how do you get over your first love?

>>35433810

You're in too deep already to stop feeling pain. Heres the deal, anon. You're going to have to stop talking to her and distance yourself from her. I know you're not going to want to hear that bit of advice and, when I was in your shoes, I flat out discounted it. However, remaining friends with her is only hurting you and a friendship should be mutually beneficial to both parties. Shes getting a benefit from you but you're not getting one from her. Secondly, shes going to start showing interest in other guys eventually when shes around you. Shes also going to start abandoning you to hangout with said guys which will only make you resent her more. Before long she'll tell you while you're hanging out to watch her stuff and then she'll go on a lunch date with one of the guys she likes, leaving you there to think you're being a good guy (which you are) but not telling you that shes just using you.

Get out while you can, before you form an even stronger connection. Because if you don't its only going to be worse down the line.

>>35434013
she already is seeing other guys, i have had to listen to them brag about her masturbating to them. and i cant leave now. ive already gotten past the point of no return. thank you for the advice

>>35434163

I'm sorry you feel this way, anon. I hope you take some time to think this over. You have no idea how badly this is going to hurt you in the long run.

>>35434244
thank you. i know i dont really have the right to be as angry as iam because she isnt mine, but i want to die because of it

>>35433810
Do not pursue her. The worst ending you'll get is if you DO get her. That saying "better to have loved and lost than to have never loved" is complete bullshit.

t. anon who got his oneitis after 3 years of orbiting in a similiar situation to yours who got dumped and is forced to be around her every day and it just hurts even more

>>35434341
i understand that it is going to hurt, but she depends on me to help her through her life.without me she would have hurt herself, im in too deep now and i promised her i would wait for her

>>35434370
Yeah? Mine tried killing herself on multiple occasions before I came along, turned out she was just an attention whore of sorts with asperger's. Still, she led me to try to kill myself twice after she dumped me.

Is that what you want, anon?

>>35433810
uh, just focus on making your own life better and people will gradually gravitate to you if you demonstrate yourself as a paragon of excellence. there's really no reason to obsess over others in life, such thinking can only bring shame and sadness.

>>35434468
she has helped me through trying to kill myself numerous times in just the short month we have known eachother