Self Improvement Thread

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>>35360234
>Want to get better at writing and orgainzation
>PTSD keeps distracting me from accomplishing what I want most days, and then I lose motivation and just play vidya or work on something else

And I mean actual PTSD not that tumblr PTSD shit. I stopped caring about a lot of other things a while ago. Seems like things are finally working out for me though since I got into some new hobbies.

>>35360234
Training and get fuckin laid, which is going pretty well. Going up in strength and hopefully I will finally become a normie

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>>35360234
>And what's holding you back?

FUCKING PHIMOSIS, SOMEONE PLEASE FUCKING HELP. GET RID OF IT!!!

>>35360234
I just want to have a few friends like I used to have back in the day but so much isolation led to me losing all my social skills and it just seems impossible atm
I see that a lot of you fags want a gf while most of you have 0 friends
we all have to get a few friends first and then a gf
gfs don't just come to you if we are so lonely all the time and without any social skills I don't even think we can keep a relationship
so this is the first step
the question is
how ?

>>35360363
getting fit is a meme faggot

I actually built myself up to something great. Then I let a girl take advantage of me, and use me and it ruined my relationship that was perfect and now I'm wracked with guilt, shame, hate, anger, depression, anxiety and pain.

I'm trying to do good things but I still wish I was dead. I've fucked so much stuff up. and it is all my fault. At least I have therapy soon.

>>35360802
Anything to make you feel better about stuffing your face you crab in the bucket piece of shit

>>35360668
How bad is it, I can't pull mine all the way back when its fully erect but apart from that its fine

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>>35360234
Suicide seems like a good improvement.

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Struggling through an engineering degree. I've never done anything so difficult and I'm still being beaten in grades by chad and stacy. How do I drive myself to do any work after having lectures from 9.00-18.00? Genuine advice needed, also "start with the easy stuff" doesn't work because I'm so far behind that everything have become very hard

>>35360668
Get circumcised. I had that done two months ago and I'm 30. You'll be glad you've done it afterwards. Make sure to use the best doctor you can find, not just anyone.

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Complete lack of emotions. I have no will to actually make friends, get a gf, care about grades, working hard... i don't even care about anime and vidya anymore. I'm just a fucking shell of a human going on day by day. The worst part is i'm perfectly fine the way i am and have no hopes, dreams or aspirations so i can't even dream about becoming a normie, chad, fit, popular etc.. help anyone?

>>35360234
I gotta cure my social anxiety so I can be a real human bean but I can't rely on anyone to see a therapist

I just discovered I don't actually have autism, just extreme ADHD and anxiety

>>35360937
You caught depression. Get medicated.

Trying to learn to draw to make a comic. Its difficult starting at 24 since there are plenty of 13 year olds that can draw far better then me.

Also dealing the crushing weight of paying rent when Im getting terrible part time hours. Was supposed to be saving up for a drawing tablet and now I can barely afford to eat

>>35360234
What do I want to improve?
My body shape, my intelligence and the lack of a job.

Whats holding me back?
As to intelligence: genetics. As to my body shape: lack of money for a gym membership, and to afford the proper diet. As to lack of a job: no intelligence, no experience, unable to pass the test I need to pass to get certified.

Im a true fuck up and there is nothing that can be done. I'll rot in my room until my parents die and then I'll finally be able to kill myself.

>>35360928
Set yourself a schedule with fixed hours, for example eat dinner from 19:00 to 20:00, then do things that need to be done by tomorrow, then relax a bit and you can do reviews between 21:30 and 22:15.
I went through an EE degree too (graduated 6 months ago), so the next lines will be personal advices / things that worked for me :
- You don't have to do reviews every single day, in fact i found it more efficient to do reviews by course chapters and start a few days after the chapter closed. Personally i think you really memorize it when you have to do a mental effort to remember things.
- What works best (for me) is to do review right before going to sleep, then try to remember things as i fall asleep. You can try to study at different hours and see what fits best.
- If you college has online archives of previous tests for a course (not too old), do them, it will give you an overview on what to expect (and even more if the same professor is teaching the course every year)
- Try not to focus on chads being better than you. I spent high school and college with the annoying douchebro-party-every-night type and they had better marks than me, especially in almost all math courses. I was jealous at the time. But you need to understand a few things :
A) They might have other troubles in their life
B) You're probably never going to see them again once you graduate, and your boss is never going to give a shit about how brad McBitchesPartyYolo got an A in numerical analysis 101 and you only got a C
C) They vary ; some might be nice (yeah i know, they will still be annoying but at least it will make jealousy a bit better to bear), as you get to more specialised coursework, nobody is usually good at everything and usually the best test-takers are the worst in lab sessions.
D) Some cheat (again, personal experience) and don't give a fuck.
- Never start to skip lectures, and especially not labs or tutorial classes. You can get serious shit coming at you as an aftermath.

>>35360234

I didn't necessarily change. I just expanded my interests into making music beats on YouTube. being a weeb can get you far.

>>35360234
I got really into self help during high school which was really good for me because it allowed to not waste too much of my time in college doing nothing.

The best thing I can recommend is finding friends. All of the problems of robots are pretty common normie problems except that they get amplified for the robots because of no friends.

Ive been toying with the idea (fantasy) of asking this girl in my class out for a date. Mind you i have no mutual friends and spoke to her twice in the two years ive known her.

I dont even know where i would take her. What to say or how to approach the situation. Also is it autustic to just ask?

Please talk me out of it.

I want to get rid of my PTSD. I miss my friend.

I want to be more of a robot. I fit pretty much all of the traits except I'm a wageslave. I make decent money though, 65k. I plan to retire asap since money is really the only thing holding me back from my goals of being a robot. I do some reading and hobbies of course. It's impossible to really make any progress. I notice a definite drop in quality of my notes. I love alcohol but there's some batches I made where I only wrote the recipe and specific gravity at start and finish. Before I'd have everything written down, and then go back for an A/B test to improve it.

Yeah, it yields alcohol, and pretty tasty stuff at that. Is it the beast though? I wish I could say a definite no, but the truth is worse. It's a big fat idunno'. Because I hardly even know what I did. Temperature? Whatever it was in my closet. Time? However long it took to get there. Techniques? I probably sanitized or something. No reproducibility at all with sloppy notes like that. I can't wait to be neet again and do real, actual, important, productive shit.

>>35362185
Not a robot, you want to be a wage-cuck

>>35362752

No, I want to be a robot. I am already a wagekek. Was that not clear to you?