This

you're probably going to hate this because you see it over and over again but it is because it is the only way out of the pit you are in:

YOU NEED TO LEARN TO BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF

a gf will not bring you happiness. it will only make it worse because right now you are fantasizing as though she will be a saviour that brings you to happiness. she won't. she is just another human being with her own baggage that you will have to deal with. this will inevitably just disappoint you, ruin what you thought was your golden ticket and make everything worse for both parties.

this isn't some stupid MGTOW redpill bullshit - those people are pathetic bitter husks who gave into that cocaine-like rush of hating something.

when you feel empty inside there is no other person who can fill up your soul except you. you need to do things just for the sake of doing them. pick one thing that you have thought about doing and just start doing it. photography, hiking, drawing, coding, writing, whatever, even if you suck it it. who is judging? just you. you have lost control to your own negative thoughts and you need to learn to take it back. it is not easy and will take time but the rewards are well worth it.

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It isn't worth it. It took a long time to finally accept it but when I finally did it allowed me to focus on things other than how much of a lonely faggot I was. Once you realize that females are all whores who are unable to feel real love you will finally be able to concentrate on other things. You will still be a sad sack of fuck but eventually you'll just get used to it. Sadness will become a constant function that is always happening but you never notice like breathing. Being alone is fine.

>>35339037
Did you write this, anon..?

>>35339037
>a gf will not bring you happiness.

That's where you are wrong. I've had a girlfriend for two years (until I fucked up). I was not a happy person before the relationship or after the relationship. But I definitely was happy during the relationship. Stop this meme.
Sometimes, you really do need a significant other to be complete, anon.

reminder that the people who say its not worth it have already had gfs, so they dont understand the depravity and loneliness some people face when they go decade after decade without a loving bond with someone.

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>>35338875
I use to be like you too, just wait, it's just a phase. you'll become a sociopath who doesn't care about >no gf in no time. just don't have human interactions.

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>>35339178
But how? Im a HSP and everytime I try something related to girls, I get hurt easily and feeling like shit and almost crying..+ I'm a paranoic person..

I just want to find a girl just like me, with my my same feelings, my same shit..it's obvious that I need someone who completes me.

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>>35339037
Just wanted to say that this is beautifully written
Wish it worked for me though
Maybe in the future

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>>35339288
>you'll degenerate into a sociopath

I can second this, anon. It's quite liberating honestly--just hope you've got a good memory for all the lies you'll be telling.

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>>35339476
Degenerate? you mean evolve?

>>35339288
>>35339476
>>35339588
H-how long does it take for that to happen? I'm 26 and I feel like I'm getting closer. Should I just give up on the gf and emotions meme already?

>>35338875
>>35339037
this
life isnt a fucking fairytale OP things aren't perfect
learn to embrace imperfections and learn that life wouldn't be the same without them

>>35339037
This is really good advice. Pretty much what everything boils down to. A person living life with no meaning or purpose (90% of all women) how do you expect them to be your reason for living or give you any purpose?

>Meet ex gf while being insecure faggot with no sense of purpose in life
>Gf even worse, also has daddy issues
>Get real fucking close and pretty much lose all friends because "I love muh girlfriend"
>Move in together
>Slowly realize that gf just makes me unhappy and I have turned into a weedsmoking college dropout piece of shit
>Fast forward one year
>Thinking I have to get out of the relationship but turned into to big a pussy to do something about it
>Find out she's been cheating on me for gods know how long
>Break up
>Contemplate suicide / excistence / work shit job for a couple of years
>Back to square one, still trying to find out what to do with my life
>Atleast im doing relatively fine without anyone else

tl;dr
Dont waste your time on girls if you dont know what you want in life.

Make up your mind and do whatever it is you want to do. When you are content with your own existence the girls will come. Nothing is more attractive to a woman than a man that's "got it all figured out" and is just happy on his own.

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>>35339734
>How long does it take?

I had a head start with mild autistic tendencies...still took around 25 years to fully present itself to a level where I could step back and recognize it for what it was.

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>>35339734
I guess it depends on the person, I'm 20 and already pretty sociopathic. I test very low on every empathy test I could find on internet.
you have to realize that that you only reason desire women is because of natural instincts, there is no reason for sex other than to reproduce, you have to repress your animistic instincts, push down your reptilian brain and become Human 2.0. you can also try to transform your sadness and loneliness into hate.

>>35339991
Recipe for disaster. inb4 massacre.

I think humans actually need physical contact with other humans to feel happy and accepted. Seems like this need is hardwired into us on almost the same level as need for food and drink. Just look at how fucked up people get from being in solitary confinement for extended periods of time.

>dont make sex/women your only reason for living, but complete abstinence of all interpersonal relationships seems unhealthy

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>>35340150
I'm feeling pretty good, I just don't feel sad about pity things like >no gf anymore, also I'm not sure, but seems like girls are actually are more attracted to people like me, I still would like to have kids before I die, but I'm not much interested into having gf anymore, most people are happier without sex before marriage anyway, pic related.

>>35340280
A lot of interesting statistics there... That's actually quite amazing.
I wouldn't say I'm sad I don't have a girlfriend. I don't really want one at the moment either (more than one option, just haven't done anything about it).
But are you saying you don't feel good after having sex? You know that relaxing state of mind that lasts for like one or two weeks afterwards?

>>35338875
>the only thing in life that is important is sex!!!
you guys are blind
life is what you make it

>>35340453
>But are you saying you don't feel good after having sex? You know that relaxing state of mind that lasts for like one or two weeks afterwards?
No, I never had sex, I'm convinced that it would not make me feel better, I would rather focus on other things.