Anyone else feel like they don't deserve a girlfriend?
>I just feel completely inadequate to even hold a relationship.
>Even if a girl said that she wants to be my girlfriend/have sex I would make up some bullshit excuse to avoid it at all costs.
>I'm not even that bad looking, I've had girls give me plenty of compliments I just never acted on them due to my overwhelming feelings of inadequacy.
Anyone else?
Yeah same, my life is not even functioning for me, let alone another person, a girl. She'd be much happier and deserves someone else.
I don't even deserve friends
yes, I hate myself and have spent my whole life sabotaging every chance of happiness I've had. It's only recently I've woke up to what I've been doing. Not sure how to change it really. I'm late 30's now so I'm probably permanently fucked.
>>35425679
>>35425660
>>35425638
Does anyone know if there is anyway to fix these feels?
>inb4 "Just work out bro", "Just b urself"
>>35425679
Any number over 25.. lets just say things are going to start looking real grim.. better start moving soon, before you know it, yeah you will be fucked. Its exactly where im sitting. Im saddled with 40k in debt, thats JUST the tip of the iceberg too.
>>35425763
For me I know if my life was in order/good, I wouldn't have these feelings. However even without them, I still wouldn't magically gain a gf. I've never had one, or even close to having one, AND I don't feel like I deserve one, even if I magically could get one.
>>35425763
nope it's all luck
>>35425585
>>Even if a girl said that she wants to be my girlfriend/have sex I would make up some bullshit excuse to avoid it at all costs.
Hey to a girl like me with low self esteem this seriously makes us wonder for years what WE did wrong.
>>35426208
Nothing really, It's just what I do.
I alienate myself to prevent others from disappointment.
>>35426254
I know that now but a girl with low self esteem at the time has trouble grasping the idea that its not her fault somehow.
>>35425585
>INADEQUACY
i'm pretty sure i defeated your inadequacy during my lunar diplomacy quest in runescape mate why are you still upset?
>>35426208
>Girl like me
JUST
FUCK
OFF