how do I stop being ostracized? so often people who I thought

>>35300484
You probably have aspergers or some kind of mental illness like myself. You're probably also a man. This combination is what leads to ostracisation.

>>35300515
I do have aspergers

jesus fuck what am I doing wrong
I try so hard to figure it out but I cant!!!!

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help me this is acutally killing me, im dying

>>35300484
This happens to me too.
Guess I'm just unlikeable.

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please what is something that Aspergers do that is unlikeable if they're being friendly

there has to be something im doing wrong jesus christ im just a normal person

>>35301462
no you're not
oringialsdas fuck robot dont mute me nigger

Bumper for common interest with this illness

There is only one thing you can do and that' to pretend to be someone you're not by imitating socially successful people. Therapists can help you identify your shortcomings if you can't, especially if they have a background in dealing with non-childhood autism

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>>35301579
people seem to like me and then they stop liking me. its always unexpected when it happens so I dont think overhauling my personality is going to change it

>>35300596
It is extremely difficult to understand unless you possess the same instincts as normies. The best you can do is study psychology a little auto-didactically, try not to "sperg out" and put yourself out of your comfort zone to gain experience and pick up various mannerisms, standard neutral responses to small talk and pop culture topics to talk about.

>>35301768
Do you want to fix it or not?

>>35301305
>this is acutally killing me, im dying
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_3q0fA0w3I0

i don't know how to help you. you should listen to this guy >>35301579 if you have thought about it a lot and can't figure it out then you're probably not going to be able to do it on your own. you either need a professional to help you evaluate your interactions or to ask your family and they're probably not going to be honest for fear of hurting your feelings.

Fuck, I'm kind of the opposite. I have zero friends but the moment I start getting closer to someone I push them away. S-sorry if you're one of the people I ostracized, anon.

>>35300484
Stop looking at it as if it was something consciously done to you and reach out to your friends more.

>>35301579
I unironically did this a bit back in highschool and it sort of worked out for me so give it a shot I guess.

>>35301808
This in all originality

>my friends will just start ignoring me or treat me like we were never friends

I can relate, this hurts more than I thought reading it