>no matter what you do for your oneitis some part of her Will always belong to her ex
How do I deal with this shit r9k, it's driving me insane
I've started cutting my shoulders and punching myself in the face everytime this thought crosses my mind and im alone
>>35511564
>>no matter what you do for your oneitis some part of her Will always belong to her ex
At least yours isn't with him anymore, I fell for a girl who still has a bf and all I can do is wait like the beta cuck I am.
>>35511833
Fuck man that's pretty bad
You probably know this by now, but the ride never ends
>>35511833
Nooo pls dont do this. Ur not legit waiting are you?
>>35512012
I've only been on this ride for a few months but the last time I had oneitis it lasted almost three years. So I'm prepared for another shitty fucking ride.
>>35512063
She doesn't know yet and I've been trying to keep my distance and not be an orbiter. All my other attempts to move on have failed so I figure I might as well work on improving myself and see where things are in a few months.
>>35511564
Stop giving a fuck. You're putting more power into a relationship that is the past instead of attempting to forge a new one in the present for the future. Hindsight is 20/20. Realizing that you've lost time over something insignificant is worse than what you're feeling now.
Acknowledge this now. Stay present and look to the future.