awkward.

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>>35626900
earlier today, he calls me almost every evening

>your dad grew up without his dad for the most part
>your dad would hit you sometimes when you were younger but then stopped
He says he loves me every chance he gets

>Father's father passed away unexpectedly
>Like he wasnt really sick or anything he just had a heart attack
>Father was young
>That experience has caused him to let everyone know how he feels about them because he never knows when it will be the last time to say something
>I tell him I love him every morning and he does the same
Dont let your dad go 1 day without letting him know how much he means to you robots
And if they dont return the favor then remind them on the finality of life and our own ever running hourglass. Very few people get a chance to say what they need to before they die. Make sure you dont die with regrets like this.

>>35629404
fuck off

You have been muted for 4 seconds, because of the Jews.

Most of ya'll in this thread got it lucky. My dad once told me the closest he and his father got was when they were smoking weed and meth. My dad used to get beat unmerciful by his parents. I think that had an effect on him. It wasn't just his work that made us not spend time together, but he just didn't care. He became desensitized and indifferent. At first he was happy to have kids but he undoubtedly always wanted to continue his lifestyle of drinking, drugging, and partying. We got into an argument recently, I brought up how he never had any kind of role in mine or my sisters life and left us ill-prepared for the world and he went full on BNW 1984 "As soon as you are old enough you belong to the state" (public school.) It left me infuriated, if only you could hear some of the shit he actually believes and thinks. He gets mad anytime when you bring up his dad as well. There is no love in our relationship, we are more like friends than family. I will celebrate when he is finally gone and not a burden on us anymore.

>>35630147
So much this right here

>>35630192
And some of this too

>>35630330
Also this, I will not feel anything, I am already to that point so what will make that day any different? Now, that day my mother dies? That is going to fucking hurt.

>>35632349
Good thing he doesn't mean anything to me.

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>>35626900
>when was the last time that you told your father you love him?

Probably last week when I called him. I've only lived with my father for a total of maybe 3 non-consecutive years, but we've always kept in touch before that point. We have a very good relationship.

A good relationship with both of my parents is probably one of the better aspects of this life.

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Must have been easily 20 years ago.
He divorced my mother when I was 5 and just left.
Nowadays he has two kids (who will not be failures) with another woman so he doesn't really need to hear it from me.

it's weird but my elderly parents do everything for me (short of turning in my bullshit papers or going to my lectures) but I sort of resent them for it because I feel like I should be doing it all more independently as I am 24yo now. but the real pain comes from knowing that I am a miserable fuckup who cannot adequately provide for himself so like I said my parents make sure I never want for anything, but I subconsciously resent them because my own poor self-esteem and delusion keep me from reaching any would-be potential

I almost can't believe there are people on here with a good relationship with their father, but maybe that's just because my dad is a fuckin asshole. I mean this guy actively went out of his way to make our lives harder, always critical, never helpful.

I've never told my dad that I loved him because he has never been the emotional type. Either serious and straight forward or the joking type.

Its pretty much unspoken that we care about each other so although Ive never heard him (or remembered) saying I love you son, I dont care and it doesnt bother me.

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He died in 2015. I hadn't seen him in 8 years. I still miss him sometimes.

My dad and i never said that to each other , we know we do love each other so why the gay shit

>>35626900
That pictures from a series right? Also nice dubs man.

>>35626999
I hope those sick trips make up for it.

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>>35626900

I don't remember, I assume sometime in January 2004 before he left on his annual business trip. He never came back. Massive coronary in bed.

>the last thing he ever heard about me before he died was my mother telling him I was failing two classes in 7th grade
>he died disappointed in me

>>35626900
Dont know and couldnt be happier

>>35633611
>he died disappointed in me

13 years later, he still wasnt wrong.

>>35633489
I feel that man, my dad was/is a major cunt too

I honestly can't remember the last time I told him that. Ive replied I love you too but that doesnt count does it ?