Have any robots managed to cure their femdom fetish? This is

>>35306652
how could it possibly ruin your life?

>>35306704
Because it literally doesn't exist in real life. If I was rid of it I might finally be able to have a normal relationship and be the kind of guy women want, without having to live a lie.

>>35306831
>citation needed

stop basing your view on sexuality on /r9k/

>>35306652
Take testosterone supplements

Alternatively, stop watching porn

>>35306831
cant really relate to normalfag problems like that,
I don't have any chance with any woman so it makes no difference to me.

You need to fully accept it, once you do it's just gonna fade away.
Although, since you are here it's impossible that you'll free yourself of any desire.

>>35306652
>That ass
>Those feet
>Those tits
I'm not into femdom but jesus christ what I wouldn't give to have her riding my cock

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Can't cure reality

Females deserve obedience in sex and in life

>>35306997
What part, that it doesn't exist? That's not based on /r9k/, it's based on every woman I've talked to ever. Women who are genuinely into this are unicorns, the best you can hope for is a pro domme, which is disgusting in every way and the complete opposite of what I want.

>>35307031
You mean literally roiding? Isn't that kind of unhealthy?

Not watching porn doesn't help for me, I rarely even do that, and I've had this fetish for longer than that.

>>35307129
They don't though, since they don't want it.

>>35307090
What does accepting it even mean?

>>35307129
That's a nice inne

>tfw you'll never LTR a roastie again

>>35307129
See that's a model who was paid to stand like this while a photographer took a picture from below. After this she's going home and getting plowed into submission by Chad, not giving a second thought to what kind of pathetic losers would fap to this.

It's true, femdom is a myth.

>>35307244
This is correct.

most girls do not do femdom, and if a girl is really into you then she'll do some of it for you, but she'll lose some respect for you in the process.

>>35307278
Exactly, not to mention her doing it "for me" ruins it from the start, at least to me. I know most sub guys are satisfied with a bit of play pretend, even if it means paying or coercing a woman into "domming" them, but my fantasy is a woman who actually wants to be in charge and me doing it most of all to please her.

>>35307340
>but my fantasy is a woman who actually wants to be in charge and me doing it most of all to please her.
Yeah that's gonna be tough.

Personally I'm down with a cute girl sitting on my face while she gives me a world class blow job. As long as your fuck her senseless after you can get that from most girls, but getting her to really be a dom is never going to happen

>>35307278
It's funny, even feminist "strong independent womyn" want to be treated like worthless cumrags.

>>35306652
By incorporating it into my domination fetish, thereby realising that lezdom is the true patrician fetish.

>>35307423
Especially feminists. Feminists are almost universally hardcore subs.

>>35307381
OK so how do I unfuck my brain so I can stop craving shit that doesn't exist?

This is what being a furry must feel like.

>>35306652
Just find a left wing qt gf or find one on the internet. It's not rocket science.

God please tell me she is farting in his face

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Damn that video is so arousing.

>>35306652
on pregbalin i don't masturbate for 4-6 days easily and once on ssri i haven't ejaculed for 3 weeks.

Get into a long term relationship with a girl that's into you. She will be willing to do things like femdom play with to make you happy.

I've been with the same girl for a long time and had so many femdom experiences that I'm burnt out on the fetish and just prefer normal sex for the most part. Occasionally my fetishes still turn me on but not like it used to.

As a woman, I don't get how you could be into femdom, OP.
Just feels really unnatural for me. I've never met or known any dominant women, but uh, good luck to you on your search.

>>35307129
I wanna deepthroat dem heels

>>35306652
Lowl, who was playing Mass Effect in the background?

>>35307618
Why dont you go ahead and put a bullet in your worthless female brain you roastie cunt

>>35307527
Honestly? Stop watching all femdom porn.

Don't do nofap, that's broscience, but if you remove yourself from all femdom porn you should see some improvement. Find another fetish that you can actually play out.

>>35307533
Left wing girls are sub as fuck.

You could just pay prostitutes to do it

>>35307757
The girl sitting on the guy's face.

>>35307783
To my knowledge, they aren't.

>>35307598
>>35307790

Already covered this, see here:
>>35307278
>>35307340

>>35307803
Oh yeah, now I catched it. Anyone have a link to this one?

>>35307857
pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph55889e7890505

>>35307903
Thanks man, too bad there's no fucking part and you can't see her face once in this one.
But since we're link-sharing, let me repay my debt: https://www.eporner.com/hd-porn/hmaX2EjaJCF/Dose-Of-Cum-In-Sexy-Blonde-s-Pussy/

>>35307767
The trouble is when I interact with a girl I like I keep catching myself slipping into beta mode. So it takes all my willpower not to fall for her shit tests and lose her interest, and I can never just b myself. I can do a decent alpha schtick that most girls will fall for, but every moment of it is suffering for me, and I just end up losing all respect for her in the process.

I guess my brain works like those of women, if they were forced into a domme role by society.

>>35307976
There's a ton of other videos from the same two in the links. They're all almost identical, though in some you can see her face a bit.

>>35307857
>catched

You fucking retard,

As a woman I'm into it. There's no reason to lose respect for a guy who pleases me sexually.

>>35307115

This.

Original memez

>>35308176
>who pleases me sexually.
How?

>>35308167
Yeah, I mostly forget the past tense for "catch".

>>35308220
By pounding the fuck out of her ass while holding her face down and making her call you daddy obv.

>>35306652
I did, but being uncut helped. Basically I just jacked off to maledom until my horny mind and non-horny mind aligned sexually. If your non-horny mind is into femdom I can't help you though

>>35308220
Not that poster but I think what was meant is by being unselfish. Don't expect her to only please you with sexual play that gets you off 24/7. You also have to reciprocate sexually.

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At least you could theoretically find a woman into it. I have a wife fetish, someone who wants kids, who loves their husband and supports them, etc. It just doesn't happen. I have literally never seen a healthy married couple that got married after the 70s

>>35308220
Gentle femdom, mostly. I don't really like being submissive and prefer to be the one in charge. I use him and his body to orgasm, but I also treat him with love. That being said, I love the whole queen/servant thing and whatnot.

There's definitely dom girls out there, I don't get why everyone is saying there isn't.

Why don't you go join one of those bdsm clubs, op?

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>>35306652
you can't cure something that's right

i will not give up till i find the goddess that needs me to serve her

she is out there i know it

>>35308312
>theoretically
prollem is: women have two X chromosomes, so the weirdness we get gets caught on the second chromosome. This is why their intelligence is more uniform (they're also lower IQ on average, according to most studies, but that contradicts indoctrination so into the haramcan it goes) and they suffer colorbindness and homosexuality so much less frequently.

Bithces arn't shit except for shit that's whores and trick family comrade friendo t. sleep deprived

>>35308367
>I love the whole queen/servant thing and whatnot.
Please be my gentle kind queen.

>>35308312
Maybe if you weren't fawning over girls like you posted...

>>35308404
Haha I was thinking the same thing. That girl looks like a frat house party donkey.

>>35308380
You mean real life clubs? I heard all the "dommes" there are pros, also the clubs have this whole lifestyle bdsm thing going on where their whole lives revolve around leather and latex shit.

>>35308380
because they get taken so fast and have so many choices that a 1/10 Domme can get a 10/10 sub male.

The landiest whale only wants a fit man with her exact fetishes.

>>35308477
>The landiest whale only wants a fit man with her exact fetishes.
Lmao no. I'm a fit man with lots of fetishes and I'm not even close to finding a landwhale domme.

>>35308253
>tfw currently fucking a girl who calls me daddy
Never realized how hot it would be, but everytime she says it I'm diamonds.

>>35307381
This
My fwb will do 69 but she won't straight up sit on my face

>>35308399
Sorry man, I'm taken. I'm rooting for you to find your own gentle queen. Just letting you know that it's not impossible and you don't have to look for dommes or anything. I'd say I'm an average, yet shy person.
I'm also rooting that my bf grows into the gentle femdom.

What about financial domination 97% of women are into that.

>>35308497
Well then you live in shitsville or you don't put yourself out there to be contacted so no Domme can find you.

>>35308513
>daddy
What's the appeal?

>>35308535
>Sorry man, I'm taken.
WHY ARE YOU POSTING ON R9K
REEEEEEEEEEEEE

>>35308535
>I'm also rooting that my bf grows into the gentle femdom.
When that fails, you can always just break up with him and sit on my face.

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2d waifus are the best doms.

>>35308095
>I can never just b myself. I can do a decent alpha schtick that most girls will fall for, but every moment of it is suffering for me, and I just end up losing all respect for her in the process.

Fucking same. By the time I've passed her dumb tests and I see how her mind works I just want to go home and do my hobbies and shitpost.

>>35306997
all women are submissive and those who pretend to be dominant are fishing for attention
maybe you'll actually find one actually, genuinely dominant women if your sample is large enough but she's likely to be ugly as fuck and have serious mental issues anyway

>>35306652
>>35307903

Sounds like she has a New York accent. There's your answer. Go to NY the people there are aggressive as fuck.

>>35308535
OP here, that wasn't me asking you to be his queen btw. What you said sounds just like what I'd want, but I've accepted that it won't happen. The only times I ever hear of a woman being into it is anonymous online posts like this.

>you don't have to look for dommes or anything
I'm guessing you don't just tell people in real life what you're into. So even assuming 1% of girls are into this, which I doubt, I'd either have to be ridiculously lucky or cycle through about a hundred girlfriends that I'd each have to get intimate enough for them to reveal their fetishes to me, in order to find a domme gf without looking for one.

>>35308666
I actually did find a girl once who was genuinely into it. I've never been happier. Turns out though that she was just a borderline sociopath with an inferiority complex who doesn't have a sense of empathy and spent months using me and completely faking any emotional attachment for me. Dumped me literally the moment her life was going slightly better, for literally the first new guy who came along.

i have a femdom gf, it feels pretty nice, she in fact introducedme to the more hardcore stuff cuz she was into it. OP, the way it works is that you get a normal gf and ask her if she is into it. sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't.

>>35308849
Man, woman are so ruthless.

Original meme

>>35308853
>the more hardcore stuff
like what?

>>35308853
You just got unbelievably lucky, do you have any idea what the odds are?

>>35308849
my gf is bpd but she loves me genuinely and we made progress, at times i WANTED her to find a better guy and just stopped showing her a lot of affection because the mental illness drove me nuts, but she stayed. although, at the beginning and she admits it herself, she did in fact not actually love me. although it's okay now and the sex is great. i think most girls that like femdom are open towards it because it allows them to feel power..

>>35308902
i wasn't into pain stuff at all. i only liked gentle femdom, she made me experiment with my butt, she made me try crossdressing (and she loves me doing it more than i love it myself), i was allergic to humiliation kinks and now i like it too.

>>35308949
note: it helped that im much smarter than her and could see through her antics, make her discipline herself, make her admit her own abuse and never backed down. this allowed the relationship to develop into something less fucked up.

>>35308666
THis is true.
OP: I cured my femdom fetish by actually serving as a slave for a while, wasn't that fun IRL. Much better on porn. I met my 3 mistresses on a swedish website for BDSM: darkside, if you're swedish by any chance. I think "fetlife" is similar for english speaking. I'm a total chad tho so for me it was easy to find a girl, just go to their meetings and be cute. I am now cured and living with a qt submissive blonde who will have my kids, like God meant it. I wish you luck in your quest for normality.

also, stop watching porn, seriously, it fucks up your dopamine and makes you autistic neet.

>>35308367
I'm curious as to what your femdom fantasies are. I just really want to please my Mistress, then be on my knees next to her, collared, looking into her eyes, and being told what a good boy I've been.

>>35308849
>who was genuinely into it
How do you know? What kinda stuff did you do?

>>35308718
>I've accepted that it won't happen
You need to change your way of thinking, man.

Maybe the both parties are a bit ashamed of their fetishes because of the fear of being rejected/ridiculed so they don't really express them outside of specific places, or even worse, try to pretend they're into something they're just not, like >>35308095
In my experience, I don't know what would be the characteristics of a guy who wants to live to pleasure me, as the one who I have met don't want their masculinity challenged.

>>35308849
How did her life get better?

>>35309007
>could see through her antics, make her discipline herself
How?
>never backed down
Again, how? When I don't back down, they act like they want to break up.

>>35309349

I had multiple talks with her, i proved tried and clear that she was in the wrong and that I would simply break up and walk away if she doesn't want to admit it since I don't want anything to do with abusers. I had three such talks. After every time, she made a huge effort to get better. You have to stand firm. Even if she threatens to break up, find a better guy - just let her. Tell her you need her to change if you want to stay with her. First of all, she gains newfound respect for you (which can turn into real love) AND she knows that "yo uare for real" and wants to change to treat you better. At least thats how it was... and yes I'm the guy with the femdom gf

>>35309191
I think it's not a coincidence if you're only attracted to men who wouldn't sub.

>>35308849
Interesting, exact same thing happened to me, with a girl like that. Was it an internet thing?

To OP and anyone wondering how to cure any fetish. Either quit porn, or start just masturbating to vanilla stuff.

>>35308312
>wears literal playboy booty shorts
>gets annoyed when someone takes a pic

>>35306704
$200 of every paycheck goes to custom vides where goddes make fun of my cuck sized cock and tell me the prep the bull

>>35310522
It was. Where was yours from?

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>you will never have beautiful nigress sit on your face and force you to eat out her ass
>feelsbad

>>35310822
Not sure, she was secretive about it, but EU.

>>35306831
>he's blaming all of his problems on some external cultural aspect
>he doesn't understand that his own mind is a vast network of memories and feelings that have several different origins

>>35310604
>Either quit porn, or start just masturbating to vanilla stuff.
That doesn't change a damn thing if it's a genuine fetish. If it's a slight kink that you developed, then maybe, but I was literally aware of my fetishes before ever seeing porn.

>>35310850
Damn nigger she didn't even tell you what country she was from? And I thought I had it bad with her not telling me her real name and camming with everyone but me.

>>35310900
She didn't cam with me, don't know her real name either. What did she look like?

>>35310919
Not her, she wasn't from EU.

>>35310989
She could have lied about that though.

>>35311000
Post her pic if you like, I'll tell if it's her.

>>35311027
>Post her pic if you like, I'll tell if it's her.
Email a pic to my throwaway
[email protected]

>>35307903
>this guy just has tons of videos of a girl sitting on his face for long periods of time while she plays video games and is probably paid for it
I wish my life was that easy, too bad I was born a male.

>>35311067
Sorry don't have any. You don't either? It's hard to describe her, she was conventionally attractive and changed hair color a lot.

>>35308535
why the fuck are you on r9k?

FUCKING NORMIES FUCK OFF FUCK OFF FUCK OFF


FUCKING GET OFF MY BOARD

>>35308312
>I have a wife fetish

Having a heterosexual monogamous relationship is now considered a fetish

This is the future we chose

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>>35306652
Most of the advice in this thread is pretty shit OP, so I'll try to tell you as much as I know, someone who's personally had a femdom fetish (And more) since he was 13.

A lot of anons recommended doing some "treatments" to cure your fetish (Masturbating to vanilla, not masturbating at all, etc); these will not rid you of your fetish but merely subdue it. The only one true way to cure yourself of a fetish is to discover the psychological roots it holds in your mind and fix it. Go read up on the psychology behind fetishes, they occur for reasons. Naturally, fetishes are not normal and your brain must adapt to them to be aroused by them. For example, a person is not naturally sexually attracted to balloons. Instead you'll find people with balloon fetishes had childhood events mixing balloons with sexual arousal, creating who they are today. Go research and see if you can analyze yourself and see why you have this fetish. If I would take a guess, it's probably self confidence, self esteem, and mommy issues. Your brain shifts control to the female to relieve itself of your duty to be dominant, as you have no confidence and don't like yourself, so you submit to the other sex and take on the less masculine role.

I grew up in a big female family as the younger, with no father and an autistic older brother. I had very little male role models in my life, and it lead me to on a very delayed path to manhood. I was very intelligent for my age, but lacked masculine teachings, had no standing as a man, hence no confidence, and during puberty this pushed me towards liking femdom (Along with my sisters and being exposed to early 2d femdom hentai when I was 12).

I'm 23 now, but over the years I've reverted the things I lost due to my father's absence, and with that I found that femdom became less and less appealing to me. That is, at least, with 3d women.

>>35311386
Well I know the reasons in my case, or can guess at least, and it's basically what you said. I suppose I do have low self-esteem, but no idea how to fix it. Good to know though that fixing that would fix my fetish in the process.

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>>35311386
As I matured into a man, I started to become honest with myself; because the start of fixing your problems is understanding what they are (Your weaknesses, your abnormalties, your fetishes). I found that once I accepted my kinks (And learned how they literally won't work in reality, especially femdom; literally impossible for a woman to be dominant sorry bro), they stopped controlling me and I no longer had a desire to enact them.

After that though, I started to be sexually open to anything, but only through imagination and 2d concepts. My sexual interests and freedom vastly expanded, but only in the non materialistic world. However in 3d normie land, I really only want to have missionary sex for the sole purpose of procreation while we cuddle afterwards and raise beautiful children.

My advice

>Find yourself
>Fix yourself
>Accept your kinks but don't practice them (You won't want to after you fix them, and once they're "fixed" you won't be so aroused by them)
>Find a normal 3d girl when you're ready, but realize that your kinks will never manifest into reality on onto her

Good luck, anon

>>35311523
Isn't it frustrating fapping to fetishes in fantasy but never making them happen in real life?

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>>35311386
>If I would take a guess, it's probably self confidence
I'm pretty confident, and becoming more and more confident with myself lately
>self esteem
I have a good self esteem, even if I shitpost here
>and mommy issues
no mommy issues at all, grew up in a normal family with normal parents
>Your brain shifts control to the female to relieve itself of your duty to be dominant
I actually like being dominant in real life, in sex, I just get extremely aroused when thinking about women being even more dominant than me. When I'm with a submissive little girl I get dominant easily, but I never fap to that for some reason
>as you have no confidence
I do
>and don't like yourself
but I do
>I grew up in a big female family as the younger, with no father
I had, and have a pretty manly father who was always there for me
>I had very little male role models in my life
not my case
>but lacked masculine teachings, had no standing as a man, hence no confidence, and during puberty this pushed me towards liking femdom (Along with my sisters and being exposed to early 2d femdom hentai when I was 12).
none of these apply to me, except that I fucking started liking femdom when I was like 10 years old

so what is my case then?
i find literally NOTHING in my childhood and teen years that could have caused it
I'm in a healthy relationship right now with 0 femdom
but I still fap to femdom pretty often
I cant get these thoughts out of my head

HELP

>>35311928
I found for me it was the education system. From day 1 it's female teachers controlling you and telling you what to do. female students generally got preferential treatment, and as a result they were often seen as "better". It's like this from like preschool to adulthood. It's no surprise my sexual tastes reflect my upbringing.

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110+ posts and I'm first to braappost? I'm disappointed in you robots

>>35311386
>Your brain shifts control to the female to relieve itself of your duty to be dominant, as you have no confidence and don't like yourself, so you submit to the other sex and take on the less masculine role.

but im confident and do like myself and thats precisely why i like femdom. why would i, a fairly smart dude, fairly interesting dude, not too ugly be interested in some girl that lets me do whatever she wants with her? it's boring. i love challenge, i love being challenged and looking up to someone, i love being told what to do sometimes, i love that i can please someone else for once in lowly ways. i don't want to be the know-it-all guy that always knows what to do all the time. i don't want to prove myself to my gf.

i like femdom because it's fun play, it's interesting, it's subversive, i like it when women are powerful partly because of political beliefs. i like it if women try to take responsible, confident, assertive roles sexually because ever since i was young i was rooting for women to be "cool" like boys are. i mean obviously most aren't but i don't blame them for it, its quite clear why girls are the way they are.

in any case, being into femdom is not an illness, you don't need to fuck your wife good to put your life in order, either

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Studies have also shown couples with one dominant partner, REGARDLESS IF ITS THE FEMALE OR MALE ONE, produce more children and experience more marriage satisfaction.

>inb4 dailymail, just look at the real study then you fuck

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2944977/A-quarter-women-prefer-submissive-men-study-finds-couples-one-dominant-partner-happier-produce-children.html

>>35307340

Same here, the fetish for me is a girl who actually asks me to sub for her rather than the other way around. If i have to ask her then there is no point in it for me.

>>35307813

Have any experiences to share?

>>35308384
What weird ass movie is that from?

>>35312786
then it will very rarely happen because women are scared of that role. The way it works is that you bring it up and say you like it and want it to happen. Then you will see if she gets into it. If she does, in the future, she will bring it up herself, she will tell you that she wants to, i dont know, sit on your face or ride you good, maybe she will say she wants to humiliate you and be mean. If she likes it, she will bring it up herself, but you have to introduce her to the concept. However if it's successful it is sexy, because they really do often end up liking it.

>>35306652
See a Dominatrix. Problem solved

>>35312897
>pay some obnoxious normie whore to act out a weird disgusting scenario with you
>comparing this to having a lovingly dominant girlfriend who's close to you and that you love
Are you fucking retarded, man?

>>35312833
It's from a strapondreamer set.

>>35312265
we're not /fit/

>>35312833
>>35312958
>>35308384
Fuck I can't find that gif of her pegging him with her foot on his head.

>>35311386
What constitutes as mommy issues?

I may have them.

Just in case line for originality.

>>35308312
>I have a wife fetish, someone who wants kids, who loves their husband and supports them
Ha yeah, that fetish is never going to happen bud.

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>>35313393
Ah found it.

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>>35314189
And the one I meant, fuck this originality shit this is an imageboard god dammit.

>>35312850

I have already accepted that it will never happen. Im just saying that if i have to ask her to do it, there is no point in it for me anymore. The idea is that she is naturally dominant and wants it herself, even if i didnt want to. If she isnt geniunely dominant, then i dont need it at all.

>>35314439
Personally I'd want her to be a sexually aggressive nympho and actively coerce me into becoming her slave, pushing and molding me to her will, but I'd settle for a girl who'd enjoy femdom and wouldn't think I'm a pathetic creep for enjoying it too.

>>35314439
your standards are simply too high

>>35315264

This is pretty accurate

>>35315283

Wanting someone to be geniunely dominant and not faking it is too high of a standard? Well yeah i guess when it comes to women it probably is.

>>35315452
>Wanting someone to be geniunely dominant and not faking it is too high of a standard

I was trying to tell you that it's not "faking it". You introduce your gf to a concept she hasn't thought about of, hasn#t considered seriously or possibly repressed. Then, it's prossible that she grows to GENUINELY like it. Then she GENUINELY BY HERSELF because SHE LIKES IT NOW initiates being dominant in the bedroom. This is how it works with most girls, you introduce them to something they didn't think about before and they grow to love it more than you did in the beginning. They expeirence, thanks to you, the feeling of being dominant for the first itme and grow to love it. Whats wrong with that?

>>35315530
Do you realize how unrealistic it is to try and seek out a girl who this would work with?
It's like basing your entire relationship with a girl on a gamble and just faking it with her until your potential one in ten chance, at least, turns out in your favor. Not to mention the time and money investment.

I honestly think it would be more effective to seek out a pre established dom, behavior like this is good for introducing general hobbies like games, or maybe for introducing political information/beliefs but I'm not sure how effective it would be at inducing a fetish in someone.

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As someone who has had a femdom fetish and grown out of it, half of it is realisation. Dominant women are almost impossible to find, they are more than likely inside their house posting about twinks online as much as you post about girls sitting on your face. They are probably in poor shape and into aspects of femdom that you simply aren't, like cbt or chastity.
Secondly, if you build a relationship with a girl because she's dominant and you're blinded by lust, it will fall apart.
A couple of guys have said it in this thread, get a gf who you like and build up a relationship that way and then experiment.
Also, stop watching porn, especially femdom, but all porn if you can. It will lead you back to femdom.

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>>35315900
>Do you realize how unrealistic it is to try and seek out a girl who this would work with?

40% of girls have fantasized about dominating someone sexually before. 25% of women are in relationships where they are more dominant. BDSM club surveys are irrelevant because men are more willing to meet in weird clubs than women are.

It's not that unrealistic, anon.

>>35316764
That's such bullshit. At most that "fantasising about dominating someone sexually" is something like "omg wouldn't it be hot if I could just order Chad to fuck me silly teehee"

Start working out. Increase your testosterone. Eat healthy and take care of your body. Focus on being successful and having hobbies. The submissiveness will go away eventually.

Guess what anon sexually dominant women are a fantasy for the most part. 99.9% of "femdoms" are doing it for the money. It's in womens nature to want to be taken by a strong alpha male. and the small percentage of actual femdoms sure as fuck don't want your pathetic ass.

I've trolled through places like collarspace and fetlife, and most (almost all of the hot ones) will put something like "need an alpha man who is submissive inside the bedroom" or a variation of that idea on their profile.

>>35317071
>>35317191
yes. it's a hard pill to swallow. even dominant women want confident, successful, high-value men.

>>35317277
You mean
>even dominant women want dominant non-submissive men

Pretty much.

>>35317071
http://www.craveonline.com/site/784291-top-55-common-sex-fantasies-revealed-common#/slide/1

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/11207542/Top-sexual-fantasises-of-women-Romance-trumps-whips-and-chains.html

i cant copy the text cuz it gives me non-ascii text is not allowed error. but all the date you need is there.

>>35317277
the point is that even for them you need to be presentable enough for them to become your gf. once you have a gf, the chances aren't that bad that she would like it.

>>35317333

Here is the thing my dude, what are the criteria for "dominant" in these surveys? Like the other dude said, if you just ask a girl "would you like to take a dominant role in the bedroom" or "would you like to be the one who takes initiative" then you're gonna get women who think that asking Chad to fuck them in a specific way is "dominance".

I really want it to be true, but realistically, i doubt real femdoms even exist in the first place, let alone me being able to date one.

>>35317423
>Here is the thing my dude, what are the criteria for "dominant" in these surveys?

25% ofwomen like spanking or whipping someone to obtain sexual pleasure
47% like tying someone up