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Why is it so hard to find someone, anyone, that will tell you

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Why is it so hard to find someone, anyone, that will tell you the truth about how the outside world sees you?

i have no friends, no girlfriend and i fail at every relationship i've ever tried to cultivate.

family says i look fine, and i just need to bee myself.

Am i ugly? is it my voice? is it my personality? what's wrong with me? how do i fix myself?
nobody will give me an answer other than "just bee yourself"

i can't take this anymore.
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>>35555650
post face pics or more porn for responses
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>>35555650
And who is yourself? Do you have any passions, talents or anything at all op?
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>>35555650
i know that that feel
asked my sister once when she was drunk and she said that i just don't belong here and she seriously believes i'm an alien sometimes

f-fuck you t-too
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>>35556674
I work in IT, own my house and have a vehicle.
I like hiking, mountain biking, woodworking and I'm currently teaching myself to program to further my career. But nobody really cares about that stuff.

This is my face. I'm 5'10" and I weigh 160lbs
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>>35555650

Because everyone sees you differently
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one bump, then bed.
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>>35557095
>5'10
That's your problem. Girls don't want anything to do with people who are shorter than 6'2, the current cutoff for manlet status.
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>>35557095
are you fat? 160 lbs is a lot
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>>35558150
This manlet thing is pure meme. While having more height is a good thing you shouldn't discourage yourself because your shorter than 6'2.
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>>35557095
you look fairly normal. maybe try and appear more amicable and approachable and shit?
who knows we're all fucked
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>>35555650
Few things:
1.Family wants you to be happy, they want you to feel loved. This makes it very very hard to trash a person with hard truth.
2. Family knows you way too personally to understand what the issue are with you. My older brother has clinical depression. I have grown up around that, so to me, it's normal. Outside people ask how I "put up with that?" to which I have no answer because he's my brother, he seems fine/normal to me, but I'm not an outsider just meeting him for the first time. Your family may be blind to your short comings.
3. There is no certainty in romance/dating. What works for me may never work for you, what works for you may never work for a thousand others. The persons you need to meet might be in another room or area code. You may need to ask out 100 girls out before getting one "yes" or it might be the next person you ask. There is no certainty to any of it.
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>>35557095
You look average to be honest and that's a compliment
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>>35555650
Wait do you actually talk to girls irl and still fail? eww how
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>>35557095
Try and smile more. You'll look better
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>>35557095
>be 5'9 260 pounds and ugly as fuck, no real skills in life
>landed dates, sex and what not easy. Currently with a 8/10 qt for the last 6 years
>dude way better looking than me is suffering alone

There has to be some system to this we are all missing.
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>>35559109
It has to be my personality and how I come off to people, especially women. I can get some women to talk to me online but when we meet, they want nothing to do with me after.
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>>35559113
That might be part of the problem;
Average isn't good enough.
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>>35557095
>5'10"
And bald, don't forget bald. (or at least way into the "balding" stage)

Welcome to the club.
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>>35557095
you're a normy compared to me, I can see why it is difficult to pinpoint your flaws
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>>35557095
You look like a 7/10 you dumb fuck. Why are you even here?
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>>35559205
It's called confidence and not being a beta orbiter
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>>35557095
youre bald so thats like -2 if youre under 27
wear baseball caps
try to practice more approachable facial expressions in the mirror because your eyes scream "beta"
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>>35557095
You look kinda bitter/depressed/aggressive but other than that, I dunno what your issue is.

Hiking, mountainbiking and woodworking are cool hobbies, you're not manlet and 160lbs (while on the heavier side) isn't too bad.

Do you meet girls/people?
The biggest issue I've identified with the foreveralones in highschool and uni has just been that they don't meet anyone. They've got solitary hobbies like hiking, mountainbiking, woodworking, gaming etc. To make friends or get a relationship you really need to throw yourself into social interaction - team sports, volunteering, team trivia all spring to mind as ways to meet people if your job isn't doing it.
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>>35557095
Big forehead weirdo.
Hairlets should just go gay, and your "beard" looks like a chia pet.
Are you happy someone told the truth?
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>>35559709
Approachable facial expressions? I've been told I need to smile more. But I literally can't do that 24/7. My relaxed expression looks angry...

How do my eyes scream beta?
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>>35559941
Sort of, yeah...
I can grow a full beard, but it's uncomfortable and women tend to not like full beards
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>>35559991
Do what you enjoy. Be a good person. Go places. Find others who enjoy what you do. You are not ugly, kind of handsome. Try a relaxed smile. Like you just busted in a hot chick don't listen to these people who are probably uglier. Be a good person.
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>>35560022
Women love full beards dude. Step one, stop listioning to what women say about women, they are clueless
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>>35557095
Don't change anything about yourself unless you want to. There's nothing wrong with you, anon. It's just that, most people are horrible and soulless. Keep hiking and mountain biking. Keep being your best everyday. Fuck society.
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>>35560022
Who says women don't love full beards? When did that meme take hold?
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>>35555650
>gf tells me i'm perfect and there is nothing wrong with me
>"stop lying to me. i bet you laugh at my back"
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>>35557095
I want to look this good when Im older...
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>>35559991
yeah i mean smile more. just look more relaxed like the other anon meant.
betas always look on edge
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>>35560420
>>35560074
Can you normies fuck off? He literally said in the OP he's tired of "bee yourself xD" and wants the truth.
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