Are you a forgiving person?
I used to be
Nyynyominoym
Depends on how long there is between the act that needs forgiving and me forgiving them
If it's quick, then I'll usually just get over it, but if it's a week+, then I've usually stewed on it too much
>>35586939
It depends. I'm usually pretty forgiving over big things and if the person seems to regret what they did, but I get fucking irrational sometimes over minor slights and insults.
I am. I can't be angry at people for too long, especially if they are close to me.
No. I dont forgive people when they deliberately make shitty decisions.
But if people make a mistake, for example scratch up my car i forgive them almost immediately.
I try to be. It takes a lot of energy to hate and I'm lazy.
>>35587064
>deliberately
>what is hard deterministic fate
>>35586939
To a point, and depending on the track record of our entire relationship. So an insult from a parent/ relative or childhood friend is much more easily forgiven than from someone at work.
Forgiveness is for spineless faggots without principles.
I'm passive aggressive af so I let people think I've forgiven them but never let go what they did
>>35586939
I'd rather forgive and keep a friend than lose one over petty bullshit.
yes. maybe too forgiving not because I want to be but because I just can't make myself care for more than an hour
>>35586939
Only if it benefits me.
I generally don't forgive my enemies who only wish to hurt or ruin me.
>>35586939
I forget but don't forgive unless they apologize. People used to tell me I hold grudges, but then I realized those people are the ones who never apologized to me and wpuld just pretend nothing happened.