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wtf to talk about with girls? i have never really had female

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wtf to talk about with girls? i have never really had female friend, and i rarely talk to them. but if i do, it's just fucking awkward, it's boring as fuck.
you can talk about anything with men and they'll usually speak as much as you and you don't have to watch your mouth, whereas most of women i've known require you to "entertain" them etc.
also the most topics i've ever talked about with women were irrelevant shit, idk if they're like this all the time, i've literally never seen a woman talking about serious things.

is it because i'm ugly/not masculine and they're not interested in me? (so they don't feel like i'm a right guy to talk with them about serious stuff) or women are such boring carefree hedonistic egoists, who just want to party? or i'm gay? (i find some girls cute though, i consider myself bisexual)
i'm rather quiet and don't want to bother them with starting conversation, but sometimes when i'm walking next to a girl i know and it's awkward not to talk, and i ask her some shitty questions that she answers, there is nothing more and i continue walking in quiet next to her which starts getting awkward. and she never keeps the conversation herself, just wants me to talk most of the time. can i not be lonely somehow?, btw sorry for shitty punctuation and poor vocabulary

and i feel much more confident whilst talking to men, they notice and appreciate your intelligence much better than women (if they even do)
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>>35592292
>they notice and appreciate your intelligence much better than women
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If you're bisexual, why not go for a man? Maybe you can even find a wife (male) if you're lucky!
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>>35592292
There isnt anything to talk about with women. Most men simply have more patience/less self awareness and so can keep at it long enough to get the sex
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>>35592292

Pretty girl with pretty hair is a pretty girl with pretty hair.
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>>35592292
You sound like a real intellectual to me, OP.
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>>35592498
i have some friends though, but mostly male. also i'm not disgusting (and saying this honestly, I have low self-esteem and just can't brag about me with lies)
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This is strawberry blonde hair
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>>35592532
to not be socially excluded. i just fap to trannies and once in a while gays.
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>>35592577
Boring fucking roastie who puts down other roasties to make herself feel better confirmed.
Hey OP, no one fucking cares.
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Women actually tend to speak much more than men. Just ask a few questions to get them going.
You gotta show interest too. Eye contact and smiling makes them talk twice as much, adding shit like "really?" or "are you kidding me?" can get them going as well and shit like teasing (can't believe you're such a nerd) and compliments (that's actually really cool) can get them going for hours without having to make any effort.
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a girl and i liked the same tv shows, 60 days in allen page gaynation.
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>>35592624
lmao, don't bump this thread then. i thought there might be some people on this board that can answer me since i have problems with understand some simple social interactions, and i'm not looking for attention, just simply want answer to my question. except that i'm male
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>>35592653
This is true, I am a robot as well but I have been on 3 dates so far and each time, I did this and the girl talked for 3 hours non-stop
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>>35592292
Here OP let me share one of my favourite images that is very relevant

Women stop maturing mentally around age 12, which is why they continue to act like children through their teens and 20's. They never develop things like critical thinking and logic
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Just pretend to be interested in her life. Asks girl a few questions about her life and she'll do all the talking, provided you're not hideous or creepy or generally repellant.
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I have me the surprising discovery that just being your self with grillz actually workz.
In general is them who want to talk, I just tease.
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It depends on the situation and who you are talking to. I talk pretty much about anything you want. My favourite thing is listening to people talk about something they feel passionate about. My favourite topics generally are language, communication, social constructions and sexuality.

The problem is that when i listen carefully and i keep on talking and being nice, dudes get the wrong idea and i am hit on. It is really awkward, to me is that they can't see me as a person like them who just want to talk. I do not feel my intelligence is apprrciated by men. I feel such a failure making friends even on pc, because as soon as people know i am a girl they start with their thot patrol memes. It became boring to me, i can't stand talking about anything and then get a reply like "you are cute" or "thotie alert"

If you need someone (a girl) to talk, here i am.
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>>35592867
Same feelings as a girl here. I can talk about anything and have a lot of interests. Most guys don't appreciate it in girls and are very superficial, and most are so poorly socialised they can't hold a conversation at all.
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>>35592867
>>35592913
Where do I find girls like you?

I am tired of going on dates with basic broads who can only talk about shit like music, celebrities, and gossip
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>>35592961
You just have to talk to girls. It's always hard to find people with interests in common who can actually hold fun conversations. It's no different as a girl and I go through a lot of effort to find people I get along with who I don't get bored of. Most guys are pretty basic too, but you probably have spoken to more not to generalise, and might notice less since you aren't into them.
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>>35592867
>>35592913
the biggest problem is that i can't talk the same way with women as i do with men.
even though i'm not offensive towards anyone, i just don't "feel" what is a appropriate way of speaking to woman and i'm afraid something might be too direct. i'm really direct and tell what i think among men and don't care what they think. if they'll like me for it, we can be friends, if they not just whatever. but with women i'm just quiet and can't open myself

anyway, i just hope i'll find a person who will love me one day
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>>35592961

Well, i use 4chan so you found me. I work 9 hours on a callcenter and when i get home i am online or sleeping. I guess i can't socialize that much because it makes me anxious.
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>>35593060
>You just have to talk to girls
Truly a meme response. Of course you assume I am a bitter virgin because this is r9k, but in actuality I have 8 years of ongoing dating experience and have talked to many, many girls. Of the 34 that I have had sexual relations with, only 1 or 2 has been truly interesting. Not to place this generalisation solely on women, because I have no doubt there are many stupid men. But to assume that an inability to find interesting people is from lack of talking is naive
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>>35593126
That doesn't sound like a bad quality, it's true a lot of women can be more sensitive and might get offended by that. But not all are like that and you shouldn't ever change or compromise yourself for others. I don't mind guys like that, though my personality is probably a little more masculine too (like on mbti I get entp), so.
>>35593178
I didn't assume you were a virgin, I assumed you hadn't spoken to many people. Anyway, that sounds like just how it is, it doesn't really mean anything. Most people are not interesting male or female. Most people lack hobbies and interests, most people do not live interesting lives and just do what others do. The point is you have to try very hard to find the people who actually ARE interesting and talk to lots of people. Yes, most will suck.
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>>35592292
WHO THE FUCK IS THIS WHERE THE FUCK DID YOU GET THAT FUCKING PICTURE
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>>35593237
on other chan and idk who it is
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>>35593126

Maybe you just need to adjust your perspective on girls. I dated 3 girls and 4 dudes and they were all pretty much basic. Maybe you have a problem talking to girls. I dont say you are a resented virgin, i just say that maybe you find easier to open up to men because you feel they are the same as you.


And here i am, i am the same as you, finding it difficult to talk to many men because they are pretty basic and they can't hold onto a basic conversation without commenting on my appearance or looking at my cleavage.
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Socializing is hard. Either people complain I talk too much or am too quiet. I feel like I have a responsibility to pass on memories and old stories so more often than not I talk way too much.
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>>35593316
To be fair if your cleavage is visible you are asking for that kind of attention
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>>35593277
Oh fuck man what fucking chan, where did you find it
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>>35593356
karachan (it's not english though)
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>>35593347

No, you are not being fair. I didn't ask to have big boobs and i always wearing big hoodies. But yeah, i talk about issues with socialising and you put the blame on me because of something i don't have control over.
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>>35593429
If you are wearing big hoodies then you do not have cleavage, as it is hidden
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>>35593424
What did the post say about the picture
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>>35593520

Then how do you call it? Bossom?
(english is not my first language)

But yeah, back to the main topic, it would have been nice to find someone to talk to here that can understand how hard being social is.

Gotta keep on looking
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>>35593605
it was like half year ago, i don't remember
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>>35593615
Cleavage means the cleft between breasts that is visible when a girl wears a low-cut shirt that shows off her boobs, bosom would be a more accurate word

Being social is very difficult, for me especially because I have so many diverse topics that I like to talk about and things that I find interesting, but because it is so hard to find someone else who can keep up with me I have become pessimistic and don't put much effort into socializing
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>>35593633
Wew lad i think i just got baited hard
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>>35592867

PLEASE show us your tits

originally asking
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>>35592867
GET THE FUCK OUT YOU ROASTIE WHORE YOURE NOT WELCOMED HERE

RRRRRRRRRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JCeOf2q6_TA
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>>35593316
Fuck off whore
Hows that for a conversation
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>>35595562
I'm the other girl who was saying basically the same things as her. It's not very good. I give you a 2/10 at conversation, I'd say 0, but you can have 2 for the effort since I'm sure as a robot you thought about that quip quite hard.
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