NEET/NEET Recovery General

Just got a part time job at my mom's work (Home Depot). I'm working part time.

I've lost about 30 pounds working out in my room and I've finally gotten my first job.

Just trying to be productive again.

regular /recovery/ anon is dead
the discord is a bit dead rn but we'll make it great again.
https://discord.gg/G9zzg8S

>>35357421
Not gonna recover any time soon.
Using Tinder and vidya to try and lower the feeling of powerlessness in my life

Dors NEE and NET exist?

>>35357421
Just went last month and signed me up at some place that will help me find work, also get 280~ $ in NEETbux

Hopefully i will find some job that will atleast pay for rent and other expenses.

>>35358077
What country are you in?

Orginalesx

>>35358166
Zweden

I have done 9 HS subjects, currently working in other two and I have to do more than twice as much to get the diploma

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>>35357421
This fact that the Pepe in the OP has been replaced with Wojak is surprising.

Got a job interview at a warehouse thursday, once I get any job that's full time i'm moving out.

>>35358345
>once I get any job that's full time i'm moving out.
Why? Bad living conditions? Bad relationship with parents?

>>35357916
>tinder
>NEET

I've heard joblessness is a huge turnoff for women. Do you get any success?

>>35358371
I'm almost 20, looks pretty bad if I want to bring a girl over to my house and I still live with my parents. Also I don't like living with my parents, would rather be alone or with a roommate.

>>35358410
You sound like a normie. Ree.

>>35358457
Being independent and having a chance to lose my virginity sounds better than living at home saving a few thousand a year.

Does anyone have disability bux? How did you get them I'm meeting the social security person tomorrow to sign up for it. Any tips?

>>35358472
>sounds better
Sure, to a normie.

Why are you even here?

>>35358596
Do you not want a girlfriend? Do you not want to move out of your parents house and do whatever you want? I didn't know these things made me a normie, I thought these were fairly common goals around here

>>35358661
The chances of ever finding the kind of girlfriend I'd be compatible with is too small to be worth putting a whole bunch of work into. Slaving away in misery is not worth a one in a million chance at future happiness.

I can already do whatever I want while living with my parents, so that point is moot. If you have bad parents then it would be understandable to want to leave, which is why I asked that earlier.

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>>35357421
WHAT IS IT TO RECOVER FROM YOU STUPID KEKS YOU ARE BASICALLY GOING BACK IN A TIME MACHINE PAINTING YOURSELF BLACK AND WAITING IN AFRICA TO BE A SLAVE. BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT YOU ARE IF YOU WORK. I HAVE LIVED AS A NEET SINCE 17 AND I AM FINE, 20 now btw

>>35358661
not him but it's not really a matter of "I don't want those things". It's a matter of "The price I'd have to pay to get them is so high that I don't pursue them, because I don't think its worth it".

>>35358750
This guy understands.

>this wasn't original

>>35358383
Few instances, and far between.
Would be easier if I had money.

Only horny sluts respond

>>35358502
They auto-reject 95% of cases, which you're likely to be among of, unless you have a case manager/physician to certify you as disabled and advocate on your behalf. The standard for disability bucks is very, very high actually. It's harder than welfare. Look up, the social security 'blue book' and you have to meet all the criteria under your claimed condition to qualify. If you don't hit every checkbox then again, you'll get rejected.

You're applying, I presume, for something mental, right? Yeah, those are the hardest cases to win, according to my disability lawyer, who represented me a long time ago. So that brings me to the next part.

After you put in your initial application, get a preliminary decision (read: rejection), you then have to appeal. At this point, you need to find a disability lawyer who will agree to take your case. They will only do it if they think you have a 50/50 chance or higher. They will ask for a cut of your disability backpay, because if you go through the appeal then there will you will be counted since the day you first filed, and they'll give you what you were supposed to had been given long ago - hope that makes sense.

Okay, so with the lawyer, you need to build your case. You need to go have a hearing with a judge, and basically plea your case to him/her. The lawyer will chime in for the technical stuff, but most judges will want to hear from the horse's mouth, about why "you" think you're disabled.

>>35357892
good for you anon :) i'm really happy for you

>>35358885
cont.

There will be a job's expert who will play devil's advocate in the hearing. They don't cross-examine you, however, at least, they didn't with me. They will suggest to the judge what jobs, a person, with your alleged condition, should still reasonably be expected to do. You and your lawyer will then have to offer a rebuttal if given the chance.

You might get a second hearing, with the judge, if they decide to 'think about it'. Mine did because he took it very seriously. I used the opportunity to collect more evidence from my docs in this 3-4 month window

Welp, unless you win on your preliminary decision (which is conducted by an SSI bureaucrat, who you never see) -- the whole process from application to final appeal decision can take 3 years. It took me 3 years to win for my case. I won under legit panic attack/GAD. Had substantial history, and collaborating opinions from docs, who said, "yeah, he's batshit." However, despite having a strong case, I still had to go through the motions, because that's how much they don't want to give you money, and how much they don't want to give money to 'mental cases', which aren't taken very seriously.

You better start making a good file, if you want to win, and be patient about it. It will be a long process.

>>35358783
I can't believe that piece of modern literature you've managed to shit out of your hemorrhoidic ass wasn't original. I'd kill myself if I were you.

I'm happy being a NEET. My family is quite wealthy so I never have to worry about money, and I have a good amount of money in my savings account in case I want to buy something. I doubt I could even get a job, and I would have no need for one. I don't even care about girls or having sex anymore, I am content with my VR porn. NEET life is the best life for me. I never see myself changing.

>>35359052
Then why did you post here?

>>35359060
It's for NEETs or NEETs in recovery

>>35357421
They cut my disability bux lads.

> study web dev for a few months
> apply for an internship
> do it for 4 months
> get job

It's that easy.

I'm trash
Can't find a job, if i somehow get lucky i can never hold a job for longer than 2 months
My mom does her best but i can feel how disappointed she is in me, my dad stopped talking to me
But somehow life goes on

>>35359180
Why would anyone ever want to escape the NEET master race?

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>tfw I told myself I'd have a job by october for sure
>tfw been NEET almost two years now
>the ride never ends

>>35359215
It's escaping from reality, eventually the walls will collapse on you and you'll find yourself trapped in a shit entry level job being the butt of jokes from your younger coworkers for finding yourself in that predicament.

Not everyone has the luxury of being able to be supported off neetbux or parents money forever.

Using self hypnosis and actually feel a bit better

My 16 year old sister has a job. You guys are pathetic.

>>35359339
>16 year old sister
She hot?

>>35359215
Louie youve gone feral

>>35359339
An entry level fast food job, wow, so fucking impressive.

Those are usually for lower/lower middle class teenagers, your parents should make sure she gets good grades and prepare for college. Then if that's already being done, take on community college curriculum. From personal experience as a fast food working teen, it's a waste.

>>35359407
She works and does good in school. Meanwhile the manchildren in here can't even stop touching their dick and sit in their own semen while a 16 year old has a bigger net worth than you. Cope more

>>35359535
You sound just as dumb as your parents.

Thanks for being a reinforcement to not take the general population serious.

>>35359535
Okay but what do YOU do? You're probably just as pathetic.

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>>35359651
I work full time, lift and kickbox, run my own side business.

Pic related

Cope harder

>>35359613
Lol at least I don't have to ask my parents for an allowance.

>>35359849
So are you here to laugh at us?

>>35359873
>feeling the need to try and kick someone when they are down

Life might seem good for you at the moment, but the way you conduct yourself when no one is watching is a reflection of your true character.

Bad things will happen to you, you deserve it as well, I hope you can "cope" it as well as us.

>>35358885
>>35358970
Thank you for the info I've been diagnosed Bi polar , ptsd, and major depression and have attempted suicide 2 times. My case isn't strong enough I assume but I don't want to wage slave

>>35359973
Shut up faggot I've been through shit that would make you curl up in a ball and cry for your momma. That's what makes people stronger, I'm glad for my problems, because without them I would never overcome and grow. Comfort kills, I'm not kicking anybody, just the faggots who brag about being a loser.

>>35358343
RIP regular OP

>>35360198
You attacked me without knowing my story, you sound like a fucking idiot to me.

>>35358733
i thought i was fine at 20, then over time i got tired of vidya and anime and now i'm in hell, endless free time and nothing to do with it

I'm considering taking up alcoholism just so I can go to bars and other socialization areas. It is impossible to make friends or get a gf without being in college. I hate drinking REEEEEEEEEEEE

>>35357421
My parents are kicking me out soon if I don't get a job. And even then, they might kick me out anyway.

The only jobs near me that I even remotely have a chance of getting are in fast food. I think I'm just going to kill myself tbqh.

>>35360560
Get a job or be homeless, which is it?

>>35360649
Fast food is fuckin' scary though man. I'm either going to have to work the register and interact with people when it's super fucking busy all the time, or cook.
I can barely fry eggs man. I can't fucking cook. And I feel like I'd just choke up on the register all the time.

Death sounds much easier. I won't even have to kill myself, I'll just starve. But summer's coming, and starving in the heat is gonna fucking suck.

Life fucking sucks. I never asked for this shit.

>>35360701
get a robot job like night shift stocking shelves

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>>35360701
>I never asked for this shit.
iktf

>>35360701
Is it possible to talk to parents and be very serious about going to school for something you are passionate about?

>>35360745
I tried man. Fast food is literally the only industry left that MIGHT hire me. I've applied to every retail store near me, nobody ever calls. I tried applying to restaurants, but nobody's hiring. Hotels don't have any real entry level jobs, they all want experience or hire illegals.

I wanted to work in a warehouse, but my parents refuse to drive me. Yet they all want to sit around bitching at me and tell me "You don't try hard enough" and "You don't really want a job".

>>35360800
No. They wouldn't take me seriously, and who the fuck would pay for it? My mother hasn't worked in 5 years, but still bitches about how we don't have money to fix the washing machine that's been broken for months.
They're kicking me out because they hate me and think they'll suddenly have more money if they do. Jokes on them though, they don't buy me shit. They buy me food, because they have to. That's about it.

I dunno. I really think I'm just fucked guys. This is one of thus nut up or shut up moments, and I just don't think I'm cut out for it. I tried though, I really did, despite what everyone else thinks. They can't take that away from me.

>>35361006
I guess I could go into drug dealing. Don't really know how though. And it's sketchy as fuck, but hey, it's something, right?

yall are autistic

also no one would buy drugs form your neckbearded neat ass

>>35361411
You clearly don't do drugs.

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NEET of almost 3 years, going to military processing on Thursday and shipping out most likely April 11th. I've been hitting the gym for the past year, lost a lot of weight (60lbs) and got my GED with honors. Off to better my life, I'll be gone soon... don't forget me sweet brothers.

>>35359535
I am a NEET and I have more money than you will ever have, wageslave.

>>35357421
I'm not holding up very well here. Today marks the 10th month of being a NEET 30 year old virgin. I'm still living with my mommy and daddy in the same house I've been in since I was 14. I feel like I'm slowly losing my mind or maybe I already have. I play vidya everyday and fap once in a while but nothing really distracts me from how much of a piece of shit I truly am. Maybe if I had been smarter my parents would have had more freedom and time to themselves to do shit they wanted to do instead of taking care of their manchild who sits around and does absolutely nothing. I wish I had an excuse as to why I turned out like this. I wish it was because I was a drop out, or because I spent a long time doing coke or heroin. But that isn't the case. I tried hard guys. I tried my best and my best just wasn't enough.

>>35360495
i feel u anon

You have been muted for 2 seconds, because your comment was not original.

bump because you deserve it for keeping this going

tfw going to drive car parts soon

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How do I escape? I don't even know what's the first step I should take. I've been cut off from socializing for so long that my brain doesn't even know how to comprehend human interaction.

I followed uncle Remus neetbux explanation I hope I get neetbux

>>35361979
No you don't. I've been working and saving for five years and Investing my money.