I just remembered the most embarrassing cringe-worthy moment of my entire life that happened a decade ago.
Is there a way to suppress such terrible memories?
Face them.
It's the only way to overcome them.
try and remember if you saw something embarrassing happen to somebody else and try to remember the face of them
Embrace them. Im sure I've had worse than you.
It's so obvious that we don't have free will.
If we had free will, we could just choose not to remember things we didn't want to remember.
>>35442859
Nah just accept it and move on. A good side note is that most people have retarded cringe storiesthanks though for reminding me of the dumb shit I've done
>>35442918
OP here.
Mine took place in front of a crowd of 300 people.
>>35442938
>If we had free will, we could just choose not to remember things we didn't want to remember.
You can't be serious
>>35442859
>burst into tears in uni in front of everybody, age 23
>sent a letter to my brother's gf telling her he is cheating her, age 9
>wet my bed EVERY night from birth to age 13
>bang my head on pillow EVERY night till age 18 (still have the urge to do it)
there is more
>>35442859
Write it out then burn the paper. Make sure you're in a safe spot to burn it
>>35442859
Tell me what happened, anon. This will not instantly make the problem go away, but I've found typing it out or talking to someone about it in detail can be kind of therapeutic, at least for me.
>>35442960
You would agree that anything worth calling "free will" would entail us being able to choose our thoughts, right?
>>35442859
yea what your going to want to do is take mdma or ecstasy and while you are high on them think about these moments. realize they dont matter anymore. once you are sober the memory will be like 90% less painful. worked for me at least
>>35443071
>if we had free will, we could choose to fly
this is how fucking stupid you sound. repressed memories are part of our subconsciousness, you can't control them and it has nothing to do with free will.
tfw no really bad memories
tfw no really good memories
>>35442859
tfw this post made me remember that one time i facebook messaged some foreign friend of a friend about how beautiful she was and kept trying to talk to her
>>35443132
Aren't ALL thoughts part of our subconscious mind, until they enter our conscious mind?
in 7th grade when yahoo messenger was a really cool thing no one knew how to use my classmates used to do mass webcam sessions with everybody (without any particular reason, same thing as adding as many friends to your list as you could)
a girl i didn't really care about because i was obsessed with video games made me open the webcam and since this shit had no purpose after about an hour I forgot about it completely and I got on a porn site and started wanking
i wanked in front of her and she told the whole school and highschool (same institution) the following days
CAN YOU TELL ME YOU HAVE A WORSE MEMORY? I still live in the same small city
>>35442938
I agree.
I have strated to think, that things that happen to me are destiny or something.
>>35442859
Nope, it will be with you until death
>minding my own business
>buried 15 years old embarrassing memories come back to the surface
>that time mom found me drunk as fuck and crossdressing and she broke up in tears
>>35443288
Just play it off as you being drunk and doing silly stuff